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australian_hell_yun · 04-14-2011, 09:45 AM

Had an escort stay the weekend at my beach house over the weekend, she cooked and cleaned, and when it was time for her to go (well she wanted to stay) Now she is calling me twice a day (HELP)

Nicolet · 04-14-2011, 10:16 AM

Uh oh! Sounds like YOU were TGTBT! I hope she sees that it is what it is soon so you stress out any more! Was she a newbie or a verified lady, just curious....

australian_hell_yun · 04-14-2011, 10:22 AM

She is verified. We enjoyed ourselves, spent time out on the water. Later, she replied "I could enjoy this kind of lifestyle" I did not think anything of it. Now it seems I have a "clinger"

TwistedTiger · 04-14-2011, 10:49 AM

Great, you ruined her for everybody else. Might as well put her name out there so everyone without a beach house can pass on her. You might also put out an ad that anyone with a beach house looking for a clinger......

On a more serious note, I'm sorry that you are being harassed and I'm sorry that she thinks there may be more there than there is. IMO the best thing to do is be up front and bluntly honest in a kind way. Don't let it continue on. Hopefully she gets the hint soon or you get over your commitment issues and buy that ring.

Nicolet · 04-14-2011, 10:55 AM

It sure looks that way! She should know the ropes since you say she is verified. I hope she comes back to Earth soon and you can have your life back! Sorry this has happened. Don't let this lady shy you away from the rest of us girls! All I want is to rock your socks and go back to my own little paradise!

FYI........... I'll be visiting Lafayette soon! (subtle hint!)

australian_hell_yun · 04-14-2011, 11:50 AM

I felt it was only business. I did not lead her into believing anything more than that. I told her upon her leaving, I would like to see her again in the near future.

TwistedTiger · 04-14-2011, 12:29 PM

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Originally Posted by australian_hell_yun

I felt it was only business. I did not lead her into believing anything more than that. I told her upon her leaving, I would like to see her again in the near future.

Have you looked on the front door step lately? What ever you do, don't put food and a water bowl out there!

Nicolet · 04-14-2011, 12:33 PM

LMAO! Now I see why your name is TWISTED!

TwistedTiger · 04-14-2011, 12:53 PM

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Originally Posted by Nicolet

LMAO! Now I see why your name is TWISTED!

The world is a crazy place. How anyone could survive it without a sense of humor is a mystery to me. Sometimes you just have to laugh at the crazy curves this world can throw you.

Nina Rae · 04-14-2011, 01:08 PM

What kind of girl confuses the fantasy for reality? And why did you tell her you'd be glad to see her again soon if you weren't...or was that before the clinging? Ugh, what a mess. Good luck. I agree with Twisted, just be upfront with her and tell her its crossing a line.

rogerdodger · 04-14-2011, 02:16 PM

a class 5 clinger ... as much as i hate Charlie Sheen, i believe he once said "i don;t pay them to have sex with me, i pay them to leave" ... good luck.

acp5762 · 04-14-2011, 02:21 PM

Hell keep her. It's like a stray dog if they hang around for a little while and then leave then it wasn't meant to be. If they stay and feel claimed then you have a real winner worth keeping. She cooked and cleaned? Sounds like she could be using providerville as a way to find a soulmate. I'd study the situation.

australian_hell_yun · 04-14-2011, 02:40 PM

Don't need a shelia wandering about. I paid her $4500.00 for the 3 days she was around. Right now, I am not looking for a soul mate. She hasn't scared me from the hobby just the age of the girls..

Outdoorsman · 04-14-2011, 02:48 PM

You have to watch those types, in my experience they claim to be after your heart or your penis, usually not the case. Usually after the other thing in your pants - your wallet.

If I was young in my lower 20's and some lady had me over paid me well for a few days, I ate good food, stayed in a nice beach house. Sure I would want that lifestyle without actually earning it.

There are a lot of fun ladies out here, I typically stay with the less young type simply for their ability to understand the lines that are drawn. Some young great looking ladies get used to manipulating men with their good looks and see how far they can push it. I do not know if love at first sight exists, it has not for me, but I feel very confident in stating in 3 days she did not fall in love with a man that pays for her services unless she is a little off her rocker and who wants that?! Just my .02

Miss J · 04-14-2011, 02:53 PM

Hell, baby...I would have stayed at your beach house for less than that...and would have left PROMPTLY when asked, LOL!

I think good providers respond to emails and such...they don't generally call the "client" begging. I'm with Twisted...Don't leave food and water on your porch babe...that kitten may never leave if you do, LOL!