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Old 01-19-2012, 08:27 AM   #1
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My first, well one and only, experience was for a body rub that turned into more. Is it safer to just go into it as a body rub and let other things happen on their own? how about requiring "nudity/groping" before discussing or handing over any donations? Sorry but I'm a newbie, and nervous as hell.
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Old 01-19-2012, 08:54 AM   #2
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That's a bit of a gray area. I would try to find a review and see what the lady usually does in a session. I wouldn't discuss or negotiate before the rub. I would let things naturally flow- test the waters and touch, fondle, or squeeze during the rub and see how far she's willing to go. At the end, if she doesn't automatically give you a HE, I would certainly ask at that point. Usually if they advertize as a "body rub", that's a pretty good indication that something more is included besides a "theraputic" massage.
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Old 01-19-2012, 09:13 AM   #3
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I don't know which thread it is, but this "safety grope/nudity" thing has been discussed. Maybe someone else can find it.

The nudity/safety grope does nothing for either one of us. LE can grope, LE has been known to get naked (guy cops), so basically if LE wants you....they will get you.

I don't know about the body rub gals because I don't do that, I'm referring to us ladies who are escorts.
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Old 01-19-2012, 09:33 AM   #4
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There are scores of threads regarding this issue on ECCIE.

There is no safety check.

There is risk involved in this endeavor (just like every other thing in life). The risks inherent to this endeavor may not be the same as another "hobby" (I SO hate that word) but, none-the-less, everything we choose to do has some degree of risk. You either accept the risk and jump in and get your feet (and other things) wet, or you move along.

As a wise man once said, "If you're scared, go to church. Don't call an Escort. If you do call an Escort, make sure you call the right one." - Be careful and have fun!

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Old 01-19-2012, 05:09 PM   #5
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I got the impression that the OP wasn't asking about safety from LE but rather determining if a massage provider was willing to go further than a legit massage. I may have misunderstood though.
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Old 01-19-2012, 05:37 PM   #6
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My bad.
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Old 01-19-2012, 06:16 PM   #7
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There is no safety check.
Actually, I have recruited a team of experienced hobbyists (note the proper spelling rharley) who are willing to perform safety checks on the girls we know to make sure they are safe to play with!

It's a time-consuming job, but Malwoody, Omahan, VK Master, Rockstar, bigdeal and I are willing to make the sacrifice for the greater good of the KC sub-culture!

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I got the impression that the OP wasn't asking about safety from LE but rather determining if a massage provider was willing to go further than a legit massage. I may have misunderstood though.
Sorry. My bad, I took it "LE" wise . . .

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Old 01-19-2012, 07:03 PM   #9
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Actually, I have recruited a team of experienced hobbyists (note the proper spelling rharley) who are willing to perform safety checks on the girls we know to make sure they are safe to play with!

It's a time-consuming job, but Malwoody, Omahan, VK Master, Rockstar, bigdeal and I are willing to make the sacrifice for the greater good of the KC sub-culture!

yeap - I always get left out of all the fun....
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Sorry. My bad, I took it "LE" wise . . .

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I WAS talkin LE wise, you're good!
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Old 01-19-2012, 07:16 PM   #11
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Actually, I have recruited a team of experienced hobbyists (note the proper spelling rharley) who are willing to perform safety checks on the girls we know to make sure they are safe to play with!

It's a time-consuming job, but Malwoody, Omahan, VK Master, Rockstar, bigdeal and I are willing to make the sacrifice for the greater good of the KC sub-culture!


Gratis of course..
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Old 01-19-2012, 07:24 PM   #12
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yeap - I always get left out of all the fun....
We can probably use another in the bullpen when activity picks up, so guess what, it's you! Congratulations!

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Old 01-19-2012, 07:34 PM   #13
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Actually, I have recruited a team of experienced hobbyists (note the proper spelling rharley) who are willing to perform safety checks on the girls we know to make sure they are safe to play with!

It's a time-consuming job, but Malwoody, Omahan, VK Master, Rockstar, bigdeal and I are willing to make the sacrifice for the greater good of the KC sub-culture!

Reporting for duty....hey why does "bigdeal" start in lower case....Is it cause of my little %#$&
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Old 01-19-2012, 07:41 PM   #14
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We can probably use another in the bullpen when activity picks up, so guess what, it's you! Congratulations!

Goody I can be the water boy...
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Goody I can be the water boy...
It's just a guess, but we'll probably put you in charge of the lube and batteries to start with.

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