IF A GUY HAS A HARD TIME CUMMING - TRY THIS!

[stephania ricci]

Hey everyone

The one thing I have discovered is that sometimes men have a hard time cumming again esp if they have been edging themselves or if you are really good at giving head and he cums really hard. I have also seen this happen where the guy gets super close to cumming again but it just isn't happening for some reason (stress, fatigue, age, diet, etc can all affect a mans ability to cum multiple times)

I have discovered a trick that works 100% of the time that many of you ladies can try and see if if also works for you if your man is having a hard time cumming a 2nd or 3rd time.

What I do is I tell the guy I want him to stroke his cock while I lick and suck his balls and I will also talk dirty to him and sometimes even stimulate his p-spot. The reason this works is because a man knows how much stimulation he needs to cum again vs you and he is getting double stimulation that he would not get otherwise if he were just masturbating. It is similar to a guy stroking a womans g-spot at the same time he is licking the clit (this technique works for me or if the guy is stimulating my g-spot while I have a vibrator on my clit)

So try it and I guarantee it will work!

PS see this thread for more info on edging http://www.eccie.net/showthread.php?t=1688617

[hk toys]

or just roll the dice and give him good (raw) pussy.

[Keyhole Arc Blow]

A chick telling me "don't stop I'm gonna cum!!" has 100% worked in getting me to cum in the next 5 strokes.

[SneakyCancer]

I second the ass in the air....but on the cool.....talking dirty and getting the mind control is key.

[Stevensegal]

I got to try edging now. Thank you.

[DonVito]

Hi Stephania, you may not be a nutritionist, however could you elaborate on diet as it relates to this? I'm a 55 year old man. Only 10 years ago, I had gone as much as 6 hrs and 4 pops in one session. However, things seem to be slowing down! The age part i can do nothing about, but the diet part I can. Thanks so very much.

I know others have said it, and so I will as well!

You my lady live in the WRONG city!!!!
Please tour!!!!
(On my knees begging)
& praying

thank you for all you do

[Wanna bone]

I have that problem, best bj ever can in five minutes things can go numb--the visual and the wow factor are still there but reaching the end goal now stretches out to fifteen minutes,,,and that's if you don't give up--the op is right that we know how to bring back the sensitively--it's always there---the sensitively has not vanished it just has become more elusive--I can tickle myself by myself,,,but you girls must figure all this out/--man and I thought giving a woman an organism was confusing

[Dynalow96]

I just want to give a round of applause to Stephania for having the sexual savvy and mind to delve into these things and post for us to educate ourselves on how better to enjoy our hobbying..

She must be just fantastic because not only is she beautiful and sexy she has the strongest sex organ her mind fully engaged in the game. Kudos and to you Stephania for helping us open our minds and learn to enjoy the pleasures that the wonderful providers offer us.

[MaxiMilyen]

This is a good technique. You can also try lube on your hand while you stroke his balls and tease around the rim of his anus. Use a silicon lube, because it stays silkier like a wet pussy, and does not get tacky like water based lubes will.. And, you can always grab a vibrator to stimulate these sensitive areas as he strokes. I love to watch a hard cock cum and absolutely, we each know best, exactly what will get us to our destnation.

[stephania ricci]

Originally Posted by DonVito

Hi Stephania, you may not be a nutritionist, however could you elaborate on diet as it relates to this? I'm a 55 year old man. Only 10 years ago, I had gone as much as 6 hrs and 4 pops in one session. However, things seem to be slowing down! The age part i can do nothing about, but the diet part I can. Thanks so very much.

I know others have said it, and so I will as well!

You my lady live in the WRONG city!!!!
Please tour!!!!
(On my knees begging)
& praying

thank you for all you do

Hey Don

You are welcome!
I used to be (and still am to a few clients) a personal trainer so I know quite a bit about health and nutrition and what you are talking about.

Unfortunately starting at age 30, everyones testosterone levels as well as HGH levels start to ramp down and these definitely affect sex drive (for both men and women) as well as orgasms, and erection issues. The decline in testosterone and HGH levels do not really make their presence known until mid to late 40's and by 50's you are really noticing it.

