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Originally Posted by Deus_Soul
I bet the lady’s love him, don`t be surprised if he ends up with one wrapped around his arms.
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more like she'll have him wrapped around her little finger but close enough. many of these girls are open to an "out" with someone who has deep pockets and can put them up like a Asian princess. they don't want to be in the biz forever and they know they have a shelf life to it. it happens more often than most people think.
how successful this is can be is about the same as the real world of relationships with a non-provider. about 50/50. they get to exit the biz with a green card in the long term possibly even citizenship. your buddy needs to be careful here. if he wants to pull a girl out of the biz as a gf that's easy enough but she might very well put the move on him for the big M, marriage. if that's what he may want, then nothing wrong with it if he pulls the trigger.
even as a gf this guy needs to be careful. the girl has little to risk, if it falls apart she just goes back to the biz. he'll be out potentially some serious money even if this dude is clocking 240k a year. you can easily overextend yourself at that level and far higher. if he marries one of these girls he'll be a father in short order to seal the deal. whether he wants that or not. these girls are master manipulators. it's part of their game. when was the last time anyone in amp world ever heard of a working girl accidentally getting pregnant? doesn't happen even with unprotected sex. they take the pill and there is that morning after pill also. these girls know how to prevent that. they are pro's at it.
now if this guy actually marries one of these girls, he's committed. them not so much. but the point is they can and will do whatever to keep the big fish hooked including suddenly and without telling this dude they aren't taking any birth control anymore. now he's married to a k girl and she's pregnant. double hooked for about 18 years no matter what happens to the marriage. these girls are savvy and will play it out as long as they can as in get that green card! and the kid if that's what it takes.
more than once i've seen these girls drop the hints. how they "hate" the biz and want out, looking for a guy that can provide for them. there is the case of the infamous "Vicky" who some years back caused a shit storm in the Dallas amp world, she was clearly looking for an "out" and i know she tried to ply her wares on me. and she was hot as hell and fucked like it too. after the 3rd session with her i left with a smile on my face and a frown in my mind. it was clear if i kept seeing her she'd keep up the pressure and that's not what i hobby for, to get pressured into a relationship. so i stopped seeing her and moved on to other girls. the field was plentiful then so easy enough to do.
not long after that, she disappeared from the scene then two posters each claimed they were seeing her. one even claimed he married her. how true is that? no way to know however see what she did? she played these two guys off each other until one gave her what she wanted, an out from the biz. all that's known is "Vicky" never reappeared in Dallas amp world again, to this day. doesn't mean she worked elsewhere later if this hookup didn't last. if it did, then let's hope they are happy with each other.
your buddy needs to decide what he wants. if he wants to play the field that's fine but he also needs to realize they'll play him. these girls will cutthroat each other for biz. they do it all the time. and one might try to hook a big fish. if he bites down on the hook he better really want it or even with a serious income it will cost him a lot and maybe more than he can afford and not just money.
My friend is addicted to these studios
