In my defense of thei Bad Review I Recieved!!!

[Melyssa]

Ok I received a bad review cause I was tired and my nails was not perfect and because I answered the door in a silk dress!!! But I feel that this bad review was because of the donation amount was a little higher then normal.. Because I have seen this gentleman more then once and never had a problem until I raised the donation a little bit.. But in my defense first of all yes I was tired I mean it was about 2 am and who wouldn't be tired at 2 am!! Then as far as my nails being not done or about the fingernail polish well it goes like this...( When I saw him I was in the process of moving houses so all my money had been tied up, Im a single mother so my kids needs come first then mine, and if some of the gentlemen wasn't so cheap all the time then maybe we would be able to get our nails and hair done all the time... IJS) So I just wanted to Speak my side of my bad Review... And Im upset cause I have a bad review I guess there is a first time for everything... Have a Wonderful Day!!!

http://www.eccie.net/showthread.php?t=1006219

[Baelee Bliss]

Just keep doing providing great service sweetie and this bad review will be a thing of the past, I too wish there were a two way street when it comes to reviews. Good luck and be safe pretty lady.

[Melyssa]

Thank you and I'm always keep providing great service to the best of my ability.. And I had forgot to mention I had text him apologizing for the bad experience he had and told him if he wasn't happy all he had to do was talk to me and then I could of explained the reasoning for my nails not being done and offered him his donation back since he wasn't satisfied.. But he stayed for a little bit and then left and never not one time said or acted like he was disappointed because if I knew he was he could of took his donation back and left.. Im not like some girls that say oh your came so this donation is mine.. That is wrong but girls do it but im not one of them..But after I had texted him back apologizing he did mention maybe if my donation wasn't so high then he might not have been upset! That how I know I got a bad review just cause of the donation being more then normal..

[loveherlegs]

Melyssa, I work at 4am. It was like 8pm, not 2am. You're lying here.

Also, your price was higher last time. The first time I saw you, you charged me 120 for a half hour. This time, it was 100. And it wasn't your nails. It was everything else. I could've been much meaner in that review. MUCH more honest. You sure you wanna do this now?


I've tried to be polite, even when you started texting me about the review. I've paid other providers much more than what I paid you, you just dropped the ball. Stop making excuses.

[loveherlegs]

Also, I DID act like it was a problem. I still had at least 20 minutes left on the half hour clock and I left. You commented about it. I had to make up an excuse about work to leave and you caught it anyway. Other people here can vouch for me. I'm an extremely polite hobbyist. I make it my business to be. I understand that this is how you make your money, but don't come on here telling lies thinking I won't refute you. I didn't mention the donation as to why I was upset at all. I can screen shot the conversation.


Stop digging a hole for yourself.

[Melyssa]

I have no reason to lie about anything.. It was about 1 or 2 am not no 8:20 now if you want to I can go back and get the call log from the night you came and saw me and prove my truth.... and you paid 120 this time not 100... So would you like me to get the call log?

[loveherlegs]

Yeah sure. Get the call log. I have a screen shot of it all, so make sure it's the right number.

And I put 100 on the review. I didn't have any 20s. Only 100s. I don't know why you even bring that up, though...and you have PLENTY of reason to lie about all of this. Anyone that read the ROS on my review would've reacted the same way I did.

It wasn't the price or the toenails, it was the odor and the fart that did me in. I've paid much more for much better service. I'm still willing to. I mean...I didn't wanna go there, but you could've at least showered after the last guy...

Also, I didn't call you at all. It was all text. Haha. I'm pretty sure you're thinking of the wrong person when you say someone called you at 2am. My wife would KILL me if I tried to leave the house for any reason at that hour.

[loveherlegs]

Ha, I won't be back to this thread. I feel bad for putting your business out there like that. I hope this doesn't hurt your business. I'd delete th epost if I could but it won't allow me to edit or anything.

[secpro]

One bad review isn't the end of the world. Guys know that sometimes you're tired or otherwise not on top of your game. We look for a number of good reviews to counter-balance that. I'm actually posting a separate thread on that topic.

Another thing we look at is that we don't want drama. If a lady were to get in a screaming match in public on the board, she might also fly off the handle in private. It would be bad sign if a lady couldn't keep her cool. On the other hand, handling disagreements with grace and dignity makes a lady look good.

[Melyssa]

Lmaooooo omg wowwwwwww okayyy if you say so!!! Look I didn't come on here to argue with you I came on here to simply state my opinion about the only bad review I have and I don't need you coming on my thread with all of the drama and bs.. None of that is needed nor called for .. so if you don't like what I have to say about my own review which I think is fair to say how I feel.. As far as me smelling bad or farting not my thing honey im probably the cleanest person you will ever meet I am always clean and smelling good anyone who has ever met me can tell you that.. if you was not happy you could of left if you don't like my thoughts then ok but as far as all of the other that is simply not need nor necessary....

[loveherlegs]

Haha.

Sorry, I always feel the need to respond when people are being intentionally misleading. And haha, whatever you say. I wasn't being dramatic. Just clarifying.

[Melyssa]

omg

[Buckskin]

*popping the popcorn*

[secpro]

Melyssa - OF COURSE you want to defend yourself. You'd hardly be human if you didn't. I've done the same a few times when my work was criticised on an industry forum. It was a mistake every time I did it. Being offended, angry, and a little defensive, I ALWAYS ended up saying something that made me look bad.

He said you farted. Everybody farts. Pumping action inside a body tends to cause farting. Nobody gives a darn if you farted.

What can and will hurt your reputation is getting involved in drama on the board. Almost any "defense" is going to hurt your reputation, not help it. The one thing you can say that makes you look good is "I'm sorry we weren't a good fit. I hope you find someone you enjoy your time with.". That's it. Virtually any defense = drama = you look bad.


Ps - the same for "loveherlegs". Shut up. If I were a provider reading this thread, I'd be making a note that taking an appointment with loveherlegs might end up causing drama that would hurt my reputation. You posted your review. Now demonstrate that you're a good client by moving on.

[knotty man]

you have the right to definitely defend yourself.
but, honestly. this review was over a month ago, only had 4 comments, and the last comment was over a month ago.
i had to go 4 pages back in the review section just to find it.
most guys had either not seen it or had forgotten about it till YOU brought it back up.
thank goodness you did. most of would never have known you had a "no" review much less 2 "no" reviews (check out your own reviews).
thank you for bringing your bad reviews to our attention, otherwise we might not have ever found out about them