Please get a forum about Hobbyists who WASTE OUR TIME and PROMISE AND DONT DELIVER. Even NO CALL/NO SHOWS!! These guys make this business SLEEZY!!!

[Guest022414-1]

Seriously. If there was a place that we could put names and phone numbers and locations of guys who spend soooo much of our time wanting pictures, wanting this, wanting that, only to no call no show us when we could have booked another person in their place, that would be the biggest time saver! Houston is huge on no call no shows, but sometimes its just the same attention whore guy running around wasting all these providers time and we have no way to warn each others! If we get a 5 star hotel when touring and we have an entire day of scheduled no call no shows who confirmed appts and pretty much wanted to be a pen pal, then were not only losing money but we also lose the money we spent on the incall. Just an idea. It would make booking so much easier. Thanks!!

[Torito]

Have you tried Infoshare or the Powder Room?

Torito

[ArisRose]

Join providerbuzz.com

[ElisabethWhispers]

You can always post this type of information in the Infoshare area. However, it's been decided that having a "list" of sorts just isn't a good idea, at least for Eccie.

Reason? There is too much of a "slippery slope" thing going with these type of lists. Whereas one woman might just enjoy a man to the extreme, another woman might not like that same person or there was a misunderstanding or the appointment went South.

But please join us in the Infoshare area. All ladies are included in that section.

Also ... and this is from a woman (not a mod) who has had her share of no shows and men who tend to waste my time, I wish to offer some cheap advice.

This is part of our business. It's an unpleasant part but in the end, it's you who controls your time and the time that you allow the guys to take from you.

I've had to learn the hard way to limit my back and forths with men until I'm fairly sure of their intent. Have I lost out on some great appointments because I set limits? Oh sure.

But in the end, it feels good (and also provides you with more self worth, which is very important!) to have control over how much that you're willing to give of yourself without compensation.

Good luck!

Sincerely,
Elisabeth

[Doris day]

I couldn't agree more with all of you!! Last night I "thought" I had a definite appointment. Tried to call him and email after I left my house to meet him but got no response. This was a big disappointment because I had to get my furnace fixed and could have really used the money. I don't think I have access to the powder room yet but would luv to hear how other providers deal with these situations. This particular gentleman claimed to be in his 20's, in pgh on business but from Texas, with Texas in his handle....

[ElisabethWhispers]

Why don't you start a new topic on this issue? It's one that we all have to deal with on somewhat of a regular basis. You might get some good advice!!!

On a side note: Once you get about 65 posts, one review and a member for three months, you can apply to the powder room and get admitted. Just write: powderroom@eccie.net

Easy breezy.

Good luck!
Elisabeth

[OLindsay]

I get them sometimes and would love to share them with you ladies however, there are to many open areas that everyone can see on this website on different websites so I just don't even bother posting them here. But good luck ladies!

[ck1942]

Some very valid advice above.

Even with excellent screening and vouching "stuff" happens.

If so, best to let those providers who vouched for the "stuff-head" that there were issues.

Keep also your own personal list of providers who vouch for "stuff-heads" because if there are continuing issues, the issues may not be with the "stuff-heads" but with those vouching for them either one-on-one or via P411, Date Check, etc.

Certainly get to know better the quality providers in your local community - you are in the "Sisterhood."

Take care out there!