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01-01-2013, 02:51 PM
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Join Date: Apr 3, 2011
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Hobby vs. relationship(s).
If you have the scrill to play 4 times a month why do you need a girlfriend or wife? I've heard before that free pu$$y costs more than paying for it- I never believed it till I saw my friends 401k reduced by half. If the relationship goes south- the courts view it as a business partnership-certainly not a yum yum fairy tale. Just a thought.
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01-01-2013, 03:02 PM
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When I was in grad school, I had a classmate do an entire thesis on this subject. It was really eye opening how much more expensive being in a relationship is versus finding a provider a few times a month. I used to have a copy of it.
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01-01-2013, 03:06 PM
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Provider is less of a headache... IMO
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01-01-2013, 03:26 PM
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Why buy the cow, when the... Um, a bird in the hand.... Fuck it! Yeah buy pussy don't marry it!
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01-01-2013, 05:57 PM
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It all depends on what you want in life.
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01-01-2013, 06:03 PM
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No Ads pls
This is not a place to put your ads...read guidelines and please follow them.
--Modda.
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01-01-2013, 06:14 PM
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Originally Posted by Paris AmorE
No Ads in Co-ed
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Le What the fuck? Parle vous Le threAD...
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01-01-2013, 06:23 PM
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Wrong thread for advertising babe !!
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01-01-2013, 07:01 PM
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Originally Posted by The DarkSide
Why buy the cow, when the... Um, a bird in the hand.... Fuck it! Yeah buy pussy don't marry it!
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LMAO!
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01-01-2013, 08:58 PM
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I guess there is never a perfect type of relationship - either in the hobby or in private - if there were more - everyone would be happier - not as many bitter feelings - lawyers would not make $$$$$ in legal fee's , either or would not lose half of their assest , house , savings , etc., - children would have just one set of parents , no single parents -
and if more perfect - yes the hobby would not be as active -
So - I guess to each their own - to me it would be nicer to have a relationship - but their is never a perfect or trusting one
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01-02-2013, 09:05 AM
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recollecting as best as i can ...
robin william's character to matt damon's character in "good will hunting"...
she's not perfect. no one is.
but she can be perfect for you!!
there are a gazillion reasons why someone who is in a committed relationship will go visit escorts/providers/call girls/<insertYourFavoriteTermHere> .
and while many of those reasons are similar, it's only up to the guy to know what the "perfect" reason for hobbying is.
"If you have the scrill to play 4 times a month why do you need a girlfriend or wife?"
one reason - because i wouldnt want to take a provider on a 2-3 week vacation to south america, europe, canada, or s.e. asia. i have yet to meet one that i would want to hang out with for that length of time.
another reason - if i wanted kids, i would rather have them w/ a s.o. or wife and not w/ a provider.
i'm sure you can think of a few more.
bottom line - do what feels right and perfect for you.
and realize that it doesnt have to feel right and perfect for others.
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01-02-2013, 11:54 AM
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Excellent point on the kids-I was thinking more post divorce- I have no friends who have not been divorced by the way. A thought I always juxtapose is walking along a beach holding hands with a woman you have been married to for 25 years versus banging some hottie 25 years younger. I think in the moment I'd choose the hottie. I hope I'm wrong.
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01-02-2013, 12:33 PM
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The IDEAL thing would be a wife/GF who was attractive, affectionate and was someone with whom you could be intimate. We all have different situations, but I find intimacy to be important. You don't really have intimacy with a provider. So, it is all a compromise.
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01-02-2013, 12:43 PM
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[QUOTE/]
bottom line - do what feels right and perfect for you.
and realize that it doesnt have to feel right and perfect for others.[/QUOTE]
This. Thanks for saying it before I did, and putting it in the right language.
+ a ga-gillion  It would avoid lots of the drama that happens around here as well!
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01-02-2013, 01:23 PM
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If a bbbj cim is not intimate it has to be in the ball park at least. Yeah a girl may like you but since time immorrial I suspect there has always been and always will be an exchange for sex. I suspect intimacy would go flying out the window for a guy with no income. Honey I quit my job, and gave everything to charity. Idk
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