Humiliation

[IanFleming]

I used to see a girl a long time ago who really knew how to push some of my buttons. I guess you would call it humiliation. But she wasn't mean, just very good at getting inside my head and giving me an experience like no other. Haven't found anyone since, although I haven't really looked too much.

I've brought it up occasionally after I've known someone a bit but the word has negative connotations to most. Many responses are I could never be mean: or I'm not a bitch. Or if they try they go overboard. I realize it's a subtle art form. It's more about being mischievious, naughty and only a tad bit evil while making the man do things so that he can earn that prize--the girls body. It also doesn't preclude lots of sexual contact, unlike pure Dommes.

Anyway, just pontificating on a subject that interests me and wondered if anyone else had anything to say on the subject.

Oh, I am in San Antonio and travel to Dallas frequently if anyone is interested.

[Debian]

Yes, interesting for me too and I like this theme. By the way, some information about BDSM you can here look, I read many articles. I try, practice this technique. I always want to try anymore.

[samara]

When done right this is a lot of fun.

[bigdickdaddydom]

Was called a dirty pay pig the other day. She was strokin me spitting on me while I came. I liked it.

[IanFleming]

I suppose BDSM can have a humiliation component. But humiliation is less about the physical tools and more about engaging the mind. It's a very tricky slope for a lady to traverse with someone she doesn't know well or doesn't have any experience with it. I get that. Lots think they can do it. Just throw out insults. But its much more subtle than that. At least it is for me if it is to have the desired effect.