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Guest060812 · 01-31-2010, 10:46 AM

There was a thread a while back about reverse advertising, I bumped it this morning hoping the Admins would consider it. In the meantime, I am posting my own ISO, but here is a link to the other thread:

[ame="http://www.eccie.net/showthread.php?t=6134"]Reverse advertising - ECCIE - Your source for escort reviews[/ame]

I am trying to figure out how to make this Hobby work the best way for me. I love the girls I have been seeing, but need to spend less than what I am spending monthly. So. Anyway, here is my ISO for some reverse advertising:

I would like to have a special Girl who sees me 3 or 4 times a month. What I want in our sessions is GFE, and lots of Kissing. And I prefer outcall.

I am a nice, polite guy. I have a nice, clean apartment in a gated community. I always walk the girls to and from their cars. I always have refreshments.

I would like to see a regular girl 3 maybe 4 times a month @ $200 outcall for an hour. Now first of all, I want to say to all the Ladies I have seen, all of you are certainly worth way more than what you charge. I am only proposing this because of my Hobby budget and what I feel like I can afford. At 3 to 4 times a month that would be $600 to $800 or possibly more a month from one client (me) if that would be reasonable for me to ask.

I also prefer nights. I prefer younger (under 30) Ladies

Anyway, I hope I didn't break any rules with my ISO.

Ladies, if this is something you would be interested in, please PM me.

If anybody wants to comment on this thread, please do so. Heck, let everyone know if this is in your opinion a good or a bad idea for a thread. Maybe that would influence the Admins to have a reverse advertising section. Who knows.

breadtoaster · 01-31-2010, 10:53 AM

Omaha2Dallas I for one surely think it is a worthy idea. Ultimately, it is about making the hobby work best for you.

Ladies, my situation is very similar to Omaha2Dallas' - and looks like we have very similar tastes too. PM me as well if this is something you will be interested in.

KohanaKoa · 01-31-2010, 10:59 AM

O2D, this is a very interesting request and would be interested in the response you receive from any ladies willing to agree to such an arrangement. I think you did a great job specifying your wants and needs.

Ladies, I am sure we would like to here from you on this subject as well. I know there were several posts on the other thread O2D references, but now that there is a specific request, what are your thoughts.

Good luck brothas and sistas, happy hobbying and have fun!

selot · 01-31-2010, 11:53 AM

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Originally Posted by KohanaKoa

O2D, this is a very interesting request and would be interested in the response you receive from any ladies willing to agree to such an arrangement. I think you did a great job specifying your wants and needs.

I agree KohanaKoa, I would be very interested in the response received from the ladies as well...

ElisabethWhispers · 01-31-2010, 11:58 AM

I have a suggestion for you and since I am NOT what you're looking for it's my hope that this will help you and the ladies considering this option.

If I had a nickel for every guy who called and asked me for a special arrangement then I wouldn't have to worry about paying my rent this month. The reason why I'm mentioning this is if you find a person that you truly like and enjoy, the best thing to do would be to pay her for a couple of visits, or a month's worth, upfront. At least initially.

That way, you're showing good faith on the "arrangement".

I don't mind getting slammed for my suggestion but women all over this board, even ones under 30

, are always getting asked the question, "If you give me a discount this time, I will see you on a regular basis".

Hence, it makes a good ISO like your suggesting difficult to accept because of the terribly rampant and high bullshit factor of so many men.

Hope this is somewhat helpful to you in your quest.

Good luck!
Elisabeth

lisa.lisa0302 · 01-31-2010, 12:41 PM

The idea is cool, sounds fun and interesting, honest and new, i just wish guys who were open to women like me post their ISO, women like me are kinda left out in the cold when it come to this.

Again great idea, very creative, happy hunting on your search....that's what makes the hobby fun...the hunt!

HoneyRose · 01-31-2010, 12:47 PM

Elizabeth is absolutly right. I don't think the gentlemen are aware of how often we get these requests and what the reality of it would be like.

You're asking a lady to enter into a verbal contract with someone who has no track record with her and just has promises.

What if you meet, pay her $200, all goes well. And then a few days later you decide you would prefer to see someone else. Are you going to call her back out to your place to give her the difference between what you paid and what she normally charges? (and have the awkward explanation of why you aren't going to continue seeing her?)

Whenever I get a request for a lower rate with the promise of being a regular seeing me x times per month, I respond that we need to meet once at my regular rate to see how compatible we are.

Why would someone promise to be a regular when he hasn't even met the lady yet?

It would be foolish to enter into that kind of agreement on either end before you even meet.

