New To This-Would Love Some Pointers

[cthulhuatemydog]

Hi......so yeah, as my title says, I'm new to this.
Have zero experience with this but have always wanted to try it, just never had the fortitude and courage to.

I have the worries of getting scammed, arrested or even worse as I imagine most people have had one time or another.

So, yeah, any advice or pointers would be much appreciated. I understand why as a fresh faced client, that I would not want to be seen until I have favorable reviews upon my person, that totally makes logical sense.

But, how does one go about gaining those favorable reviews without being given a chance? If this sounds like a stupid question, I don't mean it to be. I just would like to go about this the correct way so I can enjoy myself.



Thankthee.

[pyramider]

The best advise I can give you is to run away from the hobby as fast as you can ... and do not look back.

[RafaelH]

If your circumstances allow get a membership on p411. They'll confirm you're a regular guy and not LE or someone with a past not conducive to the hobby. With this some women will make an appointment with you despite your newbie status.

If you can't go the p411 route, you'll need to find a "newbie friendly" provider on here or other reputable hobby board in your neighborhood or on your travels. After that it's knowing how to book a date and how to act so she'll give you a good reference. Research the threads on here, both national and local to your area for more suggestions.

Good luck.

[The Cock Connoisseur]

Pointers? hmmm Welcome

[Guest072918]

First, here is a link for good, succinct advice for a newbie. She's not in OK, but I am sure you can find newbie friendly ladies close to you. We've all been where you are and always treasure our first experience in the hobby.

http://www.fantasysrendered.com/newbie-corner/

Second, research, research, research. Check her website. Check her reviews on different sites. Check her posts on boards. Especially at first, stay on reputable site like this. Once you have a couple of experiences, branch out and try different ladies until you decide on your preferences. Variety is the spice of life and certainly drives the hobby for both ladies and gentlemen.

Finally, drink deep or taste not the Pierian Spring. This hobby can be addicting. You should strongly consider Pyramider's advice.

[Ed Highlight]

Originally Posted by pyramider

The best advise I can give you is to run away from the hobby as fast as you can ... and do not look back.

First, examine what it is you expect from this endeavor and make sure you communicate your expectations.

Secondly, take at least two weeks off......then quit!!

[MaxiMilyen]

1. Avoid jaded gentleman's advice
2. If you really wish to know the right way to hobby and gain acceptable references, ask a reputable provider, or female friendly hobbyist (on and off the board)
3. Research is your best friend in the hobby and P411 is a close second
4. Know what it is you expect, desire, and wish to experience and do not settle for less than that. Should you discover that what you wanted is not in fact "all that", try something totally different.
5. Take your time in your searching.
6. There is more BS on this board than should be, making it a confusing world for someone with good intentions to step into, so take your time, put on your BS boots, and watch out for all those puddles of poo.
7. Getting the most out of any hobby requires, time, patience, and a willingness to learn more about that hobby.
8. If you see red flags concerning anything, slowly back out and start again
9. There is no chance you will have a bad experience, if you pay attention, research, and follow your intuition.
10. Do not fear, as there is nothing to fear, but fear itself.

Best of Luck!!

[Fancylady]

Originally Posted by Woodford

First, here is a link for good, succinct advice for a newbie. She's not in OK, but I am sure you can find newbie friendly ladies close to you. We've all been where you are and always treasure our first experience in the hobby.

http://www.fantasysrendered.com/newbie-corner/

Second, research, research, research. Check her website. Check her reviews on different sites. Check her posts on boards. Especially at first, stay on reputable site like this. Once you have a couple of experiences, branch out and try different ladies until you decide on your preferences. Variety is the spice of life and certainly drives the hobby for both ladies and gentlemen.

Finally, drink deep or taste not the Pierian Spring. This hobby can be addicting. You should strongly consider Pyramider's advice.

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[Boudin3112]

1. All men to include me, in this world are jaded, you will be too if you take this route.
2. Do not trust any one, ever, not a man nor a woman, all lie to include me, you will too if you take this route.
3. Most important, do some deep soul searching, read articles on why men do this and be honest with yourself. If you want great sex without emotional attachment, it is not here, as the best sex always has emotional attachment. This world is merely masturbation by proxy and if that is what you are looking for than enjoy.
4. Realize and accept that it is a business for the whore and as such her advertising may be somewhat unreal. If professional pics, she will certainly not look that good, if she says she is 28 on her profile add 5 years. If her pics are over a year old assume she has gained weight.
5. Reviews are false, read them for the menu items and pricing all else is BS especially the ROS.
6. Remember the lady has no desire to be there if not for the cash. She will not orgasm, she will not like you, she only wants you to pay her again in the future.
7. Figure why you want this, if it is to fuck beautiful women, it will be a big disappointment and you can easily get addicted to searching for that experience that will never come. You will fuck beautiful women but without the emotional attachment it is not what your little head is telling you it will be. First you will always use a condom, which in itself is not the most fun possible.
8. Do not misread number 7. ALWAYS use a condom you have no clue who or where these women have been, remember everything is a lie.
9. If deciding to go down on a whore, remember she just had someone else's cock in her before you arrived and again you have no idea who she has been with. Same advise goes for DFK, remember I may have just came in her mouth before you arrived. But none of that may effect you, just be informed.
10. Foreplay is mostly non-existent in this world unless you insist on it, no sex act is natural or just flows. You don't know each other, she wants you to get off as soon as possible and stop touching her. Some of the best sex I had I communicated to my partner that had emotional attachment between us and she did it at a later time without talk, just did it to me because it was easy for her to remember as I was her only sex partner and she really wanted to please me no cash involved for the act itself.
11. Be careful

[MaxiMilyen]

Originally Posted by Boudin3112

1. All men to include me, in this world are jaded, you will be too if you take this route.

Not a true statement, hon. Gents given the opportunity to appreciate all that women have to offer, and even those who choose to do so without caring what other gents do or think about this silly notion, are truly not in this boat with jaded gents.

