The perfect escort session

[ribbydibs]

I have had a number of mediocre escort sessions. Many of the younger women seem to think it is de rigeur to text up until they get naked, then start texting again as soon as I come.

I think more is called for. If we are paying $150 for a 15 second orgasm, the rate is too high! We should be getting a session where from start to finish, the provider makes us feel good. And there should be simple amenities that help make the experience a little better.

Some things are simple. I want a chair or clothes tree or someplace to put my clothes - not just drop them on the floor.

One provider brought a warm damp towel afterwards and wiped me down - that was a terrific touch!

Really good condoms, like Crown, so I feel more.

I like the provider to undress slowly facing me. I love watching a pretty woman undress, and it is doing some of the work for her because it gets my motor running! I don't know why all providers don't do this.

I think she should greet me at the door looking good - not necessarily expensive, but clean, neat, and wearing something that looks good on her. She should smile, say hello, and thanks for coming - I am going to do my best to show you a good time.

Afterwards she should walk me to the door, kiss me, and say she hopes I had a good time and that I come again soon.

There should be a wastebasket near the bed, and paper towels available (if not the warm damp towel).

I think better sessions - not just the sex part - would make us want to return more often. I suspect the pinnacle of the profession has men begging to come back!

So what are some fine points that you would like to see that would help make the session better than just the sex - something that makes you feel good about yourself, and happy with your purchase? Lets see how close we can come to designing the perfect session, and maybe some providers will pick up on it and we will all enjoy it a bit more.

[Old-T]

I agree with all you said. If you get access to the Rest of the Story parts of the reviews you will find there are a lot of ladies who DO provide a far richer and more seductive date. Some do, some don't but getting the whole story allows you to do your research and find a lady who is more likely to match what you are looking for.

There is also a correlation between the length of a date and how much of those seduction and attitudinal niceties can be fit in. You are far from alone in your desire, and there are ladies that are a match.

I know this lady is not near you, but it is an example of what can be...
http://eccie.net/showthread.php?t=1362053

But to your question. Some extra nice touches from ladies:
--Picked me up at my hotel, drove me to her place, and took me back afterwards
--Cooked dinner (I brought the wine) OTC after our date
--Brought me a small birthday present
--Asked my taste in music, and had it playing when I arrived
--Candles in an otherwise darkened room
--Showers for two
--Joining me for dinner--my treat of course--after our date
--Remembering my preferences even though I hadn't seen her in a year

The good ones really do pay attention to the little things--and if you do also (the little extras shouldn't all be on her) it just gets better.

[pyramider]

Originally Posted by ribbydibs

I have had a number of mediocre escort sessions. Many of the younger women seem to think it is de rigeur to text up until they get naked, then start texting again as soon as I come.

I think more is called for. If we are paying $150 for a 15 second orgasm, the rate is too high! We should be getting a session where from start to finish, the provider makes us feel good. And there should be simple amenities that help make the experience a little better.

Some things are simple. I want a chair or clothes tree or someplace to put my clothes - not just drop them on the floor.

One provider brought a warm damp towel afterwards and wiped me down - that was a terrific touch!

Really good condoms, like Crown, so I feel more.

I like the provider to undress slowly facing me. I love watching a pretty woman undress, and it is doing some of the work for her because it gets my motor running! I don't know why all providers don't do this.

I think she should greet me at the door looking good - not necessarily expensive, but clean, neat, and wearing something that looks good on her. She should smile, say hello, and thanks for coming - I am going to do my best to show you a good time.

Afterwards she should walk me to the door, kiss me, and say she hopes I had a good time and that I come again soon.

There should be a wastebasket near the bed, and paper towels available (if not the warm damp towel).

I think better sessions - not just the sex part - would make us want to return more often. I suspect the pinnacle of the profession has men begging to come back!

So what are some fine points that you would like to see that would help make the session better than just the sex - something that makes you feel good about yourself, and happy with your purchase? Lets see how close we can come to designing the perfect session, and maybe some providers will pick up on it and we will all enjoy it a bit more.

