Encounter: King Massage

[jackjohnstone]

Date: 1/25/2022
Name: Lili
Address and Phone: -
Address: McDermott and 75
Phone: -
City: Allen
State: Texas
Email Address: -
URL / Website: -
Activities: FBSM, L3
Hair Length and Color: dark hair, medium
Age: mid 40?
Smoking Status: -
Ethnic Background: Chinese
Physical Description: attractive for age. not fat but not skinny either
Recommendation: Yes

[oral_dlites]

Pretty sure she doesn't want reviews.

[ReggieSinclair]

[Meeker_22]

[CryptKicker]

This is a review board and no one can have a no review policy here. It's up to the lady and the gent to come to an arrangement about reviews but ECCIE does not honor a provider's request for no reviews.

[Soccerjunky]

We have this argument here all the time. It is a fine line between attempting to respect the wishes of the ladies who take care of us, and the raison de etre of this board - the sharing of information for your fellow hobbyists. Once this information is released into the public, it is not the fault of the reviewer that certain other hobbyists don't use the information responsibly.

And we are "allowed" to have experiences that you, for whatever reason (no-review policy, protection of privacy, special relationship, etc.), that we choose not to write about, although it is gauche to rub it in your fellow hobbyists' faces and tell them, essentially, that you know something great but are not sharing it; I assume everyone's mama taught them not to brag.

That said, a policy is a policy, and if you KNOW going in or coming out that a therapist does not want to be reviewed, it is (in a sense) a "condition" of her seeing you. If you know that, and still write publicly about your experience, that violates the number one rule of respecting the person who takes care of you.

[CryptKicker]

But again that is between the gent and the lady. It is not between the board and the gent/lady. The board does not recognize a provider asking not to be reviewed. In some cases, such as a LMT, the board has pulled reviews to prevent the lady from losing her certification. Those instances should be directed to the admins or the local moderators.

[Billogoods]

[CryptKicker]

Originally Posted by Billogoods

[Billogoods]

Originally Posted by CryptKicker

In some cases, such as a LMT, the board has pulled reviews to prevent the lady from losing her certification.

This is the reason a "No review" request should be honored. Most SubAMP ladies and the shops that employ them are licensed. If a gal on a Visa loses her license, she loses her livelihood and runs the risk of deportation.

If a member says she requests "No review", then we should honor that. Telling her she needs to contact an admin will likely result in the cessation of extra activities. Hell, most of them cannot form a complete sentence in English. That puts her in a helluva bind.

If she does make the request, the Mods got more work.

So, instead of making it hard on her and the Mods, it's a lot easier for the members to handle it, like gentlemen.

[CryptKicker]

If this is the case with this lady then the admins or local moderators should be made aware.

[Billogoods]

Whenever a complaint is filed with the 'Thorities, against a massage place, the first response is almost always a Code officer, checking code compliance and licenses. If they don't pass these tests, they shut them down.

Code & License Enforcement is highly effective. That's why we don't review Flower Mound. The owners read the reviews and file complaints on their competition. (M&E used go be fun) Richardson has shut down a few this way. (Pure served up some good suction, East Blue's table shower)

Most localities don't bother with Grandmas that give handies, now & then. But, when there are reports that some hottie is sucking tennis balls through garden hoses or practicing her cowgirl skills and they're gonna be visited.

[oral_dlites]

I agree we can't hold the board responsible to honor a lady's or an establishment's request. That is squarely on the monger's shoulders. When I first saw LiLi, she gave me the zipper motion across her mouth and said "no review please". I honored her request. But, here I am talking about it.

[bashar]

What happens if a woman requesting no reviews is an upsell queen and the massage is terrible? Can a monger not write a NO review to warn others?

My take on this is that a monger should be allowed to review, but leave some details out or be vague. That’s just common sense in the present environment regardless of the therapists policy.

Experienced members of the board can read between the lines.

[CryptKicker]

Anyone gent can write a review on anyone. ECCIE does not honor no review policies from the ladies. That agreement is between the two of you only.