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VENUSNOVA · 09-19-2019, 09:31 AM

It never fails to surprise me how so many of you are so incredibly different!
Not just in Size, intellect or appearance but desires.
I absolutely love It!
😊
Never a dull moment and I am only posting this in hopes that some of you Gentlemen reading reviews in hopes to find that perfect adventure for your craving , you keep in mind that lets say for example, "easydoesit&takeitgoodbaby 123" ( I made up that handle btw...😀hope no one has it)
Lets say Easy posts a review...please keep in mind unless you know him personally his idea of fun might not be yours he may be 5'8..or 6'4..large or small
Kinky or not..
Each and every one of you are incredibly unique in many ways☺

One might insist on a CBJ...and no kissing..while the other might only want to FF..you until your eyes are watering and then there's the kinky....😄.

So please do keep in mind unless the Reviewer and you share a likeness in Body Size or kinks or taste in Women or activities BCD..it may not be the exact same experience you have unless you share some of the same personal
Traits whether in Body Size or other similarities.

I do hope this post is helpful while your researching
Or hunting for adventure.

If I was a hobbyist I would look for reviews from a Man that shared the same physique and BCD interests as myself..

I hope it does not sound as If I'm stating that I or all Providers are YMMV.

There are just some little things to keep in mind.

I'm still in shock that I had fun giving a CBJ..😣still confused
with why he contacted me considering I'm a MSOG..or CUM..CIM..freak 😊

I'm not complaining it's about entertaining just wondering?
🤗Happy Hobbying Every One😘

allaboutthebbbj · 09-19-2019, 10:33 AM

All providers are YMMV. Thats just the way it works

TheTexasDriller · 09-19-2019, 10:35 AM

I love reading your post , and as usual you bring in "something new" to consider. You are right ! I think its 100% the right of a provider to provide different levels of service. I'm not saying bad or sub-par service.
Lets be honest , not all of us ( Lord know not me ) look like Richard Gere in Pretty Women. We come from all areas of life, tall,short,med,fat,chubby,skin ny, built etc ...and lets face it..smell different too..some people just have a natural odor that might not be that pleasant while others fart roses....just saying....

tbone2u · 09-19-2019, 11:29 AM

Venus...the smart guys here figure out over time how other hobbyist are. They mostly pay attention to reviews by a few certain people because they "relate" to them. Then there are guys who actually meet and get to know other guys personally. They share but maybe not here on the open board for a multitude of reasons. Are we all different? YES....The key is aligning yourself with people who share the same values and likes and dislikes. That way there are less surprises.

Richardbentwood · 09-19-2019, 12:44 PM

I just want both parties to have fun. My biggest fear is offending a lady with an unknown faux pau. Just a note I haven't hobbied yet, but that is what I would envision

The1Slayer · 09-19-2019, 09:52 PM

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Originally Posted by tbone2u

Then there are guys who actually meet and get to know other guys personally. They share but maybe not here on the open board for a multitude of reasons. Are we all different? YES....The key is aligning yourself with people who share the same values and likes and dislikes. That way there are less surprises.

I could not have said this any better...............!! Ladies think we only share info through the boards or in the Men's area...... when in fact, it's mainly shared off line....... in person.......

........ijs.............

.............

Bankshot · 09-19-2019, 10:01 PM

A ladies posting style is also a major factor in if I would want to see her. Whether it's to little or way to much and the incoherent crap that comes out of her mouth.

lurk-no-more · 09-19-2019, 11:36 PM

Well written. Nice take!

VENUSNOVA · 09-20-2019, 02:22 AM

Yes Bankshot..

A GENTLEMANS posting style is also a major factor in if I would want to see him. Whether it's to little or way to much and the incoherent crap that comes out of his mouth..

I totally agree...and do you want to know what really bites..
Is when that male contacts you with a new made up handle because you will not see the handle he uses when posting.
��it happened 2 weeks ago to me..after the session,he told me who he really was and I spent the rest of the Evening soaking in a tub with A bottle of whiskey next me me..��

Ditto only...
A ladies posting style is also a major factor in if I would want to see her. Whether it's to little or way to much and the incoherent crap that comes out of her mouth

tbone2u · 09-20-2019, 08:27 AM

That's exactly why it's not good for ladies or guys, for that matter, to post when under the influence.

