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Issabella Monroe · 05-22-2017, 05:56 AM

How do you guys feel about providers cock blocking you to see another provider?
Doesn't that turn one off?
If your already tied down why would you come to the hobby to have your desires block buy jealousy?
This is a question and NOT towards anyone person. Just the MEn!!
Just wondering?

Guest110920 · 05-22-2017, 07:26 AM

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Originally Posted by Issabella Monroe

How do you guys feel about providers cock blocking you to see another provider?
Doesn't that turn one off?
If your already tied down why would you come to the hobby to have your desires block buy jealousy?
This is a question and NOT towards anyone person. Just the MEn!!
Just wondering?

It has never happened to me, to my knowledge. If it did and I found out about it, it would backfire because I would most likely stop seeing the blocker.

Elvisisalive · 05-22-2017, 08:02 AM

Not saying it's cockblocking, but I've received messages or texts from a lady expressing their dislike for me seeing someone I posted a review for. I had seen her at least 3-4 times within a year and really enjoyed her but it turned me off.

I have had an issue with getting a reference from a lady I had seen in back to back weeks. Will answer a text or pm from me in a New York minute but would never reply to a provider I wanted to see. Closest I've been to cock blocking. Had another provider give reference so it didn't block me. But I felt it was an attempt to prevent me from seeing another lady.

I totally respect providers wanting regulars and a steady income. I have my regulars I love to see as well and that list changes for various reasons from time to time. My main comment to this thread would be that we are here to have fun. That comes in different forms for each of us but a variety mixed in with some regulars works for me and when you really ring the bell, it will ring regularly.

Guest110920 · 05-22-2017, 08:07 AM

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Originally Posted by Elvisisalive

Not saying it's cockblocking, but I've received messages or texts from a lady expressing their dislike for me seeing someone I posted a review for. I had seen her at least 3-4 times within a year and really enjoyed her but it turned me off.

I have had an issue with getting a reference from a lady I had seen in back to back weeks. Will answer a text or pm from me in a New York minute but would never reply to a provider I wanted to see. Closest I've been to cock blocking. Had another provider give reference so it didn't block me. But I felt it was an attempt to prevent me from seeing another lady.

I totally respect providers wanting regulars and a steady income. I have my regulars I love to see as well and that list changes for various reasons from time to time. My main comment to this thread would be that we are here to have fun. That comes in different forms for each of us but a variety mixed in with some regulars works for me and when you really ring the bell, it will ring regularly.

Well said. The way to get / keep me as a regular is to consistently provide a great experience, not to try to keep me from seeing others. But once again, I have been fortunate to not have experienced anything like this.

Loveitinmyface · 05-22-2017, 08:23 AM

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Originally Posted by SpankyJ

Well said. The way to get / keep me as a regular is to consistently provide a great experience, not to try to keep me from seeing others.

I agree with Elvis and spanky 1000%. I've had one similar experience where a provider I had seen 4-5 times went complete bitch on me about writing a review for another provider. Needless to say the provider who railed me was quickly put on my do not see ever again list. I don't do this hobby for drama...it's supposed to be fun. Getting bitched at for writing a review is not fun, none of us on here are anyone else's exclusive property

bluffcityguy · 05-22-2017, 10:05 AM

Never had it happen to me, either. If it did, I'm in agreement with my brethren upthread: I'd probably take that lady off the "rotation" (leaving aside that I don't hobby enough to have a "rotation"; I'm not sure I hobby enough to have anyone I could call a "regular"...

Cheers,

bcg

SleeperHit · 05-22-2017, 11:03 AM

I can't see "Blocking" working for either party in the long run.

The good news is, if she is "hitting that spot" emotionally and physically, she won't have to worry about whether I'll be back. I WILL be back.

Guest110920 · 05-22-2017, 11:36 AM

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Originally Posted by SleeperHit

I can't see "Blocking" working for either party in the long run.

The good news is, if she is "hitting that spot" emotionally and physically, she won't have to worry about whether I'll be back. I WILL be back.

Yes, exactly this.

FLReWrite · 05-22-2017, 11:48 AM

Unfortunately I'm afraid it's all too common. I've experienced it, once in particular with a lady who charged X who refused to reference me to a lady who charged XX. "If you can afford that, why didn't you pay ME that?" she asked. "That hurts my feelings." Sigh.

BK · 05-22-2017, 12:15 PM

How does one know if they've been cock blocked? I just use P411 then if they feel the need to contact one of my references and they don't give an ok oh well, I don't sweat the small things in life or the pursuit of pussy. There is way too much of it around to worry about it.

Guest110920 · 05-22-2017, 01:08 PM

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Originally Posted by BK

How does one know if they've been cock blocked? I just use P411 then if they feel the need to contact one of my references and they don't give an ok oh well, I don't sweat the small things in life or the pursuit of pussy. There is way too much of it around to worry about it.

I also use P411 and suspect that is at least one reason why it hasn't come up as an issue for me. Your okays are your okays, there's not really anything to dispute unless they refuse to give the okay - which as I understand it is not permitted as long as the session happened and the client was not abusove. Anyway at the very least it takes rivalries between providers out of it for the most part.

SleeperHit · 05-22-2017, 03:13 PM

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Originally Posted by FLReWrite

Unfortunately I'm afraid it's all too common. I've experienced it, once in particular with a lady who charged X who refused to reference me to a lady who charged XX. "If you can afford that, why didn't you pay ME that?" she asked. "That hurts my feelings." Sigh.

To that I say, would you rather have recurring meetings @$$ or a one time @$$.5?

Issabella Monroe · 05-22-2017, 08:47 PM

Well put gentlemen. I always find it enlightening to see the responses. I would only hope that would be the answer. If it was the other way it would be troublesome to have that type of drama. Yes this is only for fun otherwise why do it.
Stay safe play hard

BabyDallass · 05-22-2017, 11:21 PM

Why cock block when you can make it easier for her and him and just bring him the pussy??

)) kill two pussys with one cock

bluffcityguy · 05-23-2017, 03:27 AM

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Originally Posted by FLReWrite

Unfortunately I'm afraid it's all too common. I've experienced it, once in particular with a lady who charged X who refused to reference me to a lady who charged XX. "If you can afford that, why didn't you pay ME that?" she asked.

Is there some reason "You didn't ask for that much" would not have been the correct answer? (Of course, that will probably encourage her to raise her rate, but that's the market at work.)

I've had a lady complain about how much I've paid for other ladies' time and company only once, and it was a weird situation because when I saw her I was taking advantage of an advertised special that she was running on a trip to west Tennessee (that said, her regular, non-special rates were a bit less than the ladies' rates that she complained to me about--go figure).

Cheers,

bcg