Problems...He pissed me off!!

[Nia Baby]

Hey Guys & Girls,

I need your opinion on something.. I just had some one cancel because he did not like my rules.. I simply asked him to #1 wait in his car when he arrives & not on my porch...#2 I asked him not too show up early because it imposes on the time I use to freshen up...

He freakd out and cancelled.. saying my rules are "too much"...Im not a BP girl with no experience & working with like 2 or 3 YBM's taking control. of me...LOL.. I am legit! I WAS SOO INSULTED guys !! I THEN TOLD HIM " YES.. WE DO NEED TO CANCEL"..

Which is really a relief to me!! Because I dont have time for the foolishness. I am always going to be discreet & NEVER "unorganized"... AND If I were a hobbiest I would appreciate a lady who is aware of her surroundings and discreet..
But hey save me the headache and good riddance!!. ALL my gentlemen LOVE me and know how I operate.. they appreciate my discretion & tell me so.. so if he cannot "get with the program". then... What do you think??

[dsmiowan]

I'd say you did the right thing.

[maxswell69]

I, too, think you did the right thing.

[GiveMeLibertyOrGiveMeHead]

By early I generally think about 15 minutes before the scheduled time. If 15 minutes would impose on the previous client then I would cancel also. I know you all have other clients, but if you may be with someone 15 minutes before seeing me, then I'm thinking did you really have time to shower and get everything squeaky clean for me or is that extra wetness something the previous client left for me?

[Nia Baby]

thanx
+1 I know I did..Its silly how weird some people can be!!

Originally Posted by dsmiowan

I'd say you did the right thing.

[DestinyInKC]

You did the right thing girl, if they cant follow simple directions then they can take a hike!
There are plenty of other great men who WILL follow the directions with no problem.

[Nia Baby]

Good One!!! LOL... O no baby.. I have to stay clean!!

Originally Posted by GiveMeLibertyOrGiveMeHead

By early I generally think about 15 minutes before the scheduled time. If 15 minutes would impose on the previous client then I would cancel also. I know you all have other clients, but if you may be with someone 15 minutes before seeing me, then I'm thinking did you really have time to shower and get everything squeaky clean for me or is that extra wetness something the previous client left for me?

[GiveMeLibertyOrGiveMeHead]

Originally Posted by Nia Baby

Good One!!! LOL... O no baby.. I have to stay clean!!

That's good to hear!

I was just thinking of reasons why he would cancel. As far as I go, I am never early and usually right on time and I would prefer wait in my car then on someones porch...so you didn't do anything wrong in my book.

[bigcockpussylicker]

Originally Posted by GiveMeLibertyOrGiveMeHead

By early I generally think about 15 minutes before the scheduled time. If 15 minutes would impose on the previous client then I would cancel also. I know you all have other clients, but if you may be with someone 15 minutes before seeing me, then I'm thinking did you really have time to shower and get everything squeaky clean for me or is that extra wetness something the previous client left for me?

Great you shared what you'd do if you were the guy, but you didnt answer, do you like crunchy or creamy peanut butter?
Do you want fritos or lays or an apple?

The point of this thread is not about what you'd do, its not about the how relevant her rules are.
She could say
"you must show up in a blue shirt AND blue pants, or I won't see you.
Those are my rules"

He didnt want to play by her rules, for whatever reason, So he's in the wrong, that's it.

[Joey_Gleet]

You have to think first of your own safety and discretion. As do we all.
A provider that respects her own will respect mine.
This actually makes you more appealing in my book.

[GiveMeLibertyOrGiveMeHead]

Originally Posted by bigcockpussylicker

Great you shared what you'd do if you were the guy, but you didnt answer, do you like crunchy or creamy peanut butter?
Do you want fritos or lays or an apple?

The point of this thread is not about what you'd do, its not about the how relevant her rules are.
She could say
"you must show up in a blue shirt AND blue pants, or I won't see you.
Those are my rules"

He didnt want to play by her rules, for whatever reason, So he's in the wrong, that's it.

I sometimes wonder if there are any retarded people in the hobby and then I read one of your posts and realize there sure as hell are. I am glad that the hobby is an equal opportunity place for you and want to say that you inspire me.

By the way, she asked for our opinions. I gave her mine, end of story and I am not sure why you felt the need to comment on my opinion that she asked for.

Sorry for the hijack, but I had to say it.

[Lubeman]

Rules are rules and they need to be followed. Good job

[jackson842]

Sounds like a newbie who was pretty nervous...but even the noobs gotta understand rules are rules...keep up the quality work honey...

[stimulatethemind]

Unfortunately, there are a lot of asshats out there. I don't understand why it seems so difficult for some guys to show a little respect and be a gentleman. Every lady has her rules and that is her privilege. If, for any reason, you don't care for her rules, the solution is simple; don't schedule time with her. This business, as much as some guys deny it, has to be intensely personal for the ladies. All that most of them ask is to be treated like a human being, with a little dignity and respect. I, personally, don't believe that is asking too much.

[Starry69]

Your requests sound quite reasonable to me. So it's probably best for both people you canceled it.

IMHO.