Here is a thought.
To speed up the process of the reference that your wanting, why don't you contact that provider and let her know that you're going to use her as a reference so she can be looking for that contact?????
I don't give references for people that I have not seen in around 6 months. if somebody contacts me from 2 years ago that I saw one time for one hour are you f****** kidding me people change!! so, in my opinion you should always use your most current references, if possible.
And as some of you new Ladies get contacted by wives, Girlfriends ect..
You will start implementing policies for your references that you give, it's not so black and white.
I will not give references through the telephone or email you'll have to literally send me a PM on eccie or p411.
If a guy gives me references I always ask him to contact those ladies first to let them know I will be contacting them. some women demand references but will not give them.
Ok???
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