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Old 12-17-2012, 11:48 AM   #1
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Unhappy Yahoo killed the chatrooms: Now where in the hell am I supposed to find married men now?

Yeah I know in the end bots had taken over the rooms but there were still hundreds of people in my area who hung out there every night and I've been meeting married men who were looking for a "friend w/benefit$" there since college.

What other UTR tactics are being used to find married men online?
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Old 12-17-2012, 01:58 PM   #2
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Aren't most of the men who see Providers married.

Where's the problem?
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Old 12-17-2012, 03:24 PM   #3
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Ashley Madison
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Old 12-17-2012, 06:47 PM   #4
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I second this, lol.
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Old 12-17-2012, 07:37 PM   #5
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??Do I have to pay for that?
Oh well let me check it out.
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Go to church ... there are plenty of married tards there.
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Old 12-17-2012, 08:42 PM   #7
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I second this, lol.
No one wants to meet an angry wife. So much taint!
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Old 12-30-2012, 04:04 PM   #8
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I wanted to start a new thread but maybe someone else has a good idea.

As for Ashley Madison: I think I just hit paydirt! I've had 2 uh....encounter$ and get messages everyday. I think I may like this site better than backpage.
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Old 12-30-2012, 07:15 PM   #9
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I assume you are looking for married men to see and perhaps extract a few bucks out of their wallets...so how about Eccie? I would venture to say that the majority of men here are married.
They even have a very popular chat room there.

Scroll to the top of this or any page on the site, and find the Chat tab.
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Old 12-30-2012, 07:20 PM   #10
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The chat is only useful if you are in Texas and ECCIE, well.....YMMV.
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I have a few questions

Are the men on AshleyMadison willing to go through screening?

Do you direct them to your website?

How do they react when you tell them you are an escort?
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Old 12-31-2012, 03:36 AM   #12
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Are the men on AshleyMadison willing to go through screening?

Do you direct them to your website?

How do they react when you tell them you are an escort?
Last question first.

Direct them to my website?!?!?!?! Lord have mercy no! I'm not about to tell them I'm an escort!!! It's rare to find a guy not in the hobby who would be accepting of that. I make it clear that they will have to break bread if they want some ass but I'm not about to tell them I'm a pro.


And screening, it's easier to squeeze info out of a civie than it is a hobbyist. I have zero difficulty in getting a man comfortable on the phone and him telling me all his personal business that can be validated.
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Old 12-31-2012, 04:31 AM   #13
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Last question first.

Direct them to my website?!?!?!?! Lord have mercy no! I'm not about to tell them I'm an escort!!! It's rare to find a guy not in the hobby who would be accepting of that. I make it clear that they will have to break bread if they want some ass but I'm not about to tell them I'm a pro.


And screening, it's easier to squeeze info out of a civie than it is a hobbyist. I have zero difficulty in getting a man comfortable on the phone and him telling me all his personal business that can be validated.
Thank you ArisRose for answering. I had a couple of beers when I asked the questions and now looking at them they are rather blunt. My apologies.

I was just curious because I thought I read somewhere else that they ban pros, so I was wondering how it worked for you. In fact, one of the ads that they had up was about how disease-ridden escorts are or some nonsense to that effect.
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Old 12-31-2012, 05:05 AM   #14
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If you don't make it obvious that you are a pro, they won't know.
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Old 12-31-2012, 05:23 AM   #15
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Eventually they will know.

And as evidenced by your need to look for a different "hunting ground/chatroom" they find out and move on so you have to find replacements.

Maybe if you changed your game a bit, you would find some "keepers".

There are plenty of MM who are looking/involved with FWB/SB situations (yes I am one), but we will run at the first sign of a "pro" even if it is UTR or Escort Lite.

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