2. Do not trust any one, ever, not a man nor a woman, all lie to include me, you will too if you take this route.


While it is true, that most people lie every day of their life, believe it or not, they lie more to themselves than anyone else. It's sad to me to see this, but that is the truth, about lies and truth.

3. Most important, do some deep soul searching, read articles on why men do this and be honest with yourself. If you want great sex without emotional attachment, it is not here, as the best sex always has emotional attachment. This world is merely masturbation by proxy and if that is what you are looking for than enjoy.


Some of this is true as I have experienced, but there is nothing wrong with seeking experiences we desire, as long as our intent is not to hurt others and we understand as grown ups, that even the truest and purest intent brings skepticism.

4. Realize and accept that it is a business for the whore and as such her advertising may be somewhat unreal. If professional pics, she will certainly not look that good, if she says she is 28 on her profile add 5 years. If her pics are over a year old assume she has gained weight.


These are not true statements of all the ladies here, so please do not indicate it is. I'm sorry if you or others were duped, but many ladies would never consider doing such. It's funny you used a derogative term of the ladies, but your expectations would have held us to a much high standard than....the term and judgements, that have obviously brought you to share as knowing what is true of all ladies here....If you had expected something different than what you got, than that is what you should have sought, and in a manner worthy of the higher standard. We do reap what we sow....like it or not.

5. Reviews are false, read them for the menu items and pricing all else is BS especially the ROS.


Opinion

6. Remember the lady has no desire to be there if not for the cash. She will not orgasm, she will not like you, she only wants you to pay her again in the future.


Again...not true.

7. Figure why you want this, if it is to fuck beautiful women, it will be a big disappointment and you can easily get addicted to searching for that experience that will never come. You will fuck beautiful women but without the emotional attachment it is not what your little head is telling you it will be. First you will always use a condom, which in itself is not the most fun possible.


Sigh....not true, but yes....use a friggin' condom.You'd be a serious risk taker, if not.

8. Do not misread number 7. ALWAYS use a condom you have no clue who or where these women have been, remember everything is a lie.


No, everything is not, but enough is, that we are best served to judge this for ourselves, what is true of each individual.

9. If deciding to go down on a whore, remember she just had someone else's cock in her before you arrived and again you have no idea who she has been with. Same advise goes for DFK, remember I may have just came in her mouth before you arrived. But none of that may effect you, just be informed.


Do you even understand why it is you are jaded? I don't know you, but it's not rocket science to figure it out, hon.

10. Foreplay is mostly non-existent in this world unless you insist on it, no sex act is natural or just flows. You don't know each other, she wants you to get off as soon as possible and stop touching her. Some of the best sex I had I communicated to my partner that had emotional attachment between us and she did it at a later time without talk, just did it to me because it was easy for her to remember as I was her only sex partner and she really wanted to please me no cash involved for the act itself.


I need a friggin buzzer....bzzzz....bzzzzz....b zzzzz.....wrong answer. LOL

11. Be careful

Yes...not just for your sake, OP, but also for the ladies you might choose to see. However, don't go overboard, there's careful and there is paranoia. LOL

[Fancylady]

Originally Posted by MaxiMilyen

Yes...not just for your sake, OP, but also for the ladies you might choose to see. However, don't go overboard, there's careful and there is paranoia. LOL

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[MaxiMilyen]

Originally Posted by Fancylady

Paid sessions.Call it whatever.Escorts giving advice to promote business.

You, fellow member of ECCIE, do not know me, or even what my motives are. The good news is, that if you wish to know, and so you do not erroniously make statements about me again, I'm happy to make an appointment with you should you pass my screening requirements, and so you can discover for yourself, who I am, and what my intent is. Deal?


OP, this is only one way the members here will try sway others.


So, thanks for the example FL. You made a point for me concerning what I was saying about, BS. You're the best! Have a sexy day! M

[James1588]

Originally Posted by MaxiMilyen

You, fellow member of ECCIE, do not know me, or even what my motives are. The good news is, that if you wish to know, and so you do not erroniously make statements about me again, I'm happy to make an appointment with you should you pass my screening requirements, and so you can discover for yourself, who I am, and what my intent is. Deal?


OP, this is only one way the members here will try sway others.


So, thanks for the example FL. You made a point for me concerning what I was saying about, BS. You're the best! Have a sexy day! M

Max, have you considered the possibility that my fellow Hoosier, Fancylady, is actually a bot? An automaton?

Maybe not, but it would explain many, many bizarre posts. "Paid sessions escorts in business for money." Hmmmmm. Could be.

[MaxiMilyen]

Originally Posted by James1588

Max, have you considered the possibility that my fellow Hoosier, Fancylady, is actually a bot? An automaton?

Maybe not, but it would explain many, many bizarre posts. "Paid sessions escorts in business for money." Hmmmmm. Could be.

I have considered all sorts of things concerning this screen name, hon. LOL. I'm leaning toward bizarre individual, probably male, or male motivated, with intent, mostly of no kind, but occasionally seems to feel a little prick of truth and jumps in proactively defensive of untrue mindsets. So, yeah, I've considered and watched this character quite a bit...lol. Not sure completely what the motive behind creating such as this, and normally I simply ignore the nonsensical responses that spew forth. I mostly find zero value in any post ever made by this character, but this last was an opportunity, so I used it....

[Grace Preston]

Mongo not know. Mongo only pawn in game of life.