I have studied this because a lot of my personal training clients were older and had a hard time putting and keeping muscle on their body., losing weight, belly fat. For many of them, once they started replacing the low testosterone and HGH levels in their bodies, not only did they start to lose weight and put on muscle, but they also had more energy, better sex drive and better erections and orgasms

HGH starts to decline in the body as we grow older. After the age of 30 it declines by 25 percent every decade, so by the time you hit 60 you are operating at 25 percent of original capacity.

There is also a hormone called oxytocin (it is also know as pitocin and women are given this during childbirth to move things along) that both men and women can become deficient in and it can inhibit orgasms if it is low in the body. I now take it and the orgasms are very intense lol

I wrote an entire blog post about this http://stephaniaricci.com/updates/mind-blowing-orgasms-oxytocin-and-scream-cream/


So it is not really about age that is slowing down your orgasms, but your declining hormones, oxytocin and HGH levels which are at the root of sex drive, orgasms and erections issues.

Some other things that can affect orgasm, sex drive and erections in both sexes (minus erection issues in women lol) include: fatigue, stress, doing drugs, taking pharma drugs (like blood pressure, anti-depressants, allergy meds, etc), thyroid issues (becoming a bigger problem due to chemicals, gluten and a whole host of other issues), adrenal fatigue, depression, alcohol abuse, jet lag, menopause, childbirth - lol I am surprised any of us are horny anymore.

As far as diet goes. Your diet can affect the levels of hormones in your body. But believe it or not, your gut health is the #1 root issue of hormonal imbalances. So many people nowadays have an unhealthy gut because of diet. lack of good probiotics, our fastidiousness to keeping clean and all the anti-bacterial soaps out there and even leaky gut (you can google this to find out more. I have had it and am still healing it and lol it sounds weird but nowadays most people have this to some degree and it is a silent issue meaning people have it and they don't know they have it so that is why I know a lot about it.

This particular doctor - dr axe is well known (he has appeared on dr ox many times) and I do take his products and they are good for healing the gut. I also just bought his book on healing this and it is very good.

http://draxe.com/7-signs-symptoms-you-have-leaky-gut/


Your diet should be as clean as possible meaning lean meats (no factory farmed meats bc they are filled with antibiotics, hormones and plus the animals are treated cruelly), whole grains like brown rice, amaranth, quinoa, lentils, avocados, nuts, seeds (like flax and chia), nut butters, coconut oil, olive oil, fish fruits, vegetable, eggs, grass fed butter, fermented foods like sauerkraut, kimchi, coconut water kefir, yogurt, cheese. Stay away from gluten, sugar, processed foods.

In otherwards your diet should be like the pioneers ate - simple and fresh. Microwaved stuff is convenient but it is dead and devitalized and does not really support life. Your body and hormones run best on a clean diet, clean liver etc. If you go to my blog post, I did a video about what I put in my green drink that I drink everyday and it really helps to clean out your body and liver. The green drink video is towards the end of the blog post.

http://stephaniaricci.com/blog/how-i...my-body-tight/

I am also going to start being more active on all kinds of social media because not only do I like to do videos and talk about fitness, health, etc, but I have also been finding new clients on it and most of it is free - I like free lol. Right now I am on twitter (my handle is @stephaniaricci1) and just today signed up for instagram (handle is stephaniaricci1) so if you follow me on these I will be posting new videos related to topics like health and other issues like me working out at the gym lol. I will also post pictures. I just posted some from my new photo shoot 2 weeks ago and tonight I took a picture of my healthy dinner and posted it lol. Social media is also another way for you to get to know me better since I tweet everyday (I have about 1,500 tweets now) and it allows me to interact with people.

Try to also get some exercise, have low stress levels in your life, laugh and meditate because all of that slows down cortisol levels in the body. If you have high cortisol levels from stress it can affect orgasms, sex drive and erections. The body wants to be happy and not stressed. For women, high stress levels will stop the sex drive because for women since we can get pregnant, if a womans body senses stress it is obviously not a good time to get pregnant so the body slows or stops the sex drive until the danger passes.

You can also try going to a naturopathic doctor and trying some testosterone cream (and even try semorelin which stimulates the pituitary to release more HGH. I talk about it more and include links in the oxytocin blog post link above) I don't believe HGH is avail in the USA anymore. The doctor will have to test your testosterone and HGH levels first to see how low you are.

