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Originally Posted by Ginger Doll
If lack of trust on the forefront is that serious of an issue in the relationship, perhaps one should rethink the idea of marriage.
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I speak for myself on this but it really isn't a trust issue for me. I just believe that it is smart to protect oneself when getting into a marriage these days. As I mentioned earlier, divorce has become a sport in American culture and many have learned how to capitalize on the issue. Chances are these days that if two people get married, they will end up divorcing somewhere down the road. The statistics and numbers don't lie and I doubt these numbers are getting cooked.
Discussing the possibility of a breakup should be a priority between couples because it's not "if", but "when" the breakup occurs. Life isn't a fairy tale and I think everyone would agree on that. "Happily ever after" or "Till death do you part" just doesn't have the meaning that it used to. Numbers prove that fact.