SHOULD A NEW PROVIDER BE EXPECTED TO BE AS EXPERIENCED AS A PROVIDER THAT'S BEEN IN THE BUSINESS FOR MONTHS AND YEARS?????

[Raven Monroe]

In regards to my recent no review. I do apologize for texting during the session. I explained to him that my grandmother is helping me balance out a financial/ family situation that I am currently going through. At that point he was asking for msog and I told him sure baby no problem, at the same time I wasn't sure if he was asking to extend the session as well so I told him that it'll be a additional fee if that was the case. So maybe that's what he means by upscale. As I was finishing up the response to my grandmother which he was fine with me doing so, he just got dressed and said don't worry about it. I then placed my phone on the night stand and told him that he didn't have to leave and I was very submissively sensually sincere with my words. He again told me not to worry about it. At that point there was nothing I could do apparently. I have learned a valuable lesson from this situation and that is not to be on your phone at all during a session. Keep in mind guy's that I am new here and learning the rope's so bare with me. Thanks for taking the time out to listen Raven Monroe.

[Guest070818-1]

New or old, Professionalism is a must. Put the phone away and suck some cock!

[Phrasing]

Good response to the bad situation.
Who gave you access to the ROS?

[TemptationTammie]

I agree that the phone should be shut off or silenced during that time that you are with clients. They are paying for your undivided attention during that time. It is usually only a half hour, an hour or similar, anything else can wait. This is just common courtesy whether new provider or more established.

[Eva Damita]

Originally Posted by BrownSugarBaby

New or old, Professionalism is a must. Put the phone away and suck some cock!

Originally Posted by TemptationTammie

I agree that the phone should be shut off or silenced during that time that you are with clients. They are paying for your undivided attention during that time. It is usually only a half hour, an hour or similar, anything else can wait. This is just common courtesy whether new provider or more established.

AMEN. No sympathy here. Sorry, whether you work at McDonald's or making hundreds of dollars escorting, grams can wait a few minutes. It wasn't.an overnight.

[thefamilydog]

Raven - I am glad you wrote this - it shows a willingness to learn. As a newbie there is a lot to learn. I am sure there a lot of folks out there like me who are willing to teach, but you gotta ask (dear mr client, I am new at this - will you help me get better?).

As for the "No" review, I can only speak for myself but one "No" review is not a showstopper.

Good luck with your education and with the hobby and definitely play safe.

[Guest110416]

Originally Posted by Phrasing

Good response to the bad situation.
Who gave you access to the ROS?

Good question


I will give you 3 guesses and the first 2 do not count!


To answer the OP question in her subject title, everyone was a beginner at first, but there are some things you just do not do while in a BCD session, new or seasoned in your provider status, and texting is one of them. I know you want the money, but if your mind is elsewhere, you need to cancel the session, hopefully before a guy goes all the way out to see you and is at your incall.

[koseylee]

Originally Posted by TemptationTammie

I agree that the phone should be shut off or silenced during that time that you are with clients. They are paying for your undivided attention during that time. It is usually only a half hour, an hour or similar, anything else can wait. This is just common courtesy whether new provider or more established.

+1 IMHO one of the keys to being a great provider is to make the person you are with seem like the most important person to you during the time you are together. Anything that distracts from that will lessen the experience.

Raven, you have the skills to be very good, how you handle the "experience" side will decide if you are great. In our time together you were focused on my pleasure. Not just physical, but the whole package. I came away very pleased.

[~Ze~]

Sounds like she is pretty experienced in the art of manipulation.

On phone with "grams"... sorry, ain't buying it. Sounds like pimp pressure to me.
Upsell?
Then "submissve" when she was trying to milk the money?

GTFO with that.

Now, I could be completely wrong, and will probably get smashed because of my opinion.. LOL. I don't really gaf.

I have seen a lot of aspects to this lifestyle. Including the bp/streetwalker games that get played. This just seems to fit one of those scenarios.

[Guest112916]

Originally Posted by Phrasing - Who gave you access to the ROS?

If you look at the responses to the review you will see the Reviewer exposed that in Post #3 and Post #5.

Since the Reviewer stated his own ROS in the open there is no leak of ROS and she is explaining her side based on his statements.

Anyone can determine this was an issue in the review/session from his own open words in those posts.

For Raven. Treat this as a learning experience. In the DFW area you are a needle in a big haystack of Providers. Roughly 700 on ECCIE and add in the BP girls. IOP is a huge factor and texting during a session is a big No No. Men will perceive you are texting a Pimp. Once you have that label, you're finished.

Just my opinion but using the "Should New Girls be as Knowledgable as Seasoned Providers?" falls under the "Ignorance is not an excuse." This is the business of sex. You're not new to Sex and you've been having sex since you broke your cherry and I doubt whether it is a boyfriend, SO, or Paying John, I doubt any would appreciate you texting during sex or a session.

[bored@home]

Originally Posted by Phrasing

Good response to the bad situation.
Who gave you access to the ROS?

Not only that but you should ask them for more. The texting rebuttal is kind of small potatoes compared to the whole. Live, learn, and move on....or don't and just change names

Ps..nothing's gets me hot like texting grandma's

[Kendall4U]

Excuses are like assholes, everyone has one. You know how you would want to be treated. The gents here are the same way. Time to sink or swim doll. Good luck.

[Eva Damita]

Originally Posted by ~Ze~

Sounds like she is pretty experienced in the art of manipulation.

On phone with "grams"... sorry, ain't buying it. Sounds like pimp pressure to me.
Upsell?
Then "submissve" when she was trying to milk the money?

GTFO with that.

Now, I could be completely wrong, and will probably get smashed because of my opinion.. LOL. I don't really gaf.

I have seen a lot of aspects to this lifestyle. Including the bp/streetwalker games that get played. This just seems to fit one of those scenarios.

Ze, I think I love you for saying my thoughts, I left my balls in DFW today not sharing what I really peep...lol

[Raven Monroe]

Originally Posted by thefamilydog

Raven - I am glad you wrote this - it shows a willingness to learn. As a newbie there is a lot to learn. I am sure there a lot of folks out there like me who are willing to teach, but you gotta ask (dear mr client, I am new at this - will you help me get better?).

As for the "No" review, I can only speak for myself but one "No" review is not a showstopper.

Good luck with your education and with the hobby and definitely play safe.

Thanks TheFamilyDog

[Mojojo]

Originally Posted by BrownSugarBaby

Put the phone away and suck some cock!

^^This...

I'm not an expert in the field but my limited experience in sex makes me doubt that in your non-hobby life you fuck while being on the phone, if you do then you is messing with the wrong dudes.