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07-23-2014, 04:54 PM
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Join Date: Jul 18, 2014
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A public apology
I told myself I wouldn't be "that guy", but it turns out I am. I'm a newbie and I was in the process of setting up a date with Miss Valentina, but I chickened out. I guess I'm just not ready to jump into the hobby. I just want to apologize to Valentina again and to say that she was nothing but kind throughout the whole process.
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07-23-2014, 04:59 PM
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Join Date: Jan 8, 2010
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the hobby is not for everyone. Good luck in your future.
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07-23-2014, 05:03 PM
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Location: Austin
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Being a newb is rough. Check out the newbie friendly list that's around. Those girls know their screening and are good at breaking the ice. Miss V is worth the wait!
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07-23-2014, 05:22 PM
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Originally Posted by JennsLolli
Being a newb is rough. Check out the newbie friendly list that's around. Those girls know their screening and are good at breaking the ice. Miss V is worth the wait!
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Thanks for the kind words! I'm just sorry I wasted her valuable time.
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07-23-2014, 05:26 PM
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Join Date: Apr 9, 2011
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Originally Posted by braves_fan1
I told myself I wouldn't be "that guy", but it turns out I am. I'm a newbie and I was in the process of setting up a date with Miss Valentina, but I chickened out. I guess I'm just not ready to jump into the hobby. I just want to apologize to Valentina again and to say that she was nothing but kind throughout the whole process.
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One of the coolest girls in ATX and you shafted her??!?
Come one man, grow a pair...show up, have a glass of wine, if things don't proceed naturally have a nice conversation-keep your pants on-and go home with no damage done.
{{{I was scared to death my first time in the hobby , but quickly got over it...you will too}}}
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07-23-2014, 05:34 PM
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Originally Posted by Toyz
One of the coolest girls in ATX and you shafted her??!?
Come one man, grow a pair...show up, have a glass of wine, if things don't proceed naturally have a nice conversation-keep your pants on-and go home with no damage done.
{{{I was scared to death my first time in the hobby , but quickly got over it...you will too}}}
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That sounds like a great idea.
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07-23-2014, 05:41 PM
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I've been doing this off and on for awhile and I still get butterflies before appointments, new or old clients alike. Comes with the territory. =)
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07-23-2014, 05:46 PM
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Originally Posted by JennsLolli
I've been doing this off and on for awhile and I still get butterflies before appointments, new or old clients alike. Comes with the territory. =)
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Same here
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07-23-2014, 05:56 PM
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User ID: 165635
Join Date: Dec 6, 2012
Location: NW Austin, TX
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I'm willing to take my time esp with new clients. I may start with a back rub just to help the guy relax. Plus my ice breaker in my living room - named Budgie. I've also been told that I've got a warm and welcoming smile and personality.
I've been the first for a few guys new to the hobby. I've had some that have ended within minutes because the guy is just too nervous, with nothing more than simple conversation. And then others that have turned into regulars. You may never know until you actually meet.
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07-23-2014, 06:30 PM
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Indeed one of the coolest women I have met, period. You really did yourself a disservice by not at least meeting her.
She also has some of the toughest screening out there so that says something about you and your character that she was even willing to meet a new guy. My advice? call her back, pay for the time she is owed, and see if she'll give you a 2nd chance.
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07-23-2014, 10:41 PM
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Join Date: Apr 10, 2010
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My advice? call her back, pay for the time she is owed, and see if she'll give you a 2nd chance.
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Nooo.....the OP doesn't owe her any money. A public apology and free advertising for the provider is plenty good. It's commendable the OP even had the courtesy to publicly apologize.....how many guys would have done that?
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The OP just had cold feet; not that he intended to waste the provider's time from the start. It doesn't sound like the OP made an appointment and cancelled last minute without notifying said provider either........
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07-24-2014, 12:06 AM
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Join Date: Nov 27, 2012
Location: Texas
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It happens. I've moved 3 times in the past 7 years and I still get a little apprehensive in a new town. Eventually it'll happen and you'll end up "going all in", have 50 reviews and burn through 7 ATFs.
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07-24-2014, 06:50 AM
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I tell them I'm bring my digital scale. I lose a lot that way! 
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07-24-2014, 08:43 AM
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Join Date: Jan 7, 2010
Location: Central Texas
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pay for what? making a call and then not setting an appointment?
"in the process of making an appointment" is not a session.. tit for tat in this biz
If Providers had to pay me for all the times they crapped out on me.. lets just say I could buy a nice Rolex
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07-24-2014, 08:50 AM
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Join Date: Apr 9, 2011
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pay for what? making a call and then not setting an appointment?
"in the process of making an appointment" is not a session.. tit for tat in this biz
If Providers had to pay me for all the times they crapped out on me.. lets just I could buy nice Rolex
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I know a provider that has a nice Tag Heuer. You could bargain with her.
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