Another possible way would be "First visit in any calendar month at $250, 2nd visit $200; 3rd visitand subsequent at $150" or something like that where the average ends up being $200.
(Or $300, $200, and $100)

lisa.lisa0302 · 01-31-2010, 01:14 PM

Very good point Honey rose

I have a special arrangement with a gentlemen, not from this board, he sees me about three times a month, saw me a my regular rate twice, getting to know me, making sure we clicked and that he was happy, third session he was upfront and honest about a special arrangement, and so far he has kept his word.

It would have to be open communication. Anything out on the table, so it would not be any misunderstanding and awkwardness.

Bestman200600 · 01-31-2010, 01:25 PM

Special arrangements help you get to know a provider. Things just get better from there.

w900l · 01-31-2010, 01:42 PM

Good idea O2D, I'm in the same boat.

I'm gonna try this too, ISO a hot lady that will outcall (after some incalls to make sure we are compatible) every Saturday night (every week) I work long hours during the week that's why I need to meet on a Sat. Every once in a while I like to go out to dine and see a movie with a session which I will pay extra for of course. I like GFE and lots of kissing and touching, you must be a non smoker. I'm nice, polite, widowed and live alone, I have a house in a nice community in northeast tarrant county, PM me if interested.

Hence, it makes a good ISO like your suggesting difficult to accept because of the terribly rampant and high bullshit factor of so many men.

Good luck!
Elisabeth[/QUOTE]

I beg to differ with you EW there is NO BULLSHIT FACTOR(low or high) from me, what I say you can take to the bank!!

hotlips_houlihan · 01-31-2010, 02:10 PM

I'm with Lisa on this one. For those of you who enjoy us more mature, curvier woman, look my way for an arrangement. I prefer these over hit it and quit it types.

Meg

Guest060812 · 01-31-2010, 02:23 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by ElisabethWhispers

Hence, it makes a good ISO like your suggesting difficult to accept because of the terribly rampant and high bullshit factor of so many men.

Quote:

Originally Posted by HoneyRose

be foolish to enter into that kind of agreement on either end before you even meet.

Another possible way would be "First visit in any calendar month at $250, 2nd visit $200; 3rd visitand subsequent at $150" or something like that where the average ends up being $200.
(Or $300, $200, and $100)

I just want to respond to a couple of things that have been said here by Elizabeth and Honey. (It's funny how the Guys approve, and the Ladies disapprove of the idea in the comments so far)

First of all, as to the "Bullshit" factor, I have a good reputation with the Providers I see, and if you have ever followed my posts or reviews, you could see that I like to keep seeing the same Girls over and over. I actually took some criticism over on ASPD for reviewing the same Providers too many times. Anyway, I really like to see the same Girl on a regular basis, it makes her seem more like a Girlfriend for me that way.

Secondly, on Honeys comment about having not met yet, I actually tried proposing this idea to one of my favorites last month, she got mad at me and did not speak to me for 3 weeks. So I am not going to risk making any other Girls mad at me. Ironically, the Girl that got mad is texting me and calling me now, but I still have not seen her since then. So I decided to try this ISO. Now don't get me wrong, if one of my favorites sees this ISO and wants the arrangement it'll be a done deal. But I do not want to risk upseting anybody again. So I am not asking any of my regular Girls for any discounts ever again.

Thirdly, Honey proposed paying a higher amount in the begining, then less each time, etc. Well I am not opposed to any reasonable arrangement with the Provider. We will just have to talk about it.

Now in answer to the Guys, I have already had a couple of PM's. And I may be able to make the arrangement with one of them. If so, I will let you guys know.

Anyway, until then, please PM me Ladies, and please comment on the idea

lisa.lisa0302 · 01-31-2010, 03:06 PM

Not all the ladies disapprove of your idea....sniff sniff with an added tear

All i was saying was if other guys like you who have the same idea who wants the thicker chick would also step up to the plate.

Torito · 01-31-2010, 04:31 PM

I wanted to add that the "bullshit factor" does not exist only in men. I have read so many times in various boards and forums about fronting money expecting to receive sessions. The general consensis is that usually that is money down a rat hole. The sessions usually don't happen after that.

Before anyone jumps on me, I am not putting the girls down. If the bullshit factor is to be considered, lets consider it each place that it is appropriate.

Women deserve to be paid for their services. Men deserve to receive the services paid for. Trust with an unknown person is shakey, at best.

Torito

xperiment · 01-31-2010, 04:40 PM

Sounds like to make a verbal agreement workout BOTH parties need to be reputable, respectable, and just overall trustworthy. Simple as that. Sometimes it takes getting to know each other to do that.