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Marcus Aurelius · 02-03-2010, 09:22 AM

What if a guy stumbles across a Missy that has “The look.” (For him.)

Physically she has it all that get's his engine running. Then he reads her posts, shares a PM, email or 2 and she is not just a hot bod but fucks his mind too.
The intro that says “You are so beautiful I can't believe I have found you.” Makes women think,
“Chit, another damn stalker.”
No he says, "I gotta be cool like Discreetgent, on the down low."
So I guess he just gets a meeting, tries not to sweat too much at the encounter and not come in his trousers at the first handshake.

guest051510-1 · 02-03-2010, 09:29 AM

I wouldn't think stalker, I would think sweetheart.

Just be yourself MA, the right girls will eat that up and love you for who you are.

I know I do.

nevergaveitathought · 02-03-2010, 10:43 AM

there is that fear on the part of some...that too much equates to an uncomfortableness for a woman....i have had that concern..it tends to make everything so very understated...even a post here on the board can make a guy think twice...is it smooth enough or detached enough or is it overkill???

atlcomedy · 02-03-2010, 03:02 PM

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Originally Posted by Marcus Aurelius

No he says, "I gotta be cool like Discreetgent, on the down low."
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THis must be DG's day....everyone is using him as an example...this one more flattering than the other though

atlcomedy · 02-03-2010, 03:09 PM

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Originally Posted by Marcus Aurelius

What if a guy stumbles across a Missy that has “The look.” (For him.)

Physically she has it all that get's his engine running. Then he reads her posts, shares a PM, email or 2 and she is not just a hot bod but fucks his mind too.
The intro that says “You are so beautiful I can't believe I have found you.” Makes women think,
“Chit, another damn stalker.”
No he says, "I gotta be cool like Discreetgent, on the down low."
So I guess he just gets a meeting, tries not to sweat too much at the encounter and not come in his trousers at the first handshake.

I'm not sure I understand exactly what the question is here

but I wouldn't lead with the "You're so beautiful..." line

& if I did come (sic) in my trousers I would hope to God that if she didn't allow MSOG that she didn't count that Bengals/Chargers/Cowboys kicker-like shot my one and only shot on goal

pjorourke · 02-03-2010, 05:45 PM

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Originally Posted by atlcomedy

THis must be DG's day....everyone is using him as an example...this one more flattering than the other though

Every dog has his day.

Guest053011 · 02-03-2010, 06:05 PM

If you're worried about being too passionate in an introductory letter, I think that's quite amusing. You're a muse!

In the other Intro Letter thread, I had mentioned the power of a letter to build anticipation, to have her excited to see you. Letting her know there's a sincere attraction to body and mind won't work against you.

There's a middle space between cold and obsessed.

Guest112113-3 · 02-03-2010, 06:48 PM

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Originally Posted by Lauren Summerhill

If you're worried about being too passionate in an introductory letter, I think that's quite amusing. You're a muse!

In the other Intro Letter thread, I had mentioned the power of a letter to build anticipation, to have her excited to see you. Letting her know there's a sincere attraction to body and mind won't work against you.

There's a middle space between cold and obsessed.

I'm assume (ass of uand me - ing.... that we are taking about introductory letter to a lady here in the Hobby /Game, I imagine that the young lady is just tickled getting a email with more than one sentence remarks et al....."You want to f..k today?"

When introducing myself to someone new, I write a small summary of myself to give some character of what I am, and lightly tell her I am very interested in her, then wait for the return reply, then decide from the reply how much I expose or not.

It's been working well, but I don't see just the hooker, I look for the woman that has it together. If that makes any sense.

Guest053011 · 02-03-2010, 07:29 PM

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Originally Posted by Woody of TX

t's been working well, but I don't see just the hooker, I look for the woman that has it together. If that makes any sense.

Plenty

Guest050715-1 · 02-06-2010, 03:58 PM

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Originally Posted by Woody of TX

I'm assume (ass of uand me - ing.... that we are taking about introductory letter to a lady here in the Hobby /Game, I imagine that the young lady is just tickled getting a email with more than one sentence remarks et al....."You want to f..k today?"

When introducing myself to someone new, I write a small summary of myself to give some character of what I am, and lightly tell her I am very interested in her, then wait for the return reply, then decide from the reply how much I expose or not.

It's been working well, but I don't see just the hooker, I look for the woman that has it together. If that makes any sense.

Woody,

Those are just the letter that I like to get. However, Lauren is correct MA is a muse. He can write some amazingly romantic stuff. I would say let your prose simmer somewhere near a notch or two above middle of the road.

John Bull · 02-06-2010, 06:02 PM

One of the reasons one has the problem Lord Aurelius describes is that the occasion of his "instant love" is so rare. To see a woman who is sexually attractive, even in the extreme, is not so rare. But the occasion of seeing and interacting with the one who makes him tremble at her touch; who makes him know the electric tingle of her touch when she simply touches his hand - now that is rare.
In my quite extensive life, it's happened twice. It is a magical thing and no matter what you do to connect with that person, you are within acceptable bounds for it is unlikely that she doesn't have similar feelings
One always excepts physicality or stalking.

Marcus Aurelius · 02-06-2010, 06:12 PM

What I described was only from afar. Us seasoned web crawlers know that an online persona and an actual meating (Yes I spelled it that way) are two different things altogether. The look, the mind, the soul that lights your furnace is awesome but ad the spark touch that Sir John Bull states stokes the furnace and you're doomed. I've met some wonderful ladies here but thank God it hasn't happened.

Guest053011 · 02-06-2010, 06:16 PM

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Originally Posted by Marcus Aurelius

The look, the mind, the soul that lights your furnace is awesome but ad the spark touch that Sir John Bull states stokes the furnace and you're doomed. I've met some wonderful ladies here but thank God it hasn't happened.

Nice to hear about this side of the male sexual universe. Much more appealing, and rarer to glimpse then the "cum dump" philosophies.

(I know "cum dump" thing was a joke, but I must admit it turned my stomach with visions of bukkake)