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GoodTimeCharlie · 07-23-2011, 08:19 PM

Is there anyone, a provider that enjoys her work so much that the donation is secondary? Do any of the ladies in the community feel the need and desire that the men do in our area?
I have had this discussion with some providers who are unbelievably enthusiastic in the session but will cofide that mentally they are far away while the session is on and that their libido is no where the likes of the male. Just wondering??

Guest021812-3 · 07-23-2011, 08:28 PM

First question (title), yes.
Second question, hell no.

pyramider · 07-23-2011, 09:44 PM

Why is it all the nymphos I have met are nymphos with everyone but me?

Guest082216-1 · 07-23-2011, 09:51 PM

I saw one provider who claimed she was a nimpho and she never gave me any reason to doubt her :-=)

OldGrump · 07-23-2011, 10:00 PM

I'll venture a guess that, while the ladies may enjoy the physical stimulation, the wild desire and passion we associate with nymphomaniacs needs emotional attraction too. That is something they have to avoid in this business.

Now if I get some PM's offering free sessions just because they love sex, I may reassess my opinion. :-)

bigdog0311 · 07-23-2011, 10:47 PM

If there are any true nympho ladies out there, then I have not met one yet!!

Prolongus · 07-23-2011, 10:53 PM

Can't imagine the donation being secondary to the sex...which the ladies need to keep Providing...so they can enjoy more sex...so they can get paid for it...so they can keep Providing and enjoy more sex...

Vicious, but delicious cycle, eh?

Wheretonow · 07-24-2011, 04:50 AM

I connected with a sweet young thing in Japan many years ago who managed to get 7 pops out of me and still wanted more... Nymphos may be one of those "be careful what you wish for" things.

pyramider · 07-24-2011, 07:28 AM

You say that as if being drained is a bad thing . . .

Wheretonow · 07-24-2011, 08:29 AM

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Originally Posted by pyramider

You say that as if being drained is a bad thing . . .

Yeah, sometimes you need to let the batteries recharge, and believe it or not, your dick can get sore...

bigdog0311 · 07-24-2011, 09:42 AM

Being drained and your dick being sore is a good thing.........#1 reason, you had a memorable, fantastic time BCD and #2 reason, since you are so drained, you will take a break from spending money in that regard for as long as it takes you to recover.

While the #1 reason is the better of the two, I do not know how many times I have been with a provider, even did a yes recommendation review on her and still felt that I was not 100% satisfactorily "drained", especially for the funds/time I spent, many times having to "finish" JO to cum during the session as there was no way she was going to make me cum by herself, very frustrating.

One thing to remember tho, we are paying the girl to be a nympho, or at least act like one with us, for the time we are with her.

Guest071613-2 · 07-24-2011, 09:46 AM

Ask if she likes fucking enough for her to not charge you for the session. Then you will know how true the nympho thing is or isn't.

A true nympho just likes to have sex, paid or unpaid. So unless she's giving it to you just because she needs to have an orgasm...

bigdog0311 · 07-24-2011, 10:16 AM

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Originally Posted by Dannie

Ask if she likes fucking enough for her to not charge you for the session. Then you will know how true the nympho thing is or isn't.

A true nympho just likes to have sex, paid or unpaid. So unless she's giving it to you just because she needs to have an orgasm...

That will not go over well. ESPECIALLY with the providers on here. If you ask that question, one of two things will happen:

1). They will lie and say yes, then when you say, "good, because I have no money with me" then the guy will either get thrown out on his ass or the truth comes out and she refuses to go through with the session.

2). They will say no and you know that the BIGGEST thing about you to them is that you are basically a "wallet" and by that letting you know where you stand with them, if you even care.

So, not a good idea to ask a provider that!

Guest082216-1 · 07-24-2011, 10:23 AM

Bigdog, just an observation, Did you actualy read your post? Did you give any thought as to how it comes across? There may be a reason why you dont see many providers. Its not that your statements are wrong, just could come across really harsh to some of the ladies.

Just an observation

bigdog0311 · 07-24-2011, 10:57 AM

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Originally Posted by Bubba3452

Bigdog, just an observation, Did you actualy read your post? Did you give any thought as to how it comes across? There may be a reason why you dont see many providers. Its not that your statements are wrong, just could come across really harsh to some of the ladies.

Just an observation

There are alot reasons I do not see many providers, as I am sure there are a few that will not or do not want to see me BCD and that is fine, as I do not want to see a "going through the motions" if that, type of provider, and they do not want to see a guy that is more than a wallet to them, I have had a couple of providers actually tell me that I "am a means to an end", I am sure they have many repeat clients! I am definitely not trying to be harsh on providers, you even said that statements are not wrong.

I want a provider to make me feel glad that I had chose to see her, rather than the 700+ other providers that are on this site in the D/FW area alone, not to mention the ones that do not advertise nor are members here! While there are many definitions of GFE out there by several different guys, and WALDT, many would agree with me in that I am looking for a lady who does not come across as or act like a fee-for-service commercial sex worker. She makes me feel like I am the most important person there is while I am there with her.

THAT, (along with other things, reliability, availability, clean hygiene, ect.), is what makes an ATF, or in the very least, a great session with that provider, and you want see her over and over again. I am not looking for a G/F nor I am I asking a provider to do a free or even a discounted session, but I am still looking of an ATF.

Sorry for getting off topic, but I wanted to answer your questions, Bubba3452.