Vacation who would you take for few days??

[not~ur~typical]

I am just curious from you guys that have seen some of these lovely ladies who would you take with you on a 3 or 4 day vacation. "if there are providers that even do this type of thing" I would think it would take a provider that liked what she does and that would understand the situation. I mean after all you would be together for 3 or 4 days so you would want someone that is fun and outgoing, able to adapt to situations. or do you know of any providers that do 3 or 4 day vacations with clients. Just want some opinions and info from maybe someone that has taken this type of trip. i am planning my trip to playa del car Mexico in Feb. would love to have a fun "VERY SEXY BIKINI BODY" girl that would make the trip with me. just don't know if there is a 9 or 10 that would have the personality to make it as fun as the thought in my head makes it seem..i.e. NSA ........... ??? anyone....

[rrabbit6926]

I've already talk to my ATF about doing a weekend get away, possible a cruise of somthing next year. I would suggest that before you take someone, anyone on a 2-3 day vacation. You get to know them, via several seccions or maybe some overnights. You both have to feel comfortable with each other. Otherwise you'll be taking someone alone who might look good but is not going to have a good time if you both don't click. Happy hunting.

[ANONONE]

There is a problem with this type of question. . .

For instance. . .

While I would love to wake up to something as lovely as this next to me in bed at some tropical paradise for a few days. . .



I have no idea how well we would connect in casual and social settings. To make a vacation work, there would have to be structured alone time--even if there seems to be chemistry in previous shorter sessions, that will not always parlay into bliss for a week. The only context either of you have for making a decision is within the context of renting passion for an hour at a time. Which begs the ultimate question:

Why fuck up a good thing?

You are paying for a wonderful fantasy an hour at a time--and then she goes home and never contacts you again--unless you ask her to.

[Tiffany Cums]

I have to agree with all of the above. You would want to get to know a provider pretty well first...long term regular and perhaps a few overnights to get a real feel for who she really is. Almost anyone can put on a game face for an hour or two at a time....not so much for several days at a time.

[charlestudor2005]

If you don't already have an ATF, I don't think is going to work, for the reasons stated here: http://eccie.net/showthread.php?t=144155.

Having said that, there are some ladies whose personalities on this board would attract me, but I have no idea whether or not it would be a match in person.

[London Rayne]

Originally Posted by ANONONE

There is a problem with this type of question. . .

For instance. . .

While I would love to wake up to something as lovely as this next to me in bed at some tropical paradise for a few days. . .



I have no idea how well we would connect in casual and social settings. To make a vacation work, there would have to be structured alone time--even if there seems to be chemistry in previous shorter sessions, that will not always parlay into bliss for a week. The only context either of you have for making a decision is within the context of renting passion for an hour at a time. Which begs the ultimate question:

Why fuck up a good thing?

You are paying for a wonderful fantasy an hour at a time--and then she goes home and never contacts you again--unless you ask her to.

I will just spoil that fantasy for ya right here lol...I am a small doses kind of gal...hence I am divorced.

I prefer the flirting and build up that leads to the actual date, but personally many of these vacation and overnight stories I hear scare the crap out of me. It is borderline falling for the girl if not already...no thanks!! I totally agree...why mess up the fantasy? I am not an actress by a long shot lol, so if I get annoyed it is going to come out. I prefer a man not pay to put up with that drama lol.

[ANONONE]

Originally Posted by Tiffany Cums

I have to agree with all of the above. You would want to get to know a provider pretty well first...long term regular andp erhaps a few overnights to get a real feel for who she really is. Almost anyone can put on a game face for an hour or two at a time....not so much for several days at a time.

Originally Posted by charlestudor2005

If you don't already have an ATF, I don't think is going to work, for the reasons stated here: http://eccie.net/showthread.php?t=144155.

Having said that, there are some ladies whose personalities on this board would attract me, but I have no idea whether or not it would be a match in person.

BINGO!

I mean I would love to see if I could handle a sexy little Hoover like Tiffany for a week (she knows this is a compliment to her from me) we may hate each other--especially when I fart and snore and such--or she does.

