Angry gentleman doesn't know how to research providers!

[mjsw]

Here's the reason behind this poll:
In my life I've spent thousands on companions, but no matter how much research and experience I sometimes end up with providers that are definitely not what they were advertising (in both appearance and performance).

I hate to waste my time and money on fake providers, it is enraging. Therefore, how do you research new companions?

[pyramider]

You need to find a new hobby. How about downloading porn for fun and profit?

[mjsw]

Originally Posted by pyramider

You need to find a new hobby. How about downloading porn for fun and profit?

My wallet can afford more than a couple of memberships to hd porn websites, I need something tangible to satisfy my thirst!

How do you fuel your hobby?

[Guest022718]

Originally Posted by mjsw

Here's the reason behind this poll:
In my life I've spent thousands on companions, but no matter how much research and experience I sometimes end up with providers that are definitely not what they were advertising (in both appearance and performance).

I hate to waste my time and money on fake providers, it is enraging. Therefore, how do you research new companions?

Seriously?

I'd love to live in your world, where every restaurant steak is perfect, every car never has recalls or performance problems, every movie I choose to see titillates my senses.........

Like the above mentioned "commodities," people and experiences are different.

I research pretty well. But I've still ended up visiting some gals that didn't live up to my initial expectations or perform all the services I expected. But, strangely, I've NEVER had a BAD session. Why? Because I realize and accept that all women are different. Some I will click with better than others. And.....if I look.....there is almost ALWAYS something I CAN like about the lady. An easygoing attitude and a willingness to look for fun WITH the lady goes a long, long way.

[SA Angel]

Honestly, I understand when someone gets pissed off because a girl pictures are misleading. But I do need clarification....are you angry that the girl's performance isn't up to snuff or that she advertised a certain activities that she does not provide?

[pyramider]

Originally Posted by mjsw

My wallet can afford more than a couple of memberships to hd porn websites, I need something tangible to satisfy my thirst!

How do you fuel your hobby?

I sell black market girl scout cookies.

[Cpalmson]

Find a mistress or a sugarbaby you connect with and just fuck her. Unless of course, you enjoy variety. If this is the case, no matter how much research you do, the Forrest Gump effect comes into play. Life (providers) is like a box of chocolate, you don't know what you are going to get" For every good experience you have in the hobby, you will most likely have a bad experience-- even if you do research. If reviews are what you use, I would suggest you actually contact the reviewers of a provider you are interested. There are many times when the reviewer tends to gloss over negatives in a review b/c the review is for the masses and most likely his comments will get back to the girl. A reviewer maybe more forth coming if you contact him for a one on one assessment. If he is just sharing with you, he might be more candid and give more info than can be found in a review.

[Worldtravler]

Originally Posted by SAangel27

Honestly, I understand when someone gets pissed off because a girl pictures are misleading. But I do need clarification....are you angry that the girl's performance isn't up to snuff or that she advertised a certain activities that she does not provide?

What disappoints, me the most is all this providers running around with old pictures. Like come on really how hard is it to update your pictures, shit some been X number of years old for the last four years really? For me it's all about looks and out of all the ones that I have seen only about 4 were worth seeing again.

[Guest052616]

Originally Posted by Worldtravler

What disappoints, me the most is all this providers running around with old pictures. Like come on really how hard is it to update your pictures, shit some been X number of years old for the last four years really? For me it's all about looks and out of all the ones that I have seen only about 4 were worth seeing again.

<holds head in shame> mine are a couple weeks old. Epic Fail.. ill update now.. unless... you rather i just send them directly to you?

[Dr. Vanity]

Like someone else stated... Find a woman that u find attractive and cool.... That yall BOTH connect well together and just offer to pay her bills or pass her some cash.... Or... Hell, when you make an appointment and she's not what u expected... Say hello and goodbye lol... Also, it doesn't help to ask the lady in mind, if she's willing to meet for 10 minutes for a drink or coffee. I'm sure most women will be like... Hell no! U pay, in asian voice lol... But I'm sure their may be some that will understand... I do for instance... And let me tell you why.... I prefer longer commitments. I like regulars. The only way he will most likely become a regular... Is if we connect and vibe well... So it's a win win! And I stay under the radar for the most part haha

[mjsw]

Originally Posted by hgritstoo

Seriously?

I'd love to live in your world, where every restaurant steak is perfect, every car never has recalls or performance problems, every movie I choose to see titillates my senses.........

Like the above mentioned "commodities," people and experiences are different.

I research pretty well. But I've still ended up visiting some gals that didn't live up to my initial expectations or perform all the services I expected. But, strangely, I've NEVER had a BAD session. Why? Because I realize and accept that all women are different. Some I will click with better than others. And.....if I look.....there is almost ALWAYS something I CAN like about the lady. An easygoing attitude and a willingness to look for fun WITH the lady goes a long, long way.

hgritstoo I totally get your point, I'm not trying to get a standard experience out of every provider, I too appreciate different things in life. The problem here is not about expectations, it's about advertising themselves for what they're not. Aren't you pissed when you take time off your tight schedule to sit back and relax with a companion, but as soon as she opens the door you are like "Hey, where is the real one?!".
How do you research your companions? I tried review websites but still there are so many fake reviews out there.

Originally Posted by SAangel27

Honestly, I understand when someone gets pissed off because a girl pictures are misleading. But I do need clarification....are you angry that the girl's performance isn't up to snuff or that she advertised a certain activities that she does not provide?

Both

Originally Posted by Cpalmson

Find a mistress or a sugarbaby you connect with and just fuck her. Unless of course, you enjoy variety. If this is the case, no matter how much research you do, the Forrest Gump effect comes into play. Life (providers) is like a box of chocolate, you don't know what you are going to get" For every good experience you have in the hobby, you will most likely have a bad experience-- even if you do research. If reviews are what you use, I would suggest you actually contact the reviewers of a provider you are interested. There are many times when the reviewer tends to gloss over negatives in a review b/c the review is for the masses and most likely his comments will get back to the girl. A reviewer maybe more forth coming if you contact him for a one on one assessment. If he is just sharing with you, he might be more candid and give more info than can be found in a review.

Thank you Cpalmson, so far you have been the only that answered my question.
As I haven't been very lucky with review websites, which ones would you recommend?

Originally Posted by Worldtravler

What disappoints, me the most is all this providers running around with old pictures. Like come on really how hard is it to update your pictures, shit some been X number of years old for the last four years really? For me it's all about looks and out of all the ones that I have seen only about 4 were worth seeing again.

Worldtravler I totally feel you! That's what I'm talking about when I describe myself as angry.
From a business perspective, I understand that providers may upload ads in as many place as possible to increase their chances of being found and that it may be hard to remember each and every website, but come on keep an Excel spreadsheet updated with the website and the date in which you have uploaded the ad.

[Chica Chaser]

Originally Posted by mjsw

As I haven't been very lucky with review websites, which ones would you recommend?

There is this pretty cool one you should check out
http://eccie.net/

[Fast Gunn]

Hey, don't we have a rule about this in the board by-laws?

. . . Something about shameless self promotion is not to be permitted nor condoned.

Originally Posted by Chica Chaser

There is this pretty cool one you should check out
http://eccie.net/

[Worldtravler]

Originally Posted by Devon Derriere

<holds head in shame> mine are a couple weeks old. Epic Fail.. ill update now.. unless... you rather i just send them directly to you?

Yes your about the only one around who updates your showcase pretty often, others should take notice. No disappoints here, great service and what you see is what you get!

[mjsw]

Originally Posted by Chica Chaser

There is this pretty cool one you should check out
http://eccie.net/

Much appreciated! Never heard of it though.