Tips for new hobbyist?

[Danniboi521]

I am a new hobbyist and I'd like some tips to start off. The providers I'm interested in require more "experienced clients. EX:3 reviews or p411 etc. Did y'all start from the bottom and go with lower end providers first? Because I'd rather not stick anything in something I don't think is quality. Thanks

[Alpine]

Danni,
Fist thing is that you need to be polite and civil, insulting the ladies is a VERY good way to not have the opportunity to visit with any of them. Do a little review research in your area. You will find some ladies that will see you with little to no reviews. They most likely will ask for a lot of personnel information.

Good luck, may you find what you are looking for!

Regards,
Alpine

[LimitlessJD]

Are you on P411? If not, get on it. Plenty of newbie friendly hotties there. If you can't find a hot girl in Dallas to see you, you're doing something wrong.

Suck it up and jump through the screening hoops - the ladies don't care about anything but making sure you aren't going to bust them or kill them.

[LimitlessJD]

Also, if you happen to have a bad experience when starting out, I would suggest not doing a review unless it's a sagety issue. Many ladies won't see you if you only have negative reviews.

[plainjoe]

Read the Security thread - it has many good ideas.
In addition to the great advise given about P411, couple things to consider. Keep your real life and hobby life separate. In other words, get and use a separate hobby phone, e-mail account, not access hobby related items from work, no real life information to ladies, etc.
Good luck and be safe!

[Ed Highlight]

You are gonna make a few mistakes - go make them! If you are really stupid, you'll make a huge mistake from which you will never recover. If you are smart and careful, you will learn quickly how not to make them....or, you'll keep making them and eventually quit.

Tip: Cheap and easy isn't always the way to start.

Another Tip: When in doubt, pick the one with the bigger tits!

Good luck!!

[gladius82]

First .... Stay away from BackPage.

Find a newly friendly provider on ECCIE, you should have not trouble finding at least two or three.
See them each at least once and write a review of each. Also get a hobby phone,

[Warptcuck]

If you are going to pay for a date, be sure to find the kind of lady you want. Don't settle for something you don't want.
Don't over pay. If a price seems high, read all of her reviews, in detail, to see of she is worth the price.

[Paddy Daddy]

Tips...

1. Buy condoms in bulk, and have them with you at all times.

2. Split as much ass as possible, while using the items purchased in tip # 1.

3. Listen and learn from those who walked this path before you.

**. That's a great start. Good luck!!!

[Glucksjager]

Like Danniboi521, I am also a new hobbyist. So are p411 and giving reviews the best way to be verified? Thanks.

[MidnightMountain]

I’m still new also, so discard or disagree with these suggestions as you see fit:

1) Don’t be afraid of Backpage, when you hear to stay away from it that’s misleading. Be afraid of Backpage providers who you cannot confidently connect to trusted sites and a list of reviews. For example, some girls on BP have recent reviews here from long time trusted members. If that’s the case I consider the risk acceptable.

2) Did you register for this site with an your own email address? Silly rabbit, delete everything from this account and start over. If you did not use your personal email, did you still use another email address that you’ve used in the past for anything else? Again, delete all, start over.

3) When you first communicate with a provider, mention in passing you got info on them from eccie or p411. It’s not a lie, and might save you a screening question or two. Last night I did this and wasn’t asked for any info at all (review posted).

4) In real life, are you a socialble person, or have a good sense of humor and like to joke around, or are you chatty when nervous? Stop that. At least until you’ve established trust, keep your initial communications simple, small, and direct, don’t adlib extra info. This is because while you think it’s normal behavior, her brain is trying to make a billlion calculations to decide if you are for real and safe. You don’t want to confuse or make those calculations more difficult. I’m not saying be robotic, that’s even worse, but just the facts ma’am normal behavior.

[Warptcuck]

BP worked for me for about 5 years. CL before that.
I did find some crazies and some not so clean.
I learned that the younger BP chicks are not worth the $$$.
I always googled their number. If it wasn't connected to some escort website with any type of reviews or show how long she has been in the business, I didn't reply to that ad.
I had decent luck in Houston, but New Orleans and the rest of the gulf coast, I had horrible luck. Bitches wanted a lot of money for hardly any services.
I like Eccie. Reviews help me make the right choices.

[Gotyour6]

You have 2 reviews

What the fuck are you talking about

If they want more than that go find a girl that doesnt

Just because they need three forms of ID and your fingerprint doesn't make them any bettter than others.

[alaine]

Welcome, have fun and ALWAYS play safe.
Alaine

[alaine]

Currently offering SCREENING/Tutoring for NEW guys. Pretty PAINLESS...