Rejected but not out

[Guest032312]

Being one who does not know the word quit, I am soliciting.
I am soliciting the help of my old and newer friends in helping me in the pursuit of convincing a provider to think outside the box and see me anyway, in spite of not providing that which was asked for.

I'd try to woo & dazzle her with my charm, but that didn't seem to work out very well. LOL
The provider in question frequents this board but I'll not name her. She know who she is.
I totally respect her in doing what she needs to do to keep her safe.
This is not really even so much about her, but perhaps a precursor of an alternative way of passing the screening test.

I've always tried to make the hobby more above ground. More as a natural way of life as it is seen in most other countries.
I ask of my friends to legitimize me as a person worth seeing.
Rather than asking those to post, which would compromise their anonymity and thus be biased , I am simply going to post a poll and ask you to vote for or against this provider in seeing me.

[MsElena]

Why would you even want to try to convince a lady to see you if she's already said no? If you didn't pass her screening on your own, posting by others aren't going to help.

If it were me, this action alone would creep me out and reassure me that I made the right decision in saying no.

[ez2plz]

Even though I understand what you are looking for, the way you phrased your poll is inconclusive! By answering "YES", I would be agreeing that I am either "For or Against" it; answering "No" would mean that I don't have an opinion either way.

[JDNorthface]

Originally Posted by MsElena

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If it were me, this action alone would creep me out and reassure me that I made the right decision in saying no.

And MsE is being extraordinarily polite.

You must have a serious set of gonads to post this...

Good luck.

[BigDeal]

kinda like having a crush in middle school that wont go away.....hey new twist in trying to get a girls attention....I couldve found found different ways tp do it?
I guess the question is Why wont she see you?
Was it a post you made?
Your profile?
Something you said in your initial contact?

Have you ever maybe just tried to use your brain to reach out to her to explain more about you and just be yourself and ask to maybe pay for her time and a drink to get to know each other?

Again the dance continues!

[Cheaper2buyit]

You sound lonely maybe even sad but definely desperate

[Guest032312]

Geez people. lighten up. Even if there were 1000 yes's and zero no's, wouldn't matter in changing her mind to not see me, nor would I ask her.
The reason for her not wanting to see me in which I think I have already stated, was simply for the fact that I wish to not forclose information she requested of me. Perfectly in her right to so no. I am not disputing that.
Just thought I'd give it another try in a unique way and give it a go. Had no idea it would casue such a stir and open a can of worms. Who knew?
Happy New Year.

[Tori Hastings]

Yeah, this will definitely not convince her. Just move on to the next. To try and bypass a woman's screening process (her initial way of feeling safe and comfortable with you) probably just put you on some women's DNS lists.

[Omahan]

You are the man Headmaster! Head has been an active and respected hobbyist since way before ECCIE, ASPD or BoardSaavy - probably before Cowtown and Gabby's Board.

[JayceeRivers]

I thought the effort was sweet personally.

[i'va biggen]

Do what I do in this case.I get a hard up lay five $100 dollar bills on it take a pic and txt it to her.

[MsElena]

Its not causing a stir or opening up a can of worms. You asked a question, you got answers. If you don't want honest answers, don't ask questions.

I'm sure you're a good guy, Omahan is giving you a nice reference. But, I'd do the same thing as the lady who you wish to see....if you don't want to give information that I need, that's fine....but, I won't be meeting you. Of course this is just my example.

[Guest032312]

Thanks Jaycee, at least someone got it.
In the decade of having hourly fun, having met some wonderful women, I've never been happier with those I am seeing now.
Have never been more mentally and physically healthier, but as we as social creatures are, never hurts to look around at all our options. LOL

[FireSerpent]

I can't say that I know of you from the old days, but I think making an effort to pass screening in a method which makes you feel comfortable is to be respected.

Having said that, I think ladies should have a standard and uphold that standard whenever possible. Sure, it might mean that some well meaning, yet very private, good clients will not make it through the gates. It also means other negative people will not make it though as well.

[malwoody]

Originally Posted by FireSerpent

I can't say that I know of you from the old days,
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I knew you was a youngster...lol