Even Reese Witherspoon or Kate Hudson can only be cute and sexy for a few hours at a time.

Now if the arrangement included separate rooms and was essentially like bringing a sure GFE a few times per week, but you had alone time--that is a possible fun time. In other words if you choose to say hello and hang out at the pool or Tiki bar, so be it--no obligation either way--that would be a nice vacation.

Maybe if you wanted a dinner date or other social companion, you could also have a rate sheet for that. There used to be a provider around here that had an awesome activity price list for seeing plays, wine and cheese, meeting for a drink, etc.

Anybody remember who that was?

[charlestudor2005]

Originally Posted by ANONONE

Even Reese Witherspoon or Kate Hudson can only be cute and sexy for a few hours at a time.

You're showing your youth. In my day, it was Meg Ryan, Demi Moore and Goldie Hawn.

[rednecksatyr]

My ATF (current one that is) is younger than I by more years that I like to think about. We enjoy the short visits and a dinner date now and then. We both agree that a 24 hour or longer gig would be a mistake.

[London Rayne]

Agreed! A vacation would have to be with someone who was closer to my age, liked the same things I do such as Tennis, horseback riding, laying on the beach, tiki bars, and ESPECIALLY music!! It's so hard to find a guy who appreciates Breaking Benjamin these days lol! On the flip side, I HATE shopping so he would never be subjected to that bit he he.

[charlestudor2005]

Originally Posted by London Rayne

It's so hard to find a guy who appreciates Breaking Benjamin these days lol!

If that's anything like Private Benjamin, I'm in!!

[London Rayne]

Not quite lol.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=buc6j73cZW8

[ANONONE]

Originally Posted by charlestudor2005

You're showing your youth. In my day, it was Meg Ryan, Demi Moore and Goldie Hawn.

Hmmmm. . .who says I am young--besides tell me a Goldie Hawn and Kate Hudson would not be a dream mother/daughter duo!

[FatBastard]

I guess I am an adventurous soul....

I saw a provider on a Friday for lunch. Afterwards she asked me what I was up to and I said I was going to drive to Nawlins to go play...she asked if she could go..why not and we drove over there that night. She had never been and we had an absolute blast the entire weekend. I got hammered at the craps table and was shoveling chips to her and got so drunk she had to help me back to the room. I took in $8K and she accounted for every nickel. I think we had playtime once the entire weekend. Afterwards she never asked for anything and thanked me for the trip.

The following weekend, we went to Vega$. Had a blast again. Did not win anything, but saw great shows and ran the road. Her first trip out there. She got homesick so I had to send her home early which was ok. Afterwards we lost touch.

Same deal with another provider; saw her on Thursday and we took off to Nawlins on Friday and stayed up all night taking in the parades and Bourbon Street and worked our way back home casino hopping. Had a blast. Did not have playtime. We were having too much fun and kinda forgot about all of that.

The next time I met a provider on a Wednesday and asked her if she wanted to go to Nawlins and she agreed. I go to pick her up on Friday night after her last appointment and she asks if her daughter can go. Well, what the hell, why not. So her high school daughter goes with us. Now my car is a two seater convertible type so it was an uncomfortable drive but they made it work. The three of us had a blast. Of course, I put them up in their own room and there was no play time, but it was all about having fun.

Again, none of these providers asked for compensation (which I offered but they declined); I guess the trip was enough. I go first class!

Anyway, so when I do this, I think there are keys to success. Communication, Respect and Desire.

Always communicate what expectations are and what is working and not working. Respect each others space and privacy. And you must have a desire to make it work and to make it fun.

I do have one rule that I learned the hard way. If you do this, it's best to agree to be exclusive to one another during the trip. My ex wife went through about $20k one weekend...and I had to cut her off. So, she was turning tricks while I was either sleeping, at the spa or playing myself, so she could have more money to put in the slots. I found this out from my host. Needless to say, that pretty much ended that one!

[not~ur~typical]

These are a lot of great points you guys make.