NEWBIE FRIENDLY

[GIN*CHERRYBOMB*JOY]

WHAT ARE THE PROS AND CONS OF SEEING NEWBIE FRIENDLY MEMBERS? IVE BEEN GEETING MORE THAN I CAN COUNT CALLS FROM NEWBIES AND SO FAR THE SESSIONS ARE GOING AWESOME BUT I HEAR IT MIGHT NOT BE THE BEST IDEA. PROVIDERS HAVE TO SPECIFY IF THEY DO OR DO NOT SEE NEWBIE FRIENDLY MEMBERS SO THERE IS A REASON PROVIDERS DONT AND I JUST WANTED TO KNOW THE MAIN SERIOUS CONCERS ON WHY WE WOULDNT OR SHOULDNT?
THANKS,XOXO
GINGER JOY

[AlchemyHour]

Gin,

I'm obviously not a provider, nor am I a newbie. But I'll chime in. Everyone was a newbie at one point - except probably SP Hunter - I think he was born ready .

So, not to discredit newbies at all, so please no one misinterpret what I'm saying, but here are my thoughts.

1. More work on the provider to clear/verify that you're dealing with a real person, not LE, not psycho, not weirdo, etc. Ensure they are who they say they are. I'm glad you've had great sessions, I would venture to guess that the high percentage would be so. I guess it's risk assessment - just a little more risk exists in ensuring your safety.
2. Newbies may not follow protocol - they may not know the 'rules' or 'follow them.
3. Newbies have no history with the board, so there isn't a reputation they care about protecting.
4. Newbies may not ever be additional value to the good provider by adding positive comments or reviews anywhere. Less a factor...

That's just a few thoughts from someone who's hobby'd for quite a long time.

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[Torito]

I would think that the safety factor (LE risk) would be primary. As stated above, if a lady is to protect herself, she will spend more time screening, and there may still be some incresed level of risk. It's tough for newbies. Been there. Done that.

Torito

[Radioman]

Being a newbie I thought I would chime in... I totally understand a provider who isn't newbie friendly. Better safe than sorry.

I'm glad we have a resource such as this board so we can see reviews prior to trying to see a provider for the first time.

Unfortunatly the providers don't have that luxury. Of seeing any info on first time clients I mean.

I've seen some newbie friendly providers/411 service want to see workplace info. That totally freaks me out.

[Torito]

Originally Posted by Radioman

I've seen some newbie friendly providers/411 service want to see workplace info. That totally freaks me out.

Since you are seeing some providers, ask if they are OK with giving you a reference. I did that initially and soon I was able to get around much better.

Torito

edit I just realized that in making this reply, I got off track from the original question. My apology to the OP.

[futurepants]

I've sent private messages to a couple of providers. Only one has even replied. She asked me for all kinds of references and stuff. I got nothing. As someone mentioned above, I absolutely totally understand the providers being overly-cautious about new people. But it is frustrating.

[Guest11315]

yea I kind of gave up on some providers, due to not having enough ref's. The providers that were on my radar have not been able to contact my ref's, so I just gave up.

[BRYAN]

I've got the same story! Over the course of the last 4 months, I've given up on 5 or 6 women that I wanted to see due to the myriad screening problems.......I just went to an AMP, whick was not exactly what I was looking for.

[Torito]

Originally Posted by BRYAN

I've got the same story! Over the course of the last 4 months, I've given up on 5 or 6 women that I wanted to see due to the myriad screening problems.......I just went to an AMP, whick was not exactly what I was looking for.

Many AMP girls are "fast food", although tasty. Those that have become my favorites treat a customer as well as any independent I have met.

Torito

[GabrielaSweetheart]

I see newbies. I like being a great first experience and pointing them to sites like this to help them out, and being a good reference for them. The good thing about seeing newbies is there is ALWAYS someone new coming around, so its good for business if youre still trying to build a steady clientel.

[piquant2009]

You guy's just need to go see some newbie friendly provider's. If you think she may not be right for you, you might be wrong. i seen 2 of them 2 years ago (and they turned out to be some of the finest Lady's i have been with to date) and I always get to spend time with any one I have contacted. Never have done the P411 thing or any thing else. Sorry to the OP...just trying to help.

[tglc1]

Same here AMPs are hassle free
Although there are many Indys I would love to see!!!

[tglc1]

OK Gin after looking at your showcase your on my list of independents I would love to see!!!!!!