Ladies and gents, a little perspective for me, please
So I'm sure this has been covered before, but I've not found anything on the boards that satisfy my curiosity. I'm especially interested in hearing from you fine ladies, because I'm mystified and I think you can give me perspective.
I recently set up a get together with a reputable woman, fantastic reviews on TER and a couple here, long track record of being awesome, actually listed at #16 on TER for her metro. I contacted her Friday for a Monday appointment, she checked me out on P411, a couple messages back and forth, everything seemed just fine. She said she'd send me info Monday morning.
Monday at noon rolls around and I contact her via P411 for details. Maybe something happened, maybe she meant to send it and didn't, who knows. 30 minutes before the appointment, I sent her an email at an address listed on her site and one of her message board profiles. Nothing.
I was very polite, even asking if she was ok.
No call, no show.
Interestingly, she posted an ad on Monday morning on TER. She even made mention of being dependable. Weird.
Now, I know I just need to move on and be thick skinned. No biggie. But she, with so many fantastic reviews and reputation, and I, with several recent OKs on P411, with nothing sketchy or rude coming from my end, I'm wondering what might have happened.
What makes you NCNS and then just disregard any contact from us? What's the usual rationale, if any?
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Illogical
