Provider comments about review

[rrabbit6926]

I'm curious as to why the site doesn't allow provider to comment about their own reviews. I've seen some sites that let them put a little post about their experiance but don't give a full story. With a regular review you hear the he said side of the story which is what most of us hobbist want to hear but you don't get the she said side of the story. I'm thinking that they should have a little space for the providers to put notes about thier review if they want to of course. Like how much they enjoyed it themselves or would love to give them a reference. Doesn't have to be detailed but i'm sure the ladies would like to tell their part of the story. I'm sure with a some bad review your going to get bad comments from the ladies as we'll but at least they would have a voice. Just a thought

[lionheart]

[Torito]

Originally Posted by rrabbit6926

I'm curious as to why the site doesn't allow provider to comment about their own reviews. I've seen some sites that let them put a little post about their experiance but don't give a full story. With a regular review you hear the he said side of the story which is what most of us hobbist want to hear but you don't get the she said side of the story. I'm thinking that they should have a little space for the providers to put notes about thier review if they want to of course. Like how much they enjoyed it themselves or would love to give them a reference. Doesn't have to be detailed but i'm sure the ladies would like to tell their part of the story. I'm sure with a some bad review your going to get bad comments from the ladies as we'll but at least they would have a voice. Just a thought

If providers comment freely on their reviews an number of things could occur:
Some providers will consider this to be an unlimited ad forum.

Major drama will occurr when the provider disagrees with the information that she should not have anyway. (ROS)

A major lovefest will occurr between the reviewer and the provider.


If a provider feels that she has been wronged she may defend herself with her side, one time, in Coed Discussions. Here is her voice. Then it is finished for both sides. Both have had their turn. No on going he said/she said.

If a provider feels the need to comment positively about a client, she may do so in Coed Discussions.


Options are there now. The rules are intended to prevent runaway drama. Doesn't always work, but it helps.

Torito

[rrabbit6926]

I'm still new and learning. Thanks for the response.

[Torito]

You're welcome. Anybody who is not still learning is already dead.

Torito

[kendra kayy]

Originally Posted by rrabbit6926

I'm curious as to why the site doesn't allow provider to comment about their own reviews. I've seen some sites that let them put a little post about their experiance but don't give a full story. With a regular review you hear the he said side of the story which is what most of us hobbist want to hear but you don't get the she said side of the story. I'm thinking that they should have a little space for the providers to put notes about thier review if they want to of course. Like how much they enjoyed it themselves or would love to give them a reference. Doesn't have to be detailed but i'm sure the ladies would like to tell their part of the story. I'm sure with a some bad review your going to get bad comments from the ladies as we'll but at least they would have a voice. Just a thought

I like having the option of commenting on my reviews that appear on other sites. I almost always keep it short...maybe 1-2 sentences. So, while not everyone comments on reviews or as I see, think we don't have the right to, I believe its a nice option. This can be useful to us ladies to use as feedback from the providers point of view of the gentleman and/or the experience. I'm by all means not saying I think we should be writing a full on review or any thing of the sorts. But just a few words I think is sometimes good!! Just my 2 cents!!

[GneissGuy]

Providers can post in the coed forums as a response to a review, just not in the review forums.

It usually doesn't go well for the provider. Too often, the provider comes across as a drama queen.

[Tetas]

Originally Posted by GneissGuy

Providers can post in the coed forums as a response to a review, just not in the review forums.

It usually doesn't go well for the provider. Too often, the provider comes across as a drama queen.

That's one of the reasons, like the OP, I kinda wish they could post in the review.
If every review you read about the girl turned into a drama-fest, NEXT!
You wouldn't have to search various areas for the drama, it's all there in one neat little package.
Hell, I've passed on girls just because of the WK's that CAN defend her in the reviews, what's the difference if she's in there as well?

A guy can dream can't he...

[Raphael]

Originally Posted by rrabbit6926

I'm curious as to why the site doesn't allow provider to comment about their own reviews.

Just today I posted a comment in one of the Alert sections on a provider who did not provide the sensuous service her advertisement promises. She logged on and started a sustained harassment, smear and insult campaign against me, in collaboration with an apparent client.

Avoiding such things is the reasons why reviews are BCD and ladies not allowed to respond.

This may also be the reason why hobbiests who give BCD info to their favorite Providers are so disliked. THey can place hobbiests who give honest reviews at risk of retaliatory action.

[smokey1187]

I agree with Raphael, a provider once told me she was a little nervious about meeting me because another provider who I spoke about her poor service posted some bad info on me saying I was someone to beware of. She created a story about me, luckly I have a good repour with a few Providers who backed me up. Having a provider post a comment about a review is just asking for trouble. Forgive my spelling spell check isn't working

[burkalini]

I have posted alot of reviews on this site and others. While 95 percent of my reviews are positive when I post a negative review on a provider the usual reply from the provider is I am lying and they are being falsely reviewed. Providers ususally don't take bad reviews very well. They should consider it a tool to improve their business. Like a survey. Leave the reviews as they are and as you say let them speak in the coed section

[NshoreGeorge]

I always thought that Provider Reviews were only open for us Dawgs to read..... If not let us Dawgs have access to the Ladies only (John Review??) section.......
Not really......

[Mokoa]

Anyone can view the review threads. Only those male members with Premium Access can view the Rest Of The Story stuff or anything posted within PRIVATE tags.

However...

There are those male members who will report the ROS stuff back to their provider friends. Unfortunate, but true.

[Dharma]

Originally Posted by NshoreGeorge

I always thought that Provider Reviews were only open for us Dawgs to read..... If not let us Dawgs have access to the Ladies only (John Review??) section.......
Not really......

Um, there is no "John Review" section...

I wish reviews just stood on their own with no comments of any kind. If people have comments to add, why don't they just write their own review of the provider? All the "+1" bumps add nothing to the review.

[Guest071711]

Yeah I had a good review at the same time the man was trying to knock me down saying my photos were "pre baby". Maybe he needs to take a better look at me next time and not be the judge of when my photos were taken cause he was not there when they were taken.
I never post pics over 6 months old, it no fair to the gentlemen nor to my conscience