Lesbian Providers for Men

[horekneepup]

Recently, I have noticed that so very many of the providers I have seen are bisexual and in quite a few instances are solely Lesbian, except for their work, pleasing us men.

Do you guys find this as interesting as I do. I am NOT passing judgement on their sexual orientation, I am amazed that some that are Lesbian are so wonderful at bringing men pleasure. I know I could not do the same if the roles were reversed. more kudos to you ladies in this much needed industry.

By the way, Happy Valentines Day to all you wonderful ladies who make our lives more manageable by providing the services we need and lack in our "normal" lives.

HP

[pyramider]

Many ladies are bi/gay for pay. The ones saying they are true lesbians just do not want you to call them.

[RodTidweLL]

It's funny the least nervous I've been sexually was with a lesbian lady

[watchoutthegameisrigged]

Why?

[RedLeg505]

Can't say I've been with any "lesbians", but I have been with 4 or 5 local ladies who seriously enjoy sex with other women at least as much as they like sex with men...which makes FMF, a treat.

[Zhivago52]

Didn't George Costanza claim to be a lesbian trapped inside a man's body?

[HelenaIriepalomino]

I am bisexual. I am NOT a lesbian but because of my job I prefer to date woman in my personal life.

Great post, btw.

[horekneepup]

Originally Posted by HelenaIriepalomino

I am bisexual. I am NOT a lesbian but because of my job I prefer to date woman in my personal life.

Great post, btw.

Is that because you would feel duplicitous if you dated a man while being intimate with other men. I get that. It makes sense.

[Old-T]

I can only comment on a small set of ladies, but with that qualifier, here are my experiences and guesses.

It had surprised me how many of the ladies I enjoyed being with turned out to be bi-sexual. I understand that initial claims of bi in an ad or post may be more marketing than reality, but even if I limit it to ladies I have known well enough to know with some certainty, it is a larger number that I would have first thought.

After an evening that started in a strip club (my date’s preference) with my date picking up one of the dancers to take back with us, her bi-sexuality was the conversation between the three of us at breakfast. The dancer was a lesbian who would join in a FMF trio if her girlfriend wanted to. She didn’t mind it, but was definitely more interested in the other lady.

My date said she was mostly attracted to guys, but her work as an escort broadened her sexual appetite. She said some clients would introduce her into different M-F activities she had not tried before, and she discovered she enjoyed some of them quite a lot. That made her more willing to try other new things, but she still had no interest in other women.

Then she had a regular who really wanted her to arrange a doubles session. She was scared to death about how to find a compatible other lady, and what she would “have to do”. After much worrying she decided upon another escort in her area and the two of them got a room and laid it all out with candles. Then the guy didn’t show. The second provider was apparently very attracted to my friend and convinced her they already paid for the room, so they should “practice”. My friend said she started their mutual practice thinking about it strictly as a business issue, and surprised herself by enjoying it very much and—as she put it—“ I learning a lot more about myself and why guys like DATY”. She says that while she has no romantic feelings towards other women, she will now occasionally seek out another woman for a purely sexual evening. To her way of seeing it is no different than when a guy introduces her to enjoyable sexual practices.

I get a very different picture from the straight homosexual ladies (that sounds odd, but you know what I mean). When the topic has come up over a cup of coffee the answer is typically the same: they enjoy the company of many of their clients, they like spending time with them, but it is definitely work time with a client they like, not an erotic escapade for them. They focus on being very professional, very attentive, and they believe that because they feel little or no sexual arousal it allows them to actually stay more focused on the man’s pleasure. One told me that it allows her to do almost anything the guy might want because to her there is no emotional attachment to one act over another. She sees herself as an actress, and whether the role that night calls for oral, vaginal, or anal, or some fetish it is all a physical activity only and she can do one as easily as the other. She can let a man do some things that she would not let most women do to her, because there is no erotic sensation with a man, even with those she likes as a regular client and a friend. But if a woman other that her SO would do the same things, she would see it in a very different light. I understand what she says, but I don’t know that I really understand it. She is a very well known lady in her area, and it is pretty well known that she is a lesbian, not bi-sexual. But it does not seem to hamper her business, and her reviews say her clients keep returning for more.

Again, I make no assumption that this is a representative sample. Human feelings are exceedingly diverse. I hope some ladies in each category reply, though I understand that some may well not because it would be bad for business.

Thank you for posing the question.

[LuckOfTheOrient]

I can think of only one person.
She was a former coworker at a tuna a company I worked at.
Everyone working there knew she had a girlfriend.
We would go to bars and she'd give blowjobs to strangers for cash.
I think she bought a truck with the money.

[Katharine Butler]

I ama lesbian provider. I don't mention this fact to clients as for some of them that's a deal breaker. However if directly asked, "Are you married?" My response is "Sort of, I have a female partner." I enjoy men's company's and I can take or leave sex with men. But, as a previous poster said this means I get to put every bit of myself into pleasing You. I haven't had any complaints yet!

[burkalini]

Yep If they don't want dick I'm not going to pay to see them. It's a deal breaker for me. I don't see how a lesbian provider can suck dick when they can't stand it to begin with. If they tell you different they are telling you bullshit. Kinda like asking a gay guy to eat pussy. If you like pussy great. Just don't ask for money from a guy that wants women that like men. Just an opinion.

[burkalini]

Originally Posted by Katharine Butler

I ama lesbian provider. I don't mention this fact to clients as for some of them that's a deal breaker. However if directly asked, "Are you married?" My response is "Sort of, I have a female partner." I enjoy men's company's and I can take or leave sex with men. But, as a previous poster said this means I get to put every bit of myself into pleasing You. I haven't had any complaints yet!

So we should pay you because you enjoy the company since you can take or leave the sex? I enjoy my sisters company. I can see her for free. I want a woman that likes dick especially if I am paying her.

[awl4knot]

Hey Burkalini, how do feel about the heterosexual provider who likes dick but finds you (and your dick) to be unattractive yet she still puts on a show because fantasy is her job? How is that different? Or do all heterosexual women find you sexually attractive and you can't comprehend indifference?

[Old-T]

Originally Posted by burkalini

Yep If they don't want dick I'm not going to pay to see them. It's a deal breaker for me. I don't see how a lesbian provider can suck dick when they can't stand it to begin with. If they tell you different they are telling you bullshit. Kinda like asking a gay guy to eat pussy. If you like pussy great. Just don't ask for money from a guy that wants women that like men. Just an opinion.

Originally Posted by burkalini

So we should pay you because you enjoy the company since you can take or leave the sex? I enjoy my sisters company. I can see her for free. I want a woman that likes dick especially if I am paying her.

Well, I guess that is one way to look at the world.

But it does raise a lot of questions. If you saw a lady and she had great skill at what she did, and a month later you find out that she is a lesbian, does that retroactively change how good/bad it felt at the time?

When you go into a restaurant and order lasagna, do you care if it is cooked properly--or do you ask if the cook likes lasagna--and if they don't, you send it back no matter how good it tastes?

What difference does it possibly make whether or not she likes what she does vs she does it well? Other than stroking your ego while it happens, why do you care? If she is disinterested, bored, rushed--those I can understand. But that wasn't the argument you made.

Are you actually saying that if a lady enjoys the company of the gentleman in question then she should not charge him? That is complete BS.

As far as your sister, I think you have totally missed the point.