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Lana Warren · 05-13-2010, 07:38 AM

I have a very good gentleman friend who happens to be a fantastic kisser and our make session that was the best that I ever encountered! We have the chemistry that it takes to make this happen! He asked me if I had ever had a bad make out session and I'm pretty sure we all have!

My question to all is......what does it take to be a great kisser? Is it chemistry or is it skills?

angusranch · 05-13-2010, 07:49 AM

I think a little of both. If you know the other person is into it and you're good at it and want to make them happy- look out!!

Poppa_Viagra · 05-13-2010, 07:52 AM

WALDT but I had a girlfriend in high school, back when the earth was still flat, that just about sucked by brains out the front of my face when the makeout got to getting nice and hot...one of my favorite memories and the basis for some of my favorite fantasies.

Lana Warren · 05-13-2010, 08:04 AM

Oh, I remember those high school days! I was one of the fortunate ones that didn't have to go to the orthodontist to get the braces unhooked! LOL! I knew a couple that this actually happened to!

Guest062912 · 05-13-2010, 08:31 AM

I can't have a good make out session with him if he lacks skill, even if we do have chemistry.

I can have a decent but lackluster make out session if he has skill but we have no chemistry.

I can only have a great make out session if he has both.

That being said, skills can be taught. Chemistry cannot. (Cue bad jokes about Chemistry class)

T-Can · 05-13-2010, 09:17 AM

[quote=Lana Warren;290994]I have a very good gentleman friend who happens to be a fantastic kisser and our make session that was the best that I ever encountered! quote]

But Lana, we've never met! Ohhhh, it was someone else, haha!

Seriously, it's both - Traci pretty much summed it up! I have no jokes about chemistry class, though.

Lana Warren · 05-13-2010, 09:38 AM

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Originally Posted by CanDo01

But Lana, we've never met! Ohhhh, it was someone else, haha!

Let me formally introduce myself.........I'm Lana! Now shut up and kiss me!

daveindallas · 05-13-2010, 09:40 AM

that is something i have always been curious about. I will have to get feedback from my next kissing partner. i welcome any advice. I can't have sex without lots of kissing.
i still remember one girl i met ina bar 30 years ago that was the best damn kisser i have ever had the pleasure of kissing, still to this day.Her lips were so soft.
I think you need both chemistry and technique,but technique goes a loooong way!!!

Hellion437 · 05-13-2010, 09:46 AM

I think chemistry is important (you have to want to kiss them in the first place), but as far as skill goes, it's important but don't overthink it. I liken it to being swept away by the ocean. Just let yourself get carried away by the moment.

I was at Babydolls in Dallas on Monday getting a few dances from a dancer I had seen before and by the 2nd dance it had turned into one of the best makeout sessions I've ever had. It was so hot that she offered me free dances after my funds ran out so that we could continue. We had to part when the DJ called her to the stage.

Just enjoy the moment.

Oh, and always have a breath mint handy.

oldmarine · 05-13-2010, 10:27 AM

About 70% chemistry and 30% skill. If the chemistry is there then the perception of everything else is enhanced, a lot!

Lana Warren · 05-13-2010, 10:38 AM

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Originally Posted by oldmarine

About 70% chemistry and 30% skill. If the chemistry is there then the perception of everything else is enhanced, a lot!

Couldn't have said it better myself!

Judge Smails · 05-13-2010, 10:45 AM

Chemistry could be established either before ( in which case you want to make out) or as a result of some really nice, introductory, exploratory kissing and light making out, which then naturally leads to turning up the intensity. I attempt to avoid lunging in for the immediate DFK grope fest unless we have seen each other before or you tell me to go there.

Skills probably matter, but without chemistry, skills alone unlikely to carry the day.

tsrv4me · 05-13-2010, 01:20 PM

If the kissing is fabulous .Everything else usually falls into place also .....I did say usually ..V-nurse and Cherri Darling are both fabulous kissers and everything is is just as good ......

jessejames · 05-13-2010, 02:22 PM

there is nothing better than "shut up and kiss me" although "shut up and f--- me" would be a worthy rival.

smokeater · 05-13-2010, 02:23 PM

Great question Lana, I am on the side of chemistry first. I don't think your skills will help you out much if there's nothing going on for the both of you. I know I have read reviews about someone being a great kisser and I was left wondering where was all the great kissing I was expecting? Maybe the talent is left up to be judged as well