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Old 11-23-2020, 08:35 PM   #1
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Default Why do you guys pay for sex?

I ran across this podcast ( https://youtu.be/eZyE_AhNMFc ) and I was wondering why do some of you guys pay for sex? Could you get sex on your own? If you could would you? If not, is that why you pay for it? Are you in a relationship? Does she know you hobby?
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Old 11-23-2020, 10:21 PM   #2
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There are many reasons why a man may not or cannot enter a traditional relationship but still want sex. Some are valid, some are bs. Same for sd/sb relationships. Some guys simply do not have the looks, status, money, or even simple social skills so this is his only real outlet. Others may choose escorts for other reasons. Lots of discussions about this on the internet. For a number of years, I found it far less demanding and complicated to come here and find an escort. My needs and wants changed so I don't partake of the ladies here any more. I simply out grew the reasons why I was here. Found other ways to meet my needs and desires. As long as it's not the only source of affection for a guy and the gal is of age and is doing it of her own free will, I see no harm in general.
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Old 11-23-2020, 10:23 PM   #3
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Remember no one pays for sex, thats illegal
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Old 11-23-2020, 10:40 PM   #4
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You'll have a bunch of guys come and swear they are bona fide Casanovas, but just too busy with work. LMAO If you're such a Casanova get her to drive herself, fuck you, and then get her to leave without paying her.
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I ran across this podcast ( https://youtu.be/eZyE_AhNMFc ) and I was wondering why do some of you guys pay for sex? Could you get sex on your own? If you could would you? If not, is that why you pay for it? Are you in a relationship? Does she know you hobby?
I have NEVER paid for sex. Why would you pay for sex?
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Old 11-23-2020, 11:43 PM   #6
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I ran across this podcast ( https://youtu.be/eZyE_AhNMFc ) and I was wondering why do some of you guys pay for sex? Could you get sex on your own? If you could would you? If not, is that why you pay for it? Are you in a relationship? Does she know you hobby?

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Charlie Sheen said, “I don’t pay for women to have sex with me. I pay for them to leave when we’re finished.”
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Why do some of you guys pay for sex? Could you get sex on your own?
The hobby lets me get sex on demand with minimal effort or time wasting with a typically above average looking girl.

I can go to bars and drag the waters a bit, but that's not guaranteed, and the gals aren't always up to the same caliber.

Also sex outside of this world usually requires or is a precursor toward a relationship, which I don't want. Yeah, work keeps me busy, but more importantly, I like having my own space, the bed to myself, and peace and quiet.
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Old 11-24-2020, 12:32 PM   #9
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They call it a hobby, for obvious reasons. Regardless what you think, you're still paying for it one way or another. I'm with Glock (even though I prefer Sig), I don't need a relationship. They are paid to leave when the meter runs out.
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Variety. All women need money.
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Old 11-24-2020, 01:37 PM   #11
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The hobby lets me get sex on demand with minimal effort or time wasting with a typically above average looking girl.

I can go to bars and drag the waters a bit, but that's not guaranteed, and the gals aren't always up to the same caliber.

Also sex outside of this world usually requires or is a precursor toward a relationship, which I don't want. Yeah, work keeps me busy, but more importantly, I like having my own space, the bed to myself, and peace and quiet.
Great reply. Quality has definitely changed though. :/
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Because I’m 39. I’ve had plenty of flings, girlfriends, and even a wife. The drama and emotional baggage that comes with sex is more than I’m interested in. Even if you find a good fuck buddy, you still have to worry about feelings creeping in. I don’t want that right now.

I like escorts. I like the easy going company and the unattached nature of it all. I can pull up in the parking lot and be back in my car within an hour, feeling good.

Not every dude who pays for escorts is a loser. Some are married, some just enjoy the ease of it.
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Because I’m 39. I’ve had plenty of flings, girlfriends, and even a wife. The drama and emotional baggage that comes with sex is more than I’m interested in. Even if you find a good fuck buddy, you still have to worry about feelings creeping in. I don’t want that right now.

I like escorts. I like the easy going company and the unattached nature of it all. I can pull up in the parking lot and be back in my car within an hour, feeling good.

Not every dude who pays for escorts is a loser. Some are married, some just enjoy the ease of it.
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Old 11-24-2020, 11:26 PM   #14
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Because it’s cheaper than therapy and far more effective.
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Old 11-24-2020, 11:45 PM   #15
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Paying a provider directly is much less expensive in the long run than paying for a wife. Especially if you windup paying for lawyer(s) too. And if you invest in the UTR community, it doesn't even have to be that expensive.



Let's face it. Guys don't go out looking for their soul mate. They go out looking to get laid. Sometimes they fall in love along the way. Or just don't want to start all over if the girlfriend gives you the "Shit or get off the pot" ultimatum.


What some women may not understand is that - if not for sex, many men wouldn't really have any use for women at all. Sad but true.


And I have to believe that many marriages are actually held together by the husband seeing escorts. I have a friend who has a great relationship with his wife. It just doesn't involve any sex. But he is getting his needs met elsewhere.
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