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Old 05-11-2011, 08:50 AM   #1
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I really was interested in a piece of a conversation on another thread about emotionally needy clients and the problems they cause. One lady said they tended to be single men and another lady said they tended to be married men. I personally believe that emotionally needy clients tend to be liberals, but......anyway, I was interested in hearing views......
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Old 05-11-2011, 09:18 AM   #2
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I really was interested in a piece of a conversation on another thread about emotionally needy clients and the problems they cause. One lady said they tended to be single men and another lady said they tended to be married men. I personally believe that emotionally needy clients tend to be liberals, but......anyway, I was interested in hearing views......
LMAO, as a Libertarian, I have to ask, have you ever met anyone from the religious right? Talk about being driven by pure, illogical emotion. Essentially identical to the extreme liberals in all but their vision of societal perfection, otherwise, no difference at all.
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Old 05-11-2011, 09:23 AM   #3
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LMAO, as a Libertarian, I have to ask, have you ever met anyone from the religious right? Talk about being driven by pure, illogical emotion. Essentially identical to the extreme liberals in all but their vision of societal perfection, otherwise, no difference at all.
I know many. Certainly belief in god and belief in liberalism has no basis in fact, but religious people generally seem logical to me......
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Emotionally needy people are lonely - they may be married or single, but they feel a lack of connection, warmth and the sense that they are significant in someone's heart. Like wandering through a deser in search of water, you may cling to any mirage.
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Emotionally needy people are lonely - they may be married or single, but they feel a lack of connection, warmth and the sense that they are significant in someone's heart. Like wandering through a desert in search of water, you may cling to any mirage.
Very apt description.
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Emotionally needy people are lonely - they may be married or single, but they feel a lack of connection, warmth and the sense that they are significant in someone's heart. Like wandering through a deser in search of water, you may cling to any mirage.
If a person is clingy. Or emotionally needy....that's who they are. Not their environment.
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I know many. Certainly belief in god and belief in liberalism has no basis in fact, but religious people generally seem logical to me......
I suspect their "logical" appeal for you is that you don't have to listen to the religious folks - they whine and complain to god directly...

As to the thread - I agree with Lauren. I believe many people search for connections and sometimes they will cling to any mirage. But to steal a line from a movie..."People don't drink the sand because they're thirsty. They drink the sand because they don't know the difference." Emotions are powerful and often confusing...

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I really was interested in a piece of a conversation on another thread about emotionally needy clients and the problems they cause. One lady said they tended to be single men and another lady said they tended to be married men. I personally believe that emotionally needy clients tend to be liberals, but......anyway, I was interested in hearing views......
Hmmm they tend to be single? The ones I knew were married.
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Hmmm they tend to be single? The ones I knew were married.
Yes me too. MaRShall misquoted the original "voice" of the post i made, it was neither abozt being married or single or being liberal vs conservative, it was about - my opinion - that emotionally needy singles tend to be more dangerous than emotionally needy married guys (because the latter get restrained by their marriage).
When it comes to violence (physical violence) towards escorts mostly the guys were single, since married ones mostly have too much too loose to get obsessed too much.
I`ve wittnessed several women getting in touch with single but conservative (haha Marshall, no liberals) clients who simply did not like the fact that the women continued to work as escorts to be independent and then became aggressive and jealous or violent eventually.

When it comes to psychological abuse (verbally and emotionally degrading interactions) i have seen that to be mostly with married men who are submissive to their wives , love them but are unable to get their desires adressed. These are the "power" freaks in search of some ego boost by some escort, that they feel can`t do harm to the marriage. (Note: not talking about paying clienbts here, talking about clients turned private lovers and who DON`T pay the escort anymore - but are unable to offer any other form of relationship than a escort client based relationship - just for their ego they don`t pay - and usually the escorts involved are way younger than the guy so they don`t realize the threadmill they are in until they wisen up - many years later)
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Follow up questions:

What kind of stuff do they do?
How do you handle them?
How do you recognize them?
Are you aware of any ladies that use it against them to milk them for money?
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Emotionally needy people are lonely - they may be married or single, but they feel a lack of connection, warmth and the sense that they are significant in someone's heart. Like wandering through a deser in search of water, you may cling to any mirage.
I agree, and instead of changing their life for the better they drag someone else down their hell too ;-) . Escorts due to being available for money tend to be easily susceptible for these guys. Special ego boost: When escort starts to date emotional needy client for free. The ultimate kick for the guy :-)) (who does not give very much in return - to say quid pro quo)
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I still say Lauren is right. The lack of connection does not necessarily mean with a spouse or SO, many people that are celibate or have low sexual drive may be satisfied by the minimal contact or interaction of platonic relationships, or relationships with children & other extended family members. Some that may have lost a SO may never feel the closeness and connection they felt with that person, some may fall in love again. Everybody is wired differently but the lack of social and emotional interaction can definitely take a toll on a person's wellbeing; it's not the actuality but what the individual feels it is.
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I suspect their "logical" appeal for you is that you don't have to listen to the religious folks - they whine and complain to god directly...
that might be part of the answer...........
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Emotionally needy people are lonely - they may be married or single, but they feel a lack of connection, warmth and the sense that they are significant in someone's heart. Like wandering through a deser in search of water, you may cling to any mirage.

and eat the sand!
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