please! just the sexy talk, NOT the daily life stuff

[pmdelites]

ladies,
yes, we are all people with real lives and all the joys and frustrations that coming with living here in the dallas-ft worth area. and often times, we want to share or vent or bitch or go way off on a tangent.

but, most of us guys are in this crazy sub-culture for intimate delites. we're not here to listen to all the ups and downs going on in your world.

so, unless i ask about your ups and downs, please please please stick to the subject at hand - intimate delites of the oral, genital, and sensual kind!


that is, please do not start going on about how shitty things are, how your kid's father is being the jerk that he is, how that other provider you thought was your BFF turned out to be a back-stabbing thief, etc. etc. etc.
please do not ask us what we do, are we married, etc.
and, after i've left, please do not text, pvtMsg, call me asking for money or a loan or something to tide you over.


let's keep our time together intimate, fun, erotic, sexy, and filled w/ as many orgasms as we can muster.

thanks!

[Brandofan]

This goes double when we're in the middle of the act.

Having a woman stop to tell you about her shopping plans while blowing you is no fun, nor is hearing about all her medical issues in detail as she is riding you in CG.

[Lena Duvall]

Yikes! I guess some people are not that great at compartmentalizing. Never in a million years could I even imagine divulging my woes in the middle of an encounter. Whether a guest is visiting me for a few hours or a shorter date, whenever we are conversing, my aim is to center that person's interests and what they prefer to talk about.

I also don't ask prying questions. If someone initiates talking about their personal life or the day-to-day happenings at their place of work, I'm glad to listen and chime in.

[LustyBustyGina38FF]

I listen and keep my mouth busy in other ways !!
but I will listen what's going on in your world any day
and help how ever I can ...

But My Life Is So Perfect I don't need to tell you about me
unless you ask ,,

[alaine]

EXCELLENT advice.

[Sir Lancehernot]

Over the years I have come to the conclusion that every escort, bodyrub girl or dancer by herself has more problems than everyone else I know put together. And most have no qualms about telling you about them in detail.

[Wile E Coyote]

Originally Posted by Sir Lancehernot

Over the years I have come to the conclusion that every escort, bodyrub girl or dancer by herself has more problems than everyone else I know put together. And most have no qualms about telling you about them in detail.

Of course they do, and that is why they want to tell you about them, that and the fact you are paying them to tell you their problems, so they will even make us things to say in order the the BCD activities to be for as minimum time as possible.

I agree with the OP. Ladies, we are paying for you to provide intimate services for the little time that we are there, not to listen to your stories and problems. When I am at the strip club and a dancer comes up to me, sits down on my lap or at my table and her conversation is talking about her bills, baby daddy won't work, ect. I tell them to get up and leave. Guys do not want to hear your drama, put all that at the door when you get to your incall and when it is time to go, it will still be there and you can pick it up after your last client has left.

[Lindsay Lee]

I agree with everything you are saying, but some clients like to real world talk. We should only speak for ourselves. Remember even a provider is human and has feelings. Some people seem to forget that.

That being said, If I were a man seeing a lady, I would not want to hear all her problems, but I would love for her to feel comfortable with me. I would also make sure she knows I respect her and will treat her respectfully. I’d want the best service I could get! You get more with kindness!

Yes you are the person handing out the cash, but we have the key to “Good” pussy or “Bad” pussy :-)

[Wile E Coyote]

Originally Posted by Lindsay Lee

I agree with everything you are saying, but some clients like to real world talk. We should only speak for ourselves. Remember even a provider is human and has feelings. Some people seem to forget that.

That being said, If I were a man seeing a lady, I would not want to hear all her problems, but I would love for her to feel comfortable with me. I would also make sure she knows I respect her and will treat her respectfully. I’d want the best service I could get! You get more with kindness!

Yes you are the person handing out the cash, but we have the key to “Good” pussy or “Bad” pussy :-)

I disagree.

Real world talk? As in what? The weather? politics? religion? sports? local/national news? The hobby world and real world are entirely different and I intend to keep them that way. There is a big difference between respecting a person and getting to know them personally. I understand the ladies are real people and not robots, but honestly, during the small time frame of a BCD session, besides maybe small chit chat, I am really not interested in anything else for conversation, I want to have as much intimate fun as I can in that window of time.

I have taken providers to events and easy, light hearted conversing then is great, going to non-Eccie socials and conversing is great too (On a first time seeing her at one, I met an ATF), but the problem is, what provider is going to let a client/john contact her, come over and visit, or go out with him to an event and because she is or wants to get comfortable with him, and do it for no compensation? Same theory applies to a guy paying for an intimate encounter and 30-40% of the paid for time, he is playing her psychiatrist or chatting about life so she feels at ease.

The vetting/screening you do as a provider and the money you get paid is more than adequate to not only make you comfortable in seeing a client for a session, but also giving him a fantastic and memorable experience. If not, then get help on screening skills or raise your rates or both. Performance should not be based upon if he is a good conversationalist to make you comfortable enough to give a client 100% effort, but how his personal hygeine is and how he respects your person in your presence that should be the determining factor.

And since you brought it up, if you want to play the good pussy, bad pussy cards, based on if I want to socialize or not during my visit, then what would happen if I played YMMV card with you donation based upon how good or bad I thought my intimate experience was?

[Lindsay Lee]

That is YOUR opinion and why some would rather not see you.

Carry on.

And... donation is a different story. How pathetic.

And.... I never said good conversation skills are a must. Being a gentleman and respectful is a must, for both parties. If you choose not to do either, that is your choice.

[Zena]

I see both sides of this. For me personally - it is 130% all about him when I am with him ....

And I LIKE IT THAT WAY !!!!

I have no need to discuss Donald Trump or the weather or my car or bank account.

Real life is hard enough. for many out there. . LOL !

THIS IS THE MOST WONDERFUL THING IN THE WORLD !!!

WELL. OK. ITS SECOND TO OUR FAMILY
AND A GOOD PIZZA ! ( kidding on the pizza )

IM NOT TRYING TO SOUND LIKE A THRE AD ! I SWEAR !

THIS IS A WONDERFUL ESCAPE FROM REALITY ! I CHERISH IT !

ok. sorry. I will shut up.

I like the comments here and this is a good reminder for all of us.

have a great day everyone ! Zena.

[Analeese]

Originally Posted by Lindsay Lee

That is YOUR opinion and why some would rather not see you.

Carry on.

And... donation is a different story. How pathetic.

And.... I never said good conversation skills are a must. Being a gentleman and respectful is a must, for both parties. If you choose not to do either, that is your choice.

You made my day beauty.....thank you!

Did he really say something about playing with the donation based upon how good or bad his intimate experience was? Take mental note here ladies! IJS

Wrong....

[Lindsay Lee]

Originally Posted by Analeese

You made my day beauty.....thank you!

I wasn’t trying to turn anything into a political mess...uuuuug! I refuse to get into that. Some people like to twist your words to fit their agenda!

Xoxoxoxo!!

[Crock]

Originally Posted by Lindsay Lee

Yes you are the person handing out the cash, but we have the key to “Good” pussy or “Bad” pussy :-)

Wow. You determine whether a gentleman gets good pussy or bad pussy based on their conversation?

That's pretty fucked up.

I hope everyone is taking notes here.

[Lindsay Lee]

Originally Posted by Crock

Wow. You determine whether a gentleman gets good pussy or bad pussy based on their conversation?

That's pretty fucked up.

I hope everyone is taking notes here.

Lol!! You need to either re-read or continue your education. I’ve been around too long. You and your team of bully’s are not going to faze me.