Sounds like you need to re-evaluate your selection criteria ...

[mwvisitor]

I have to agree on all of this.

My best experience was in Montréal with an oriental provider. When I walked in the door she greated me like I was a bf that had been gone for weeks just coming home with hugs and kisses. She had me sit in a chair by the door and took my shoes and socks off, had me stand and proceeded to undress me. She carefully placed my clothes...folded....on a dresser and led me to the shower. She undressed and brought me into the shower with her. She cleaned me up very well and let me wash her down as well.

Once activities were done she would get a warm washcloth to clean me up, offer me mouthwash then helped me dress. She wouldn't even let me tie my shoes...that was her job. As I walked out the door she would give me a loving kiss and hug asking me to come see her again.

Granted some of this seems sexist but I really enjoyed being treated like a king, it was a very nice touch. I treated her with nothing but respect and kindness. I probably saw this girl 10 or 12 times, one week it was 3 nights in a row.

[joesmo888]

I think you are picking the wrong providers who think just getting you off is the objective.

do more homework on providers who are good for the full hour, not ones who try and get you off in 5 minutes and then out the door

[FireKitten]

Really, so, the obvious question is, did you try the ample selection of older women available??? They usually understand these points quite well.

[MaxiMilyen]

Originally Posted by ribbydibs

I have had a number of mediocre escort sessions. Many of the younger women seem to think it is de rigeur to text up until they get naked, then start texting again as soon as I come.

I think more is called for. If we are paying $150 for a 15 second orgasm, the rate is too high! We should be getting a session where from start to finish, the provider makes us feel good. And there should be simple amenities that help make the experience a little better.

How long was the session? Amenities are part of our own costs, so if you are paying $150 for an hour, she only hobbies one or two days a week, works for an "agent", or a number of other reasons....she might need to keep the lines of communication open in order to make the money she needs to make, regardless of her reasons.

Some things are simple. I want a chair or clothes tree or someplace to put my clothes - not just drop them on the floor.

See above...are you going to incalls or hotel rooms?

One provider brought a warm damp towel afterwards and wiped me down - that was a terrific touch!

Really good condoms, like Crown, so I feel more.

Not just condoms, but you want the "Good ones" at 150 an hour?

I like the provider to undress slowly facing me. I love watching a pretty woman undress, and it is doing some of the work for her because it gets my motor running! I don't know why all providers don't do this.

Because ALL men don't like what you like. You might try communicating this ahead of time, so she knows it's "your thing".

I think she should greet me at the door looking good - not necessarily expensive, but clean, neat, and wearing something that looks good on her. She should smile, say hello, and thanks for coming - I am going to do my best to show you a good time.

Again, how much time did you book? I agree she should be presentable, but what you think looks good, others may think looks cheap, or is too much. You should be specific about how you'd like her to dress.

Afterwards she should walk me to the door, kiss me, and say she hopes I had a good time and that I come again soon.

Maybe she didn't like you or your attitude and doesn't want you to come back? However, she should have detected that before she saw you, so what is your approach? Are you polite and do you book in advance? Or, do you just go with who is available right now and is close?

There should be a wastebasket near the bed, and paper towels available (if not the warm damp towel).

Again, are you seeing her at an incall or in a hotel room? If hotel, what kind of hotel room?

I think better sessions - not just the sex part - would make us want to return more often. I suspect the pinnacle of the profession has men begging to come back!

When ladies charge a higher hourly rate, have a lower volume, and are even treated as someone the gents have a little respect and consideration for when contacting them, I suspect the gents get a better quality experience than the scenarios you have provided in this thread.

So what are some fine points that you would like to see that would help make the session better than just the sex - something that makes you feel good about yourself, and happy with your purchase? Lets see how close we can come to designing the perfect session, and maybe some providers will pick up on it and we will all enjoy it a bit more.

