From what I feel and have experienced, the former are more approachable, "manageable" ...draw more honey (lol) than the latter... however
However...
my dears
a blend of both keeps the man on the hook.
I invite your manly thoughts on this subject.
Open book... or deep, dark woods?
I feel... while any man does enjoy the feeling (or illusion) of being 'on top' ...he also does not usually want a simpleton, which he will eventually tire of ...he needs a companion, a muse, a constant challenge... to spice things up ...even, if that means
What d'yall say?