I could go on and on about things that affect sex drive, hormones, etc because one of my other passions besides porn is writing, fitness, health, nutrition, anti-aging and law of attraction. I could keep writing, but then this would become a book lol. I have tried to cover the biggest offenders and hope this helps.

If you can see a hormone specialist or anti-aging doctor (they do more than just anti-age you and believe it or not having low hormones and HGH levels can age both men and women. For instance women with low estrogen will typically have more wrinkles than women with higher estrogen levels) they will be able to help you tremendously in this area as well

Unfortunately I don't tour lol - however you are more than welcome to fly me to you or you can come out here to the SF bay area where I reside :-)

[MaxiMilyen]

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I've suggested many of these to different gents. Getting out in the sun (vitamin D) has been reported back to me as being something that immediately helped. The sounds caused immediate tingling sensations, so don't be afraid or too skeptical to try something unconventional and can cause no harm. Those who tried 1 or some of these were skeptical as well, but they are not skeptical anymore.

You can do a search on you tube for isochronic or binaural beats which will stimulate certain glands and keep them functioning at optimal levels. And yes, gut health is very important in all of this. Our bodies use the foods we ingest in ways that keep ua youthful and healthy. If you have stress, deal with it and move away from it.

[Randall Creed]

Nice thread.

Some women think, 'If I go harder and faster (with a bj or especially a hj) he'll explode!'

Uhhh, no. You're just rubbing it raw and making it numb. Many times, a slow, soft stroke is way, way, waaaaay more effective than a jackhammer, vise grip stroke. A softer, gentler stroke replicates the effects of a pussy better than the 100mph jackhammer.

As far as edging goes, I used to do it, unknowingly, to make a session last. But yeah, you run into that problem of not being able to cum if you keep pushing the envelope. This is why it's better to see ladies who allow MSOG. Just let that first one go, the earlier the better. Give yourself more time on the back end and pop again. This is better than stretching out one pop, that you may or may NOT get by the time it's all said and done.

For those that think they can't go twice (or more), it's all about diet, exercise, and psychology.

[MaxiMilyen]

Also, Korean Red Ginseng is great for many issues, including ED.

[Flirtatousfemalefan]

Dear Ms. RIcci:
I am just wondering what are some of the techniques did you use when you worked in porn? As you tended to learn what you male counterparts liked how did you apply this to a scene when you knew the directors wanted to have a scene come to completion depending on what you were doing?

[stephania ricci]

Originally Posted by Flirtatousfemalefan

Dear Ms. RIcci:
I am just wondering what are some of the techniques did you use when you worked in porn? As you tended to learn what you male counterparts liked how did you apply this to a scene when you knew the directors wanted to have a scene come to completion depending on what you were doing?

Well in porn I worked with a lot of young guys who did not have a lot of problems with cumming on command. Porn is tough for guys because you have to be able to get hard, stay hard and cum on command. Unfortunately with viagra and some of the other other erection pills (yes in porn even young guys take viagra to stay hard for a long time) it can delay ejaculation sometimes.

Some things that really work are talking dirty to a guy, playing with my pussy while giving him head, letting him stroke his cock while I lick his balls and talk dirty to him. Also I don't know if you have ever been deepthroated before but it is an incredible sensation and very few men have a hard time not cumming lol. With regular head yes I can see how guys would sometimes have a hard time cumming but deepthroating is a different ballgame altogether and so getting a guy to cum (esp if he is young) is not really difficult.

With that being said I would like to let all of you men know of a product that some guys were using for erections if they could not tolerate Viagra, etc. I know one guy always got a headache from viagra so he tried this stuff and it worked really well for him.

The product is called Trimix and there are 2 kinds. There is the injectable kind you inject directly into your cock (and it does not hurt) and there is the gel. This is actually safer than taking Viagra because your liver and body does not need to process it. I have had clients that cannot tolerate Viagra and Cialis and levitra do not work for them. This is also used if the 3 ED drugs do not work for you

http://trimixgel.com/

Here is a you tube video on how to use the gel

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CyetrbKlP_s