Many providers, especially the more mature ones or even experienced younger ladies, provide these stellar experiences already as evidenced by the gents here telling you so. Do your homework and if there are any red flags when researching a lady, maybe seek another lady instead. Try to avoid managed ladies, those who have high volumes as evidenced by the hundreds of reviews in a short time span, don't expect much from "right now" demands of her time, and most all, RESEARCH and then learn to use your intuition.

Best of Luck!

[cinderbella]

This profession is illegal and highly scrutinized by cops. It does not always attract sales minded individuals. Many women who ply the trade do not focus on long term goals. Seeing you happy, and returning for more I would say is a long term goal.

What you described are basic salesmanship fundamentals that ensure satisfaction and appreciation. Until people are allowed to legally partake and not live in fear of the dangers of arrest, etc. it will continue to be plagued by those who seek immediate monetary result from doing so little. In other words, a sea of people who just do not care.

Decriminalization would do wonders for quality customer service. When fear of arrest is removed from the equation, providers would operate their business in a more legitimate fashion. Legitimate businesses that depend on customer appreciation practice good salesmanship.

[Victoria of Houston]

Originally Posted by ribbydibs

If we are paying $150....

First of all, you are compensating her for her time.

Secondly, $150 seems cheap as hell...for how long of a session is that?

I would suggest doing your research sir. Your own version of screening. Check her reviews, check her posts. I get messages all the times from gents saying they have read through my posts and can tell I am someone they would like to see.

Also, stop seeing anyone who charges $150, that should be a clear indication right there of what type of session she provides.

A little research goes a long way.

[anita]

Originally Posted by pyramider

Sounds like you need to re-evaluate your selection criteria ...

+1

[Guest072918]

Two points: You get what you pay for applies to the hobby as well as in most of life. Would you rather have a steak at Golden Corral or Ruth's Chris? You can have the same cut, cooked to the same doneness. But the dining experience is totally different.

Second - research research research. Don't just go for the looks, but go for the total package. I've learned to value experience much more than physical attractiveness. You can find plenty of ladies that provide exactly the experience you seek. And most are hot babes indeed.

[Polinds]

Thanks a lot for the useful thread here! I am new to escorts, and I'd like to get some tips from you. I want to try the service from http://london.worldescortmap.com in London. Have you ever tried it? My friend says that it is a great one

[Fancylady]

Originally Posted by Woodford

Two points: You get what you pay for applies to the hobby as well as in most of life. Would you rather have a steak at Golden Corral or Ruth's Chris? You can have the same cut, cooked to the same doneness. But the dining experience is totally different.

Second - research research research. Don't just go for the looks, but go for the total package. I've learned to value experience much more than physical attractiveness. You can find plenty of ladies that provide exactly the experience you seek. And most are hot babes indeed.

Good point PAID fantasy sessions..Escorts like to knock out competition escorts to get the money.A lot escorts got golden pussy syndrome charge high rates.How much does clients want to spend on PU$$Y?

[romanticgent]

A little rule I learned a long time ago: Just because she is fine don't mean she knows how to sex it up. LoL

My best experiences have involved more than physical sensation. I enjoy a woman who has confidence and ability.

Age is a relative thing. To me it's more about experience and how she is able to utilize it.

All that being said, a little respect goes a really long way. If I treat the lady with respect, I have found that I get the same. If I'm confident and keep an open mind as though it could be the best experience of my life, then it usually ends up being an incredible session.

[Fancylady]

Originally Posted by romanticgent

A little rule I learned a long time ago: Just because she is fine don't mean she knows how to sex it up. LoL

My best experiences have involved more than physical sensation. I enjoy a woman who has confidence and ability.

Age is a relative thing. To me it's more about experience and how she is able to utilize it.

All that being said, a little respect goes a really long way. If I treat the lady with respect, I have found that I get the same. If I'm confident and keep an open mind as though it could be the best experience of my life, then it usually ends up being an incredible session.

Clients and escorts should respect each other in paid incredible sessions.