Mental, Physical, or Both?

[notb4u]

Oh to be a teen again; virility is wasted on the youth.

There was a time when I could "rise" to the occasion on command. Nowadays, the only way my member awakens is during a Asian massage or if I have...wait for it...an actual "connection" with a provider.

I'll elaborate...

I see beautiful women everyday, and I pay to see a few naked once or twice a week. Ten years ago, I could run through any red-light district in Europe and go 4 or 5 times before I'd pucker out. Now I have to book extra time, to engage in conversation (almost as if I am courting), to get stimulated enough to engage in 20-30 minutes of vigorous activity necessary to achieve that 10 second muscle spasm. Unless of course I venture off to an AMP, where a decent massage will "stimulate" the blood flow needed to stiffen up.

So fellow mongers and providers...

Is this mental, physical, or a bit of both? Your feedback, good, bad, or indifferent would be greatly appreciated. And cheaper than a visit to the doctor or shrink.

[ttmax]

Yes, those where the times, I myself remember, but I don't want to be young again, I don't want to see the luner landing, I don't want to go thur JFK assasination, hell I don't want to see Hailys commet again, I lived my life, now is the young peopIes turn to "live"

[flinde]

just go to MD and see if you can safely take Viagra. replace your angst with hard pecker pounding.

those pills take me back to 1972, the backseat of my 1962 rambler american 220 convertable fucking the whole way through American Pie. The long version. And still hard. That's back when I was preoccupied with sex.

[ttmax]

Oh!, 1972, I did non stop for hour and forty five minutes at San Pedro park at 2am till 3:45, my first white chick. ...hell I don't know why I stop, but never did see her again. I heard she was aski n g for me and me her, but hell i was in high school and girls all over the place....haha!

[Blondie xxx]

Some men need to be stimulated mentally when they get older it's OK u r normal.

U could always try having the provider do an erotic massage while "connecting" with her and if u r taking any blood pressure meds maybe wait to take it after the session this may help with ur blood circulation.

Disclaimer:
Even though I'm in the medical field u cannot hold me liable for any actions that may occur

[Milfhunter1]

Do you work out regularly? Do you take any vitamins/supplements? Ask your doctor if you can take a tribulus supplement. It will help raise your testosterone. What I'm asking is what helped me. Good luck.

[Chincho]

Mental!! Are you serious? If sex is mental then I'm the quickest most unsatisfying fuck there is!!!

[rockerrick]

Yep and you boomerang faster than a hooktard! lol
Maybe another I'm leaving thread is in order?

[Xur]

With Exos its all physical but the awoken I feel like we have to establish a connection, and the Humans are all over the place. I just wait til friday when all the guardians are willing to do anything for some exotic piece. I just barter The Nine's trash for some special services.

[AtlasEndures]

I'm no big town, fancy doctor, but I have been led to understand that drugs can help...

[Camille Fox]

To me, sex starts at the mental level. I am able to achieve amazing highs when my mind is in the right place. As a provider, once you are able to control the mental part, the physical part follows. It is what allows me to enjoy and provide enjoyment to and from gents from different walks of life.


Camille

[Doglegg]

I'm mental.

There has to be some form of connection for me to get off.

The physical portion was taken care of with a little operation, pharmaceuticals did not work (but that really could have been mental as well).

But even when mentally stimulated I take over two hours to finally peak.

Hence, no AMP, no BJ (lockjaw) or HJ (hand cramps) queens.

And at today's market rate of only $199.95 per hour, FS to shot on goal is near monetarily unattainable. For those at the upper end of the spectrum, well no since even bothering.

Instead I have tried to learn to be more about pleasuring the partner to ensure she believes it was time well spent, which seems to go against the typical Monger code "She gets the money, I get the pleasure."

So, I wait for a one on one meeting to ensure there is chemistry and an economic understanding. Sometimes miracles happen.

Each monger is in this for his own reason(s), mine have changed with age and circumstances to where I seek a spark and to give pleasure.

This is a very good topic.

[notb4u]

I'd liked to thank all who have commented on the post so far and hope others will continue to chime in as well.

@ flinde - I've been reluctant to try the pill, but I am considering.

@ Milfhunter1 - I workout 3-6 days a week, as work permits, mostly Tabata routines. I can still bench a little over 300 lbs, squat and dead-lift close to 600 lbs; I get in 8-12 miles of running a week as well.

@ rockerrick - Honored to have an ECCIE demi-god comment on my lowly post.

Ha, you got me. I did try to convince myself that I could walk away from this "hobby" awhile back. And forgive me if my post leads anyone to believe that I might attempt to retreat again; I can assure you, I've given up on that idea.

[repete offender]

Have your testosterone level checked. Normal should be between 300 and 1,000. I was at below 300, in the 200's. See your Urologist and with the little blue helper, you should "spring back to life" in no time! Testapel, slow release T pellets placed under your skin might help as well, but check to see if your insurance covers it. As I am not a MD, please check with your physician as to the best road for you to travel.