Provider - Says, “How do you not emotionally attached”

[SD0219]

So I have found a solid local girl….finally. I am able to get appts quickly and been going 1-2 times a week for a few weeks. It’s been great. Yesterday she ask me, “How don’t you get emotionally attached?”

I just tell her I have a good relationship with my spouse for emotional support. And this is just a hobby I enjoy. I will admit I have been been enjoying it a lot with her lately. I could see how it could get emotional.

My thinking all of a sudden is to cut the cord. I don’t need any drama or feeling coming my way.

[cajun]

Hmm...no recent review. I wonder who it could be...

[bluebiker]

Yeah, if you’re cuttin the cord let us in on it.

[annie@christophers]

Has made it alllll disallusinal.
I mean same..I get girls calling me ..
Annie I have a cake.. or a book.. OR WORSE A KNOCK ON MY HOME DOOR!!
JUST BECAUSE..well made the mistake of saying they read or eat..lol
When I of course address it its. Well pathetic. ANNIE we have a real bond. Your interfering with.
WHAT??
UM MISTER SUAVE SHES 25
UR 50
NO really thing there.
It's money.
Glad ya got along.

But stay in YOUR REAL PERSONAL LANE..
I mean really??

It's just so wrong. And people should realize that.

I was a hour
You were a trick.
Period.

Why was that so bad??

I like this thread. Keep it going people..

Xxoo annie

[bluebiker]

Annie, you mean all those cute girls you sent me over the years weren’t really in love with me? ��

[mriley000]

There are definitely sessions that are tricks for me. But I also have become good friends with some of the women over the years. I definitely get attached to some, but Annie is right that they are my kids age in some cases. It is not meant to be more life changing where I am supposed to leave my family and take up with this girl. But it also can be a good friendship. I have an ongoing friendship with a dozen or so, where we keep in touch. Nothing wrong with that imo. But dont let it change you and your real life.

[Footfein75]

have a couple ladies that i chit chat with a good bit ....buttttt my emotional atachment is at home...the hobby is for pure physical gratification...now yes i do like a lady that can hold a intelegent conversation and prefer regulars...but no emotions(why i hobby over trying pick up someone at a bar or such)

[Nikki Tylor]

Absolutely you can fall in love but not everyone is married and not everyone has a fetish to be w a 20 year old if that were the case I wouldn’t be Nikki Tylor.

I have friends in this industry who have married their regulars . One I used to do doubles with that’s out of this industry and many who I follow on Twitter . They are happy and successful.

If you’re single and the guy is single why the hell not we are human and life is short . I want to enjoy and be happy like most of you that are on here are seeking happiness even if momentarily.

Should you leave your wife for an escort ? You should leave your wife before you start anything if that’s the road you’re seeking but if not that’s why we are PROFESSIONALS not some lady you pick up in a bar .

If the provider is unprofessional then yes it’s time to cut her off!!!

[annie@christophers]

Originally Posted by bluebiker

Annie, you mean all those cute girls you sent me over the years weren’t really in love with me? ��

Sorry boo. Lol

Xxoo

[annie@christophers]

Originally Posted by mriley000

There are definitely sessions that are tricks for me. But I also have become good friends with some of the women over the years. I definitely get attached to some, but Annie is right that they are my kids age in some cases. It is not meant to be more life changing where I am supposed to leave my family and take up with this girl. But it also can be a good friendship. I have an ongoing friendship with a dozen or so, where we keep in touch. Nothing wrong with that imo. But dont let it change you and your real life.

You still owe money over that last love encounter!! Ha!
Xxoo

[annie@christophers]

Originally Posted by Footfein75

have a couple ladies that i chit chat with a good bit ....buttttt my emotional atachment is at home...the hobby is for pure physical gratification...now yes i do like a lady that can hold a intelegent conversation and prefer regulars...but no emotions(why i hobby over trying pick up someone at a bar or such)

And the money goes toooooo!
Lol

Alas. Have fun..
Then GO HOME..

I.J.S
XXOO ANNIE

[Captain Crunch]

Certain kind of desperate or narcissistic to think if I cheated with you, I wouldn't cheat on you.
Unless you're a swinger and her too, I know too many who thought love was actually lust. Seen too many providers get married and still advertise.

If she can't do anything but this and succeed, RUUUUUNNNNNNM!
The good ones aren't looking for love here, more like a payout.if you find one only doin this for kicks temporary, has her own business or career you might be able to turn her. But, better be something special cuz they can get average here and the money ��

[Nikki Tylor]

Haha kinda funny who’s the narcissist to think everyone is the same and has the same feelings and situations.

Sounds like someone might have that experience in an Arrangement and figured out the provider/hobbyist didn’t ever truly love them because it was exactly just that however this happens in the REAL world too not just here lol - Maybe a little bitter perhaps …

Anyways it’s just opinions and you know what they say about opinions, Rt ? Lol

[Captain Crunch]

Huh?

Oh, did you think I was referring to you?

My point is we guys tell the same story about how we cheat because the wife won't do this or that, and most of you believe it. It had nothing to do with my wife. Cheating is a choice, and anything different is only better until she becomes the wife. It's not looks, sex, half the wives look and perform as you do. We just want something new without drama for a sec. It takes two for sure, but I wouldn't fall for anyone who can't make a living other than this. That's not love, it's a dependent.

Anyone who thinks a cheater won't cheat again is naive. Facts ��

[Nikki Tylor]

Thank God we aren’t talking about me because I been a gym owner amongst other things prior to Nikki Tylor .

Like I said in my first comment I have friends that are successful that have met in this industry and that’s facts and they are happy that’s facts I like to go by that instead of what someone thinks .

Not everyone is a cheater and some are legally separated or single so they don’t fall into that bracket.

Everyone deserves happiness whether someone is in this line of work or not you will always have those who hate on others because of their own misery .

Now I can say I been in an arrangement twice once w a cheater and once w a single man so I do know the difference.