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Old 03-03-2010, 09:54 AM   #1
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On my website I have clearly stated my availability for same day appointments and I still get requests for them. I really want all you guys to know how difficult it is to screen a new friend in less then 24hrs. Especially when they send you a email stating... "Hi I am on Eccie also can I see you today." You have taken the time to send me a email Why didn't you take the extra second to include your handle on site? I am 100% independent which means, I answer my own emails, I answer all my phone calls and I screen all my new friends. I do not have an assistant. So guys when you ask for same day appts Please be patient I have to email you back asking simple questions that could have saved time in the first place. Such as handle and provider references. I then have to contact that provider and Hope she replies back that same day. I do these things for my safety and I hope you all understand how much time it takes being Independent!
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Old 03-03-2010, 10:38 AM   #2
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Faith,
I think everybody understand, sometimes it takes a learning curve of how to approach an sp for a date when they are newbies, so some patience might be required with them.
That does not mean they should expect a same day appointment, It is always better to schedule and confirm ahead of time.
I also know that You appreciate how much time and effort goes into us trying to schedule a date with an sp. A lot of homework is involved to make sure that she is legitimate and safe to meet with. Then we go thru the verification process which is normally easy and not painful at all.
All this takes time guys, for your sake and for the sp's sake, avoid same day appointments and plan your dates, it is better that way in my opinion.
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Old 03-03-2010, 11:33 AM   #3
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My standard initial email:

I would like to see you for an incall/outcall in CITY for DURATION on DATE at TIME. My ECCIE and Escorts.com handle is XXX. My references are YYY (email) and ZZZ (email).
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Old 03-03-2010, 11:48 AM   #4
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I confess I have been a same day appt guy but not with someone I have never met before. I agree with needing time to provide the information they require and do something similar to Jack.

This may not be what Faith brought up but some of my best experiences have been on a same day appt. My availability schedule changes sometimes last minute. So an e-mail or text at 10 am asking availability at lunch time does not always work but when it does, the unplanned meeting makes me go out and buy a lottery ticket. Because it's my lucky day.
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Old 03-03-2010, 12:23 PM   #5
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would be awesome if we all were considerate and plannned ahead but sometime something justs pops up [usually in our pants] and the time and cash works out and we're just really horny. its easy to make dinner reservations for fri at 6 but determining when we might be amorous is sometimes more difficult. without question i understand the sp's perspective and i usually book well in advance but as i said sometimes things just COME UP unexpectedly.
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Old 03-03-2010, 01:07 PM   #6
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My standard initial email:

I would like to see you for an incall/outcall in CITY for DURATION on DATE at TIME. My ECCIE and Escorts.com handle is XXX. My references are YYY (email) and ZZZ (email).
I try and do something similar Jack, but I also try to include the reference phone numbers if possible and my p411.
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I am really at a loss for words. I have not had an opportunity to experience any of this yet and it is tough just to work up the nerve, and get beyond the paranoia. So any heads up on what to expect along the way would be helpful. screening info ect?
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Old 03-03-2010, 05:25 PM   #8
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Thanks Everyone for Reading and Listening! I sometimes feel like people will read a post, but do not really listen to the writter and then the post goes in another direction. I appreciate all you kind men and I hope others will learn from your knowledge.
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Old 03-03-2010, 08:10 PM   #9
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Please be patient I have to email you back asking simple questions that could have saved time in the first place. Such as handle and provider references. I then have to contact that provider and Hope she replies back that same day. I do these things for my safety and I hope you all understand how much time it takes being Independent!
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Faith, I expect nearly everyone would agree that your safety is paramount and that screening first time visitors takes time. Providers run greater risks when they don't screen well.

Good post. Resist the urge to cut corners. Stay safe.
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Old 03-04-2010, 10:09 AM   #10
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I would like to see you for an incall/outcall in CITY for DURATION on DATE at TIME. My ECCIE and Escorts.com handle is XXX. My references are YYY (email) and ZZZ (email).
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I confess I have been a same day appt guy but not with someone I have never met before. I agree with needing time to provide the information they require and do something similar to Jack.

This may not be what Faith brought up but some of my best experiences have been on a same day appt. My availability schedule changes sometimes last minute. So an e-mail or text at 10 am asking availability at lunch time does not always work but when it does, the unplanned meeting makes me go out and buy a lottery ticket. Because it's my lucky day.
Yup all the above is where I see it. I do not have p411, but as GP posted add it if you have it. And yes the phone # of the references, and make sure it is ok to use them.
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Old 03-04-2010, 08:25 PM   #11
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faith

we allways listen to you !

have some faith
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