VENUSNOVA · 09-21-2019, 02:46 AM

Anyway, I'm just going to be straightforward and not candy coat an issue that has me a little bit upset.
Why because it's my personal freedom ��and if you do not like it that's okay.
It's who I am.
Brutally honest....
So to answer those of you that commented one sec..then hopefully I will get my point across and get back on my Sybian and booze ��
Allaboutthebj:
All providers are YMMV. Thats just the way it works
Wrong and stop hating because you hate my rates...you know you want to come get a bbj from me��
Texas:

I love reading your post , and as usual you bring in "something new" to consider. You are right ! I think its 100% the right of a provider to provide different levels of service. I'm not saying bad or sub-par service.
Lets be honest , not all of us ( Lord know not me ) look like Richard Gere in Pretty Women. We come from all areas of life, tall,short,med,fat,chubby,skin ny, built etc ...and lets face it..smell different too..some people just have a natural odor that might not be that pleasant while others fart roses....just saying....
Yummy..I like the way you post☺

Venus...the smart guys here figure out over time how other hobbyist are. They mostly pay attention to reviews by a few certain people because they "relate" to them. Then there are guys who actually meet and get to know other guys personally. They share but maybe not here on the open board for a multitude of reasons. Are we all different? YES....The key is aligning yourself with people who share the same values and likes and dislikes. That way there are less surprises.

Then why would a member here ( Dorian Gray) contact me from another board under a different handle requesting a visit then show up with a set attitude that was extremely negative during the visit and not to mention crazy smelly pubes and expect great service?
Knowing I'm a clean freak..I insist everyone shower first..and he did however after half an hour I insisted we cut the hour long visit short to hhour..and that is exactly the amount he brought hhrate..anyway for an hour.
Then after having 1 orgasm I insisted he leave it was unbearable staying sweet for that long..why would he want to see me after posting negative remarks towards my posts ?
Then come back and post in the mens licker room? Not so nice things..I had a regular mention it.
It has not hurt my business I do have regulars ��..but what about a hot pair of sweet balls and squeaky clean been that may have read that?!,��
After the session he starts walking out speaking in German to me and I'm like wyd?
Then private messages me from his Dorian Gray handle telling me he felt ripped off..
Wtf..he came once.and in all honesty It was pure hell..for me trying to put a happy face on such a strange character..i was uncomfortable before I knew that he had manipulated me in planning the visit.
Never would I have agreed to see Dorian Gray.
It's a shame he used Teddy25 on another board to schecule��
Why would he want to do that to Me? It was like premeditated gross.
Weird.
��whatever I'm done with that and yes I posted in the ladies licker room so that you are not able to do that to another.
Man up..why schedule with a different handle than the one you use to post?

VENUSNOVA · 09-21-2019, 02:49 AM

Slayer,
could not have said this any better...............!! Ladies think we only share info through the boards or in the Men's area...... when in fact, it's mainly shared off line....... in person.......

Yes I know this too one of your male hobby friends told me about your meets hint guy from NYC..you two are no longer friends because he said on top of your over inflated ego..you do not like to share some provides you have on the regular..��
And you also said so many bad things about me..��.and you have never ever met me...Nor will you ��

Sistine Chapel · 09-21-2019, 06:47 AM

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Originally Posted by tbone2u

Then there are guys who actually meet and get to know other guys personally

I will never understand why yall need to do this.

Sistine Chapel · 09-21-2019, 06:59 AM

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Originally Posted by VENUSNOVA

Then why would a member here ( Dorian Gray) contact me from another board under a different handle requesting a visit then show up with a set attitude that was extremely negative during the visit and not to mention crazy smelly pubes and expect great service?
Knowing I'm a clean freak..I insist everyone shower first..and he did however after half an hour I insisted we cut the hour long visit short to hhour..and that is exactly the amount he brought hhrate..anyway for an hour.
Then after having 1 orgasm I insisted he leave it was unbearable staying sweet for that long..why would he want to see me after posting negative remarks towards my posts ?
Then come back and post in the mens licker room? Not so nice things..I had a regular mention it.
It has not hurt my business I do have regulars..but what about a hot pair of sweet balls and squeaky clean been that may have read that?!
After the session he starts walking out speaking in German to me and I'm like wyd?
Then private messages me from his Dorian Gray handle telling me he felt ripped off..
Wtf..he came once.and in all honesty It was pure hell..for me trying to put a happy face on such a strange character..i was uncomfortable before I knew that he had manipulated me in planning the visit.
Never would I have agreed to see Dorian Gray.
It's a shame he used Teddy25 on another board to schecule
Why would he want to do that to Me? It was like premeditated gross.
Weird.
whatever I'm done with that and yes I posted in the ladies licker room so that you are not able to do that to another.
Man up..why schedule with a different handle than the one you use to post?

Beyond fucked up...did he really try to speak German in your presence. that must have been creepy and scary for you...There's always someone out there willing to give us a bad name for the sake of trying to act like they're part of the majority. and blend in with onboard clicks. I wish you ladies would or could do more to protect yourselves from these kinds of people. I always encourage ladies to carry a 37 special or 380 or something just in case. Keep it near by. Lots of wierdos and creeps out there.

Be careful.

tbone2u · 09-21-2019, 09:52 AM

It's ok that you don't understand why sc. Some people like multiple handles and some like real friends.

Maybe this will help you understand:

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