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Old 07-17-2024, 12:37 PM   #1
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Default Ok - Let’s Get Honest

So, I think I’ve been in the hobby long enough to have seen the good, the bad, and thankfully not the complete ugly. Today topic - pricing, experience, expectations and the gap between them all.

I was reading about keke a bit on a recent encounter. I have never spent over for her. Why? Well… as most of you know, . Ok, fine. The excuse will be, “But I saw you for “x” so you’re not going to get “Tryst” treatment.

Look, everyone fucks a certain way. It’s their personal style and it’s just you. This is why it’s fun to fuck several people because it’s always different. Different sound, different feel, different smell, different body, all of it. At least, from a guy’s perspective and one of which keeps you ladies in business. But that’s not enough. If you’re not into it and are unresponsive, it doesn’t matter if you’re a girl or a girl, it’s not worth the price of admission. This is precisely why we refer to the Brazilians as Russian Rolutte. Gorgeous always, performance not so much. It’s a tough pill to swallow when you’re forking out that kind of coin.

Gentleman… ladies are who they are and do what they do. Nobody can flip a switch in bed like that. If their attitude sucks at 1 bill, it’ll suck at 5 bills too. Don’t be dumb and do gullible. They only thing overpaying will do is get you head of the line privileges, and if they are great and it’s warranted - by all means. However, we all know most aren’t - look at raising her rates to ridiculous amounts for C - sakes. I’ve seen her at lower rates, and at higher - same girl, same performance. You’re getting the same, if not damn near the same treatment no matter what you fork out because it’s just how people naturally are when they fuck.

Ladies, if you truly do pull this shit and have an attitude, or lack in performance just because you agreed to a QV versus a hour session; you’re just doing yourselves in. Guys constantly test the waters with a provider they haven’t seen. Who want to buy a gallon of ice cream they’ve never had when they can get a spoon sample? If it’s good, they’ll buy more of it. Either in greater QV volume or longer times. So if you’re going to have an attitude, like the reviewer was mentioning (and comments) about keke, and many other reviews…. then I’d suggest never raising your expectations above a 1– mark.

Mongers are spending thousands and thousands of dollars playing in this hobby, and if you have to complain about squeezing more then 1.0 out of mongers, it’s you. Plain and simple.

Expectations -
Men: Fucking bathe. Always a complain from girls and I believe it. Also, don’t act like an asshole, they are people too. Paid for or not, come clean, come correct. If you say you’re going to show, show, and if you can’t, respectfully cancel. Maybe even flip them a few extra bucks next time you visit them.

Women: Quit with the bait and switch bullshit. Take off the filters and be honest. Set reasonable rates by being honest of what you have to offer. We’re all well over the GPS running rampant around here. Also, lower your expectations we can schedule days in advance. 90% of your clients are fucking married and can’t schedule like that, which is always the problem I face trying to schedule with Bailey when she comes to town, and why I’ve never seen BBG to date. You need to be extremely flexible because we don’t need you, you need US. And finally…. Short up your TCB skills. Amber is a fucking local superstar because she gets it. Reasonable donations, extremely hot body, beautiful face, and doesn’t become full of herself. That girl could buy herself a house by now with cash if she had better financial skills.

It’s been some time coming, but all of this needs to he said. Feel free to add anything I missed, on both sides of the coin.

EDIT: One other thing… guys, quit with your bullshit trying to gain favor with any of these women by showcasing everything on these forums. It’s pathetic and you have no game.
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Old 07-17-2024, 02:13 PM   #2
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Well said! Bet you feel better!
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Old 07-17-2024, 02:51 PM   #3
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Nice post.
Spot on when it comes to treating the providers with respect. We aren’t “better” than them by any stretch of the imagination. You can’t criticize a dive bar if you drink there every Friday…
I have certain rules, and as such, I respect that a provider does as well.
I can’t say this enough - be clean, showered, and treat them like a lady and with respect. That’s how I roll, and I promise you…if I see a provider for 140 and another monger drops 250 on the same provider but acts like a dick, I’ll get far better service and have a much better experience. Every. Single. Time.
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Old 07-17-2024, 04:06 PM   #4
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Awesome post Lancer and very well said. I for one love a good fucking rant once in a while. Brings us all back to reality…the fellas and the ladies both.
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Old 07-18-2024, 05:59 AM   #5
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Free - I completely and whole heartedly agree with 95% of what you said. I have worked hard at every job I ever had - even when I was making shit wages - it is how I am wired. If a girl has a bad attitude at a lower rate she just has a bad attitude. And honestly if she is accepting dramatically lower rates from one customer - she doesn’t have enough/any business at the higher rate - which means she isn’t worth what she thinks she is.

