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Old 08-19-2011, 08:04 PM   #1
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My wife is a retired provider. She has been under a lot of stress from family issues. Recently she met a former regular at a hotel bar where she had met with a friend. One thing led to another, and she wound up having sex with the former regular. She decided that the experience helped take stress from her and that she enjoyed it. It makes her feel good when she realizes how much men want her.

She told me that she will start having sex with various men on a fairly regular basis. She will remain a good wife in other regards but will not change her mind in that area. My choices are to put up with it or she will leave.
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Old 08-19-2011, 08:15 PM   #2
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How about putting up some pics with your ad.
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Old 08-19-2011, 08:28 PM   #3
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once a provider, always a provider?
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Old 08-19-2011, 08:34 PM   #4
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It sounds like you are justifying and defending her decision.

The poor thing has been under a lot of stress and gosh, sex helps her to destress so naturally, since it is so beneficial and all you should encourage her to seek the medical benefits of being a whore, umh, I mean a provider because you are such a wuss, umh, I mean such a gentlemen.

You could claim the same malady and seek the same solution.

As for the marriage why even bother with the charade?
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Old 08-19-2011, 08:47 PM   #5
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Is she at least charging? Or just fucking around?
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Old 08-19-2011, 09:25 PM   #6
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wow idk that depends on how serious the marriage is ...you never know these days!! .....
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Old 08-19-2011, 09:26 PM   #7
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Sounds like fucking around.
I agree with gun.
Hobby yourselF and if she don't like it, kick her to the curb.
If you don't like her doing it, kick her to the curb.
Fuck man, grow a pair and just
KICK HER TO THE CURB!
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Old 08-20-2011, 12:14 AM   #8
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My wife is a retired provider. She has been under a lot of stress from family issues. Recently she met a former regular at a hotel bar where she had met with a friend. One thing led to another, and she wound up having sex with the former regular. She decided that the experience helped take stress from her and that she enjoyed it. It makes her feel good when she realizes how much men want her.

She told me that she will start having sex with various men on a fairly regular basis. She will remain a good wife in other regards but will not change her mind in that area. My choices are to put up with it or she will leave.
Nick, you asked for our collective opinions about this before you took the plunge. Too late now to take the advice given at the time. It's your life, but if it was me, I would draw the line in the sand now. She can either be your wife, or a provider. Simple choice........And the only choice.
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Old 08-20-2011, 04:12 AM   #9
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Nick, why did you open this thread?
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Old 08-20-2011, 06:39 AM   #10
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Fuck man, grow a pair and just
KICK HER TO THE CURB!
Amen, Love that !

Grow a pair and kick her to the curb indeed.

Why even bother with a fucked up marriage that's destined for doom with a cuckold in the making.
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Old 08-20-2011, 06:45 AM   #11
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KICK HER TO THE CURB!
I agree.

Those cbj she gives are just not working out,

.... although the Greek is tight

.....especially past the used part.
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Old 08-20-2011, 09:40 AM   #12
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You married an escort.... your just going to have to deal with it.
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Old 08-20-2011, 09:55 AM   #13
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Well Nick this isn't your first I married an escort thread here is it?

http://www.eccie.net/showthread.php?...57#post1352257
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Old 08-20-2011, 10:11 AM   #14
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Ok, so i've mentioned in previous post that i've had open relationships in the past and definitely not opposed to that choice of relationship. But, any successful open relationship requires mutual consent and respect for each others wishes.

It doesn't sound to me like you agree to this or comfortable with the idea.

I do get her perspective somewhat. I dated a long retired runway model a while back and she used to to tell me the thing she missed the most was the constant attentions she got from everyone around her--its pretty addictive. A retired provider will eventually miss the 3-4 screwings she had a day for 3+ years by a variety of men and women -- even if 50% or more were bad or not-so-great experiences. Imagine yourself spending a few years with women of all types simply coming by and hitting it with no questions asked and no commitments.

Being understanding of your partner doesn't mean she is justified in unilateral decisions about your relationship. So, man up!...and decided if this the type of relationship you want. If not, give her your ultimatum and then bail. If it is, than decide on the ground rules together.

As i know there are both sides to this story, your welcome to forward me her number and/or email address. I promise to thoroughly interview her and report back!.

All kidding aside, its important in whatever you decide that it is mutual, consensual, and that she respects your wishes...because without it, your don't really have much of a marriage.

good luck!

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Old 08-20-2011, 10:54 AM   #15
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Well Nick this isn't your first I married an escort thread here is it?

http://www.eccie.net/showthread.php?...57#post1352257
nicky boy, you are craving for attention again eh? Running out of pills? Want some more f* in the a*?

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