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vnurse · 08-21-2009, 07:17 PM

I have a question for the guys AND the ladies...

I love to take care of my clients till the very end, of course but on occasion a gentleman may take a bit longer (like on a second pop or so).

If a gentleman "takes matters into his own hands" whether it be for a brief while or till completion:

Do you guys feel bad about doing that? Do you ladies like it or dislike it?

Myself, I LOVE seeing a man grasp his hard self and stroke away. There's just something about knowing that a man knows what feels best to himself. I get hot just thinking about it!

Don't get me wrong...I take pride in doing it myself! It's just hot to watch and I wonder how others feel...

guest123009 · 08-21-2009, 09:17 PM

One of my favorite acts with my with is to have her rest her curly hair on my belly, cup my balls, and lick me while I beat off. It is easy, relaxing, and very sensual. I have not done this with a provider as it is somewhat embarrassing for me with a stranger.

vnurse · 08-21-2009, 09:51 PM

THAT sounds really hot to me, FMH! Believe me, you shouldn't be embarrassed...I promise you I have heard much stranger...

guest123009 · 08-21-2009, 10:11 PM

Thanks, vnurse. You are one of the sweetest and classiest ladies I have met online.

fawn · 08-21-2009, 10:26 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by FatManHobbyist

One of my favorite acts with my with is to have her rest her curly hair on my belly, cup my balls, and lick me while I beat off. It is easy, relaxing, and very sensual. I have not done this with a provider as it is somewhat embarrassing for me with a stranger.

Vnurse, I also think it is a big turn on to watch a man stroke his hard
cock while I'm watching.....
but while he is stroking I love to get between his legs and lick his balls and
the base of his shaft and massage his prostate while he is getting busy.....wow what an explosion....

vnurse · 08-22-2009, 04:10 PM

MAN! I love the way you think, fawn! Like minds or something like that...hmmmm.

FMH, thank you so very much for the kind words. I think you are a sweetheart too! When are we going to get to meet?

Kelly TNT · 08-22-2009, 04:23 PM

If I had the choice...I prefer to be the one to stroke him!
But, I am not at all bothered by a man handling his own business! In fact, it gets me hot.
Which is why I want to take over!
It makes me want to touch him...Or it!

I Love giving him pleasure while he watches me. Damn!

YUMMY!

I need a cold shower!!

~Kelly TNT

guest123009 · 08-22-2009, 04:45 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by vnurse

MAN! I love the way you think, fawn! Like minds or something like that...hmmmm.

FMH, thank you so very much for the kind words. I think you are a sweetheart too! When are we going to get to meet?

When I get a job.

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Originally Posted by Kelly TNT

[FONT="Lucida Sans Unicode"][COLOR="Navy"][SIZE="3"]I Love giving him pleasure while he watches me. Damn!

I used to have some great sessions with a lady where we just beat off together. I know, kinda weird. But I enjoyed watching.

otrdriver · 08-22-2009, 09:12 PM

Fawn I like your erotic way of taking care of things. Think I'll go along with Kely "I need a cold shower"

2headedman · 09-04-2009, 08:08 PM

Part of what makes any part of sex fun is that it is naughty. Having a woman watch what we normally do in private is a turn on especially if the parties involved have some voyuer/exhibitionist leanings.

I once gave a couple of female co-workers each a nude massage while at a convention. Afterward one grabbed a bottle of lotion, lubed me then asked if they could watch me get myself off. That started a string of convention hotel room sharings that the three of us will never forget. The Fairmont Hotel will always have special memories for me.

Pistol Man · 09-05-2009, 07:43 AM

Sometimes, for some reason, Pistol Man's powder seems to get damp and it just will not fire regardless of the effort of the lady. It usually embarrases her and always embarrasses me.

If the lady is a clock watcher, I am out of luck because this is going to take some extra time. If not and she is willing to "fire the pistol", I ask for some lube and take over the action while she watches, pets or licks my balls, massages the prostate, and talks dirty to me.

If I am having a real difficult time, I ask her lower her pussy right on my lips facing toward the action because you ladies do like to watch. For some reason (hell, let's be honest - I enjoy a pussy in my mouth as much or more than fucking) the act of making her cum again sends me over the edge usually with a giant erruption.

I would never have thought this before the hobby but I find that most of the ladies I have been with do enjoy watching a man stroke his cock and especially like to watch the erruption at the end. Why is that ladies? Perhaps because the ending is usually hidden in you?

Pistol Man

vnurse · 09-05-2009, 05:47 PM

Pistol Man...I don't really KNOW what the attraction is to see you but perhaps you are correct in that we usually don't get to see the "eruption". I never really thought about it.

I have found that there actually are quite a few gentlemen "out there" that are unable to "fire the pistol" unless they do it themselves.

In the beginning, I took it very personally but soon discovered that it wasn't anything I did or did not do.

Everyone is different...it takes different things to "work" sometimes. I actually have a difficult time getting myself off when masturbating but have no problem at all when a fine gentleman is DATY! Go figure...

Thanks all for sharing.

Pistol Man · 09-05-2009, 06:13 PM

"I actually have a difficult time getting myself off when masturbating but have no problem at all when a fine gentleman is DATY! Go figure..."

consider me volunteered!!!!

vnurse · 09-05-2009, 06:36 PM

Darlin'...you come see me ANY time you like!

I LOVE your sig line!

YSD · 09-08-2009, 08:59 AM

I love to do it for a provider and it is my experience that it is a real turn on for them. I find it hot---like see what you do to me baby!!!! A girl has to be flattered knowing she can make that happen.