General AMP and Escort Questions
Have now visited 3 AMPS or potential AMPS. One in NY, two near Chicago. HEs on first two of the three. Tried another one that turned out to be an AAMP, was hoping for BBBJ only, ended up getting CBJ and CFS. The last experience was a let down, and I think I'd rather stick to AMPS instead of AAMPS for now. That said, I do have a specific question or two at the end of this, related to escorts (The rest of this is about AMPS).
I have some questions, based on what I've read and what I've experienced.
1. In all three cases, the girl/woman who greeted me when I walked in was who gave me my massage. Are mamasans not as prevalent as my reading here would lead me to believe? Is it permissible/in good taste to ask to "see" who else may be available?
2. HEs were not discussed, except for "Is this okay" after touching me downstairs. Nothing else was discussed either. I would love to do more than standard, but I'm not sure how to broach that (and I would love to be as careful regarding legalities and solicitation, etc. as possible. I'd rather be absolutely sure that the coast is clear before discussing, if that's even possible). All this in mind, how do I go about getting a BBBJ?
2.a. Since I know someone will say "join premium rubmaps...." I learned today (after buying a disposable gift card) that this isn't an acceptable payment. I'm definitely not using my own credit card, so I don't think rubmaps is in my future unless there's some other way to remain anonymous. Any other ideas?
3. The place that gave me the legit massage also gave me my only TS. I was really excited about it based on what I read, but (despite the rest of the massage being great, though legit) I was really disappointed. She sprayed Jr., but didn't touch him, the table was really uncomfortable, especially while on my stomach, and she used a loofah that has been used on who knows how many other dudes. Is this a typical TS experience, and I just am not seeing the positives, or should I give TS another chance somewhere else?
4. Other than gradually increasing in roaming, are there other safe (LE-wise) but clear ways to express interest?
Switching away from AMPs, I don't think I'll be going to a full on provider any time soon, but I think it may be down the road. It's not in my budget to do it several times, at least not with any regularity, and I really think I would only do it once - maybe twice - just to try it. That said, I would probably spend a bit more than I may comfortable with to try to ensure a satisfying experience. With this in mind...
5. I would be looking for specific physical/age qualities in a provider. For actual providers on BP (and yes, I would be attempting to verify by cross checking other sites), are pictures typically real? Are the significantly shopped?
6. Probably my biggest question, I know you don't talk specifics ever (or at least until you're in the same room), but I would be looking for a very specific experience, and would want to make sure the provider was willing to provide that service. It's relatively vanilla, but not your typical hour long session with a provider, and I think that some - even if only a handful - may not be into it. How can I confirm that I'll get what I'm looking for? Can I post what I'm looking for here and ask people (providers and or other mongers who have first hand experience with providers) to PM me?
Thanks!
|
