What Providers Want to Know.

[Invisible1]

After getting screened, I usually ask the provider if she wants to know anything about me before we meet? Many say they cant think of anything. Or that my P411 profile was enough. Really? She is good with an anonymous intimate meeting with no questions.... In the beginning this surprised me, but I've gotten used to it.

Most RW women need to know so much about a guy before they consider doing anything BCD. (Well, at least what he looks like.) IJS

Most guys do so much research before putting a provider at the top of a Go See List. It just amazes me how little screening and information most providers have about me before they agree to initially meet.

So far not a single provider has ever asked how tall, short, heavy, or how old I am. Once, I was asked if I am AA. Another time a provider said she gets off on the suprise of meeting and then making a complete stranger cum. (Cool fetish attitude).

Some questions I have gotten:

-All I want to know is whether you are a nice guy?
-How big is your cock?
-Do you cum more than once in an hour?
-I just bought a harness. Do you want to test it out with me?
-Can you bring a frozen Frappuccino?
-Can you front me $40 to help pay for the room?
-Do you mind picking up some covers?
-What would you like me to wear?

So i guess providers dont care to know much about a guy before they meet. Yet, some providers post that they are selective.... Are they selective based on the guy's ability to pay the hrly donation and whether the guy is on a Do Not See List? Or what?

Someday, I should send a skinny midget with a 10" cock in my place, just to shake things up a bit.

[Prolongus]

Originally Posted by Invisible1

Someday, I should send a skinny midget with a 10" cock in my place, just to shake things up a bit.

I volunteer. With your Benjamin's, of course ha ha.

[FunInDFW]

Originally Posted by Invisible1

-I just bought a harness. Do you want to test it out with me?

Lucky lucky... wish I got quests like that about trying out their new toys/play things.

[StopShort]

The providers that use a notel for an incall do it differently. I've had some that pay for the room themselves as part of their incall fee. Others have asked for money for the room on top of the incall fee.

I haven't ever been asked about the size of my cock or how many times I cum in a session. But I have been asked to buy a box of 12 covers and deduct it out of the fee. I've also been asked to bring food while I'm on the way. Never really understood that one because they end up having to reheat the food after the session. I've even offered to let the provider go ahead and eat first before BCD but they always decline.

[needingmilking]

Well, i dont thik they want you to see the pimp eat...

[GingerKatt]

Well, I've never worked out of a notel, so don't need you to front money. I honestly don't care what you look like. I can always find something to like about you, if you've passed screening. And the only thing I want to know about your peen, is that it's NOT porn star sized. I'd hate to have to send you away unsatisfied. I've had to do it a couple times before. So guys, PLEASE warn a provider if you're extra large, so we can have Magnums on hand and decide if we can accommodate you. A vag is NOT a one size fits all.

Other than that, if you're screened and on P411, (your P411 profile has lots of info in it too), then I'm good. Come on over.

[Invisible1]

Yup, Ginger is one of the few ladies who, when I asked, requested additional info about me after she initially screened me. Believe it or not, she sweetly asked for a picture of my package and body. The good news was that after she received the pics, she remained interested in meeting me. I guess my package wasn't too well hung to accommodate. B) That was some fun back and forth messaging before a session....... (and a first for me). Thank you Ginger for reminding me of that.

So email Ginger a selfie of your junk next to a Snickers so she can get a feel for your candy's size. (Sorry Ginger, you might get some extra email.) **guy smile**

[Sinful Pleasure]

Originally Posted by GingerKatt

Well, I've never worked out of a notel, so don't need you to front money. I honestly don't care what you look like. I can always find something to like about you, if you've passed screening. And the only thing I want to know about your peen, is that it's NOT porn star sized. I'd hate to have to send you away unsatisfied. I've had to do it a couple times before. So guys, PLEASE warn a provider if you're extra large, so we can have Magnums on hand and decide if we can accommodate you. A vag is NOT a one size fits all.

Other than that, if you're screened and on P411, (your P411 profile has lots of info in it too), then I'm good. Come on over.

+1000 Guys, please warn a lady if you are "above average". This info is useful.
Other than that, I always say, as long as you are clean and NOT an asshole, we are good.

[MarkusH]

Could the ladies provide size ranges for XL, L, M, S. I hope that gets everyone on the same page and avoids any confusion.

[CG2014]

I bet none of you ever gotten this.

After sending my references to a provider, she asked "Should I text them?"

Keep in mind the contact info on them are not all phone #s.

[MrMarriott]

Originally Posted by Invisible1

Most RW women need to know so much about a guy before they consider doing anything BCD. (Well, at least what he looks like.) IJS

It just amazes me how little screening and information most providers have about me before they agree to initially meet.

Hmmm....I wonder if forking over a generous donation each visit has anything to do with it???

[GingerKatt]

Originally Posted by Invisible1

Yup, Ginger is one of the few ladies who, when I asked, requested additional info about me after she initially screened me. Believe it or not, she sweetly asked for a picture of my package and body. The good news was that after she received the pics, she remained interested in meeting me. I guess my package wasn't too well hung to accommodate. B) That was some fun back and forth messaging before a session....... (and a first for me). Thank you Ginger for reminding me of that.

So email Ginger a selfie of your junk next to a Snickers so she can get a feel for your candy's size. (Sorry Ginger, you might get some extra email.) **guy smile**

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All right Invisible1, you are going to be invisible in my bed if you tell guys to send me dick pics! Unless you're teasing, (so hard to tell online), I absolutely do NOT ask for pics of any kind! Many nice men will send a face pic, which is nice. But as for your package, I only want to see it or talk about before the session if it's King Kong sized. I want to be warned! Some sexy back and forth texting is fun.

Oohhh, you are in trouble now. If I get inundated with pics of dicks next to a Snickers bar, I'm forwarding them all to YOU. And you will be punished next session. Of course you might like that.

[Lariyah_Cash]

It really surprises me the amount of providers that don't screen. I will admit, when I was new to the hobby I had no clue what screening was or how dangerous the hobby can be (luckily nothing terrible happened to me). The longer I was in the hobby, the more I learned and now I am continuously changing up my screening process. A lot of gentleman complain about it but there are even more that appreciate and respect it. It only keeps us all safer in the end.

[berkleigh]

Originally Posted by Invisible1

-How big is your cock?

Someday, I should send a skinny midget with a 10" cock in my place, just to shake things up a bit.

Noted.

[dallaswill]

Originally Posted by MarkusH

Could the ladies provide size ranges for XL, L, M, S. I hope that gets everyone on the same page and avoids any confusion.

Please include photos of each size and dimensions (English and Metric). I might be packing 3" but in metric I have 76mm.