i also do anal alot and have found that if you get a nice anal toy i have an anal toy that also vibrates and have bought the anal lube for times that i have not done it in a while otherwise i just use a nice liquid lube, the adult stores sell something that works as a slight numbing lube so it eases the pain of getting it in, it has worked great for me, but thats just my opinion also have you tried ky yours and mine? they have a great chocolate flavor and strawberry flavor they come together taste awesome makes u want to swallow the whole thing