and sometimes. ...

[Haylee Dawn]

Meant a really sweet man from here tonight. . And sometimes I wonder why I can't meet men like this in the real world ?? .

[cluefinder]

Sounds like someone rocked your world and you are on cloud 9.

[Guest032117]

Because they pretend just like the ladies do when on the clock. Give him a week and all the bad will become noticeable.

[Ginger Doll]

I have to concur with Miss Haylee!

I tried real-life dating for a brief period while I was on 'vacation.'

Horrible! The experience definitely gave me a renewed appreciation for my hobby guys.

YummyMarie... Even if it is just an illusion, I'll take it anyway!

[Jami-Lynn]

Originally Posted by Haylee Dawn

Meant a really sweet man from here tonight. . And sometimes I wonder why I can't meet men like this in the real world ?? .

I love it when that happens! Very true! Always a nice surprise....

[tuckahoe]

This is the "Real World"!!!. There are both good men and good women on Eccie. None of us are perfect, we all make mistakes, but we are real. People are on Eccie for a number of reasons. Don't expect to find real love here, but don't reject it if it happens!
We are be the same people regardless of whether we meet on a date for sex, or in the library.

[Ginger Doll]

Originally Posted by tuckahoe

This is the "Real World"!!!. There are both good men and good women on Eccie. None of us are perfect, we all make mistakes, but we are real. People are on Eccie for a number of reasons. Don't expect to find real love here, but don't reject it if it happens!
We are be the same people regardless of whether we meet on a date for sex, or in the library.

True, Tuck... The hobby is definitely my "real world" and has been for nearly 8 years. I think you may have taken what I said slightly out of context. I was referring to "non-hobby" dating.

I doubt any of us would ever reject real love, regardless of its source. Me, I'm tired of waiting… I've decided to compensate with large amounts of chocolate in the interim.

[1RAZORBACK]

You ever think It could be where you been trying to find that special someone. Some of times we looking in all the wrong places just l I'm excited the song says.

[MrGiz]

In my experience... If you're "looking" for love... You'll very rarely find it.

You are right on target, Tuck... It just "happens" when you least expect it... whether in or out of the hobby.

Good Luck Everyone... it ain't a bad thing!!

Now..... monagamy ?.... THAT's a whole different subject!! I don't know much about that!!
Just doesn't seem "natural" .

[Danielle Reid]

I found my fiancé kn Craig's List lol. I was only looking for a rebound...now I'm stuck with him 😂😂😂😂

[WombRaider]

Originally Posted by Ginger Doll

I have to concur with Miss Haylee!

I tried real-life dating for a brief period while I was on 'vacation.'

Horrible! The experience definitely gave me a renewed appreciation for my hobby guys.

YummyMarie... Even if it is just an illusion, I'll take it anyway!

It's just not the same if they don't leave any roses, is it?

Love is nothing more than a chemical reaction in the brain.

[Initforfun]

Originally Posted by Haylee Dawn

Meant a really sweet man from here tonight. . And sometimes I wonder why I can't meet men like this in the real world ?? .

Was he driving a Rolls or a Bentley?

Did he bring a gift and tip $1k?

Does he look like that Beckham dude?

Was he the perfect "size" for your pleasure?

Did he last more than the 20 sec most of us could?

Did he snap that pic of your beautiful backside?

Is he single?

Was he traveling through?

Will you be seeing him again?

Details, we need DETAILS about your infatuation !

[MrGiz]

Originally Posted by WombRaider

...:

Love is nothing more than a chemical reaction in the brain.

Yeah... But it's a pretty powerful, pretty unique chemical!
Makes one do things, that one wouldn't normally even consider!!

[Ginger Doll]

Originally Posted by WombRaider

It's just not the same if they don't leave any roses, is it?

Roses didn't have anything to do with it... Too many problems to touch on them all, really. The most notable quality being excessively 'flaky.' I think I'm spoiled by concise, clear-cut hobby expectations, and reliable delivery.

Originally Posted by WombRaider

Love is nothing more than a chemical reaction in the brain.

I disagree. I think it just becomes a more particular thing the older we get. The very young often confuse love with chemistry... I made that mistake once upon a time, myself. I think once we are established as our fully mature true selves, it's a combination of chemistry, common interests & beliefs & genuine affection & caring for the other person.

[MrGiz]

Love Affairs... By the hour. Not so bad.