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Originally Posted by Seeking ~P
Most of the brothas on here are always asking
'where the white women at?
I have an NBA policy in place.
I don't see black men who worship
whiteness.
I don't have a second in my day
to play the skin color game w/yall
or listen to your pity stories
when the white women wont see you.
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We all have our own special proclivities.
However, in Monroegent's defense I have noticed the same thing he has in several ads, mostly on another site. Now I'm Caucasian so it doesn't effect me. I do however find it interesting and I'm left wondering why.
One of the more interesting things that I've noticed across all the ads on all the sites I've looked at is that this isn't merely white providers saying "No AA." About half of the AA providers are saying "No AA."
Again, why?
A few of them are also including an age limit, "No AA under 35," or something along those lines. There doesn't seem to be any explanation for this.
I can definitely see why MG would be frustrated.
Now personally, I ultimately see this as a good thing. There are certain arguments against this hobby that deal with differences between consent and compliance or compulsion. The essence of the argument is that by using money to gain compliance we are taking actual consent out of the equation and therefor we (the clients) are committing an act of rape regardless of whether are not the providers give consent. The argument is that it is impossible to give consent if you're being paid.
It was a Thai provider who blew this argument up for me. I was on vacation in Pattaya visiting one of the Soapies (worth every penny, that). While this Thai bird was filling the tub we were chitchatting (and honestly she was doing most of the talking) and somewhere in the middle out of the blue she said to me that she liked Americans, she liked Africans and Chinese men are okay but she wont go with Indians. She hated Indian men and she always said no to them. She went on for a bit about how a lot of Indian men try to chose her but she always says no to them and ignores them.
Moment she said this all I was thinking was that she has a choice. Doesn't really matter if a guy picks her out of a line up. She has a right to decide who she goes with and who she doesn't and she freely exercises that right. And if she can do that then the whole "forced compliance" argument is essentially bullshit.
Now, as I said none of this helps Monroegent in any way. But maybe we can put it in perspective a little. If a provider says no AA, that is her choice and she is well within her rights to make that choice. If she said no fat, bald, white dudes... well, I wouldn't like it but again that is her choice. It would be a little easier for me because two clicks away there are whole pages of providers who don't care if you're fat, white and bald.
I don't really think there is an answer for this. All I have is the feeble suggestion that maybe you guys can start a list of providers whom you know are AA friendly. I think you've already got a couple of them right here.
I need to move