Where I diverge from your opinion is on the ladies who require advanced scheduling. I am in the same boat as you - maybe worse. But my lack of availability is no reason for these ladies to change their business model if it works for them. I am sure that BBG and Bailee are doing just fine without our business - I don’t think they need us. I hate the fact that my ability to schedule in advance has all but disappeared - but that is my problem not theirs.
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Old 07-18-2024, 08:16 AM   #6
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Proviers are like yelp reviews. You go to your favorite place to eat 4-5 everything's great etc do a review then you go and the food sucks service was horrible but no review because you don't want to be that guy qhen your server co.es over and says hey didn't you just give us a big NO ? but then you go back its great etc . Thats where good and bad reviews from others help. This is a YMMV type opportunity. Ive had great with one for yrs then it drops off badly but I keep going back and it gets better then it gets bad again. We all have our GOTO ladies so best thing is just treat them well keep them happy but if they get overwhelmed crap rolls downhill fast
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Old 07-20-2024, 12:18 AM   #7
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I’d just like to pop in & respond to the bit about me.

With notice & reliability, I’ll start as early as 5am and end as late as 1am. I’m in town an average of 2 days per month. I must admit, my TCB has gotten increasingly worse any worse over the years (my bad) but I truly to make an effort to be accommodating.
Some trips fully book 1-2 weeks in advance, but sometimes I can make same day work.

There will always be other whores and there will always be other mongers.
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Old 07-21-2024, 12:54 PM   #8
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I've been around since 2017 and in that time, I've noticed that the younger and/or more beautiful a provider is, the worse her attitude and service. Scarlett and KeKe are both examples. I'd see both of them but it's just not worth it. I'll jack off instead.
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Old 07-21-2024, 02:06 PM   #9
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There will always be other whores and there will always be other mongers.
Language ma’am, language. Can’t believe the language cumming from such a lady.

Fingers crossed it’s even naughtier behind closed doors.

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Old 07-21-2024, 07:18 PM   #10
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I’d just like to pop in & respond to the bit about me.

With notice & reliability, I’ll start as early as 5am and end as late as 1am. I’m in town an average of 2 days per month. I must admit, my TCB has gotten increasingly worse any worse over the years (my bad) but I truly to make an effort to be accommodating.
Some trips fully book 1-2 weeks in advance, but sometimes I can make same day work.

There will always be other whores and there will always be other mongers.

Gotta say I respect that BBG is an active participant. Though I don’t have time to see her and $ bandwidth due to my full dance card, those of us who have access to a consistent partnership are always appreciative because as one of my favorites said, “it does get tiring seeing dicks (the penis, not the asshole) day after day.” Does it become like Tetris where you just dream about penises? I think there should be a category where providers can talk shit about clients because I might actually pay to see those comments. I appreciate the nicknames I’m saved under which almost always makes me laugh. They have to differentiate us somehow.
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Old 07-21-2024, 07:57 PM   #11
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The ladies already do have a forum to discuss our penises and the assholes. We as men don’t have access to it. And it’s probably good we don’t lol.
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Old 07-21-2024, 09:32 PM   #12
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And where might that be?
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Old 07-22-2024, 08:36 AM   #13
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These girls can’t even get along doing duos for more than a couple of weeks, let alone coordinate something like that. When I banged Morgan Masters a couple of times a couple of years ago she was talking about how she wanted to coordinate a forum for all providers to discuss mongers for safety reasons among others. Think that was done? Nope… she’s held up at a shit hotel in central trying to work her GPS best she can making stupid specials to suck gullible idiots in.

In short - doesn’t exist.
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Old 07-22-2024, 08:46 AM   #14
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Oh, the girls are do share details and alerts
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Old 07-22-2024, 06:00 PM   #15
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Oh, the girls are do share details and alerts
Problem is - matching up who you’re seeing with these screen names. I highly doubt people are using exact dates of visits and the details often are not enough to identify who it is you saw. Unless a monger is stupid enough to share their eccie handle, I’m pretty sure info sharing is pretty useless.
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