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Originally Posted by CaptainMastPole
......Am I wrong in feeling this should be a given?
How should this be handled tactfully? I don't want to ruin what could be a very good time by bringing up a hygiene issue.
A little help with how to handle this issue would be gratefully appreciated.
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No, you are not wrong in feeling that each of us (men and women) should have good hygiene going into a session.
For the ladies to lack proper hygiene prior to a date, I can venture no excuse. For a gent, as Tammie suggested, take advantage of the shower at the incall.
Is there a tactful way of handling this? The ladies may suggest that they have shower available for your use. I would take that as a hint that you may have some body odor that needs attention. (Personally, I always took a shower, shaved and brushed my teeth before seeing a lady. But, if it has been a few hours since a shower and the Texas weather has been warm, a second shower at the incall is recommended).
Is there a tactful way for a gent to tell a lady you don't find her fresh? Well, No.
I am also not sure how you can have a good time if there is a hygiene issue. To be sure, many of the ladies have to put up with that from some gents. But, not sure I could ever enjoy myself if I encountered a hygiene concern.
That said, what do you do about it? Well, as you suggested, some gents choose not to say anything out of a respect that it could be an isolated incident.
1) You have the option of saying nothing at all.
2) You have the option of saying something to the lady after the fact.
3) You have the option of saying something to the gents in a review or in Men's locker room.
There are potential repercussions to options 2 and 3. It is simply your choice as to say something or not.
We all have a reputation here. Trust me when I say, the ladies talk about us gents and the gents talk about the ladies.
Sorry to hear you had this experience. Thanks for sharing your questions and better luck in the future.
Respectfully,
OldSarge