Why do we do this???

[spacejanitor]

Ok, Ok...I'm not looking for absolution or anything like that here, but I am curious as to why we are in the hobby as it were. For me, it is several fold. I think as with most hobbyists, we love our spouse and our families...I think that is a given. But, what is missing??...for me partially it is physical. My wife, is a larger woman and from a purely selfish point, she isn't as sexually attractive as a younger and thinner woman...(I am sure she could possibly say the same about me)....although I am HWP.

I think the other reason I do this, is that I like the variety. I like to have sex or sexual favors i.e., BBBJCIM as a for instance without all the hassles of having to beg for it, much less just get it because. I think there is a much better experience sexually and to broaden ones horizons, here as a hobbyist. And frankly while we do pay for our providers time (paying for sex is illegal ) it is nice to have "friends" with benefits, to be able to do what consenting adults do, then to be able to part ways and we are both satisified.

Any thoughts?

[Bigh1955]

Great question - thought about it for a while...no answers...guess I should quit and save my hobby dollars! LOL

[snowbeard]

Originally Posted by Bigh1955

Great question - thought about it for a while...no answers...guess I should quit and save my hobby dollars! LOL

+++111

[Guest121212]

Just think of all the fun you'll miss . . . Nebraska is full of great ladies, and there are some awesome ladies that stop by for a visit from time to time!

There's a running joke when this question is asked that if a lady answers anything other than "I do it for the money", that she is being disingenuous.

So . . . why do I do this? MANY reasons, amongst which is, of course, the money. However, I can say with great confidence that anyone that has spent time with me behind closed doors will tell you that I do it because I just simply love what I do, how I do it, and whom I do it to . . . and I do! And, I'm sure a lot of other ladies do too!

Kisses,

- Jackie

[jaja133]

I'm in it like you spacejanitor. Variety younger and thinner woman.

[Guest102612]

Where else can you get a adrenaline rush, excitement, fear, complete release all within an hour and love what you are doing!

[Guest090116-1]

X-box?

But I do tend to use my fingers more in the hobby.

[Guest102612]

Originally Posted by mutualpleasur2

X-box?

But I do tend to use my fingers more in the hobby.

We could use whip cream and put a x on my box!

[Bigh1955]

Originally Posted by Jackie Devlin

Just think of all the fun you'll miss . . . Nebraska is full of great ladies, and there are some awesome ladies that stop by for a visit from time to time!

There's a running joke when this question is asked that if a lady answers anything other than "I do it for the money", that she is being disingenuous.

So . . . why do I do this? MANY reasons, amongst which is, of course, the money. However, I can say with great confidence that anyone that has spent time with me behind closed doors will tell you that I do it because I just simply love what I do, how I do it, and whom I do it to . . . and I do! And, I'm sure a lot of other ladies do too!

Kisses,

- Jackie

Ahhh....the Voodoo...that you do...so well!
You can take me BCD IRL anytime! LOL

[MadiBrooke]

I always say my friends are too good for the bar sluts. They want a top notch real thing!!

[TRex1176]

I may be dating myself here, but I remember when I was a kid and my Dad took me to Baskin Robbins. Who didn't want to try ALL 31 FLAVORS? Now I can.

[Bigh1955]

Bar Sluts...Did someone mention bar sluts???! ! !
Ahh memories...my main source of entertainment in my 20's and 30's.

I had an expression I lived by when I was really horny...which was most of the time
"Go ugly early...and avoid the rush [at closing time].
It ALWAYS worked!

[jjchmiel78]

Single with to much rejection in my past. Much easier this way.

[Bairstan]

I am in the hobby because I figure if I am paying the wonderful lady she can't laugh at my little pecker and bacne.

[asdf123]

Originally Posted by jjchmiel78

Single with to much rejection in my past. Much easier this way.

This and im desperate because i havent had sex since my jr yr in highschool... i graduated june 2012 moved to another city for college dont have friends to go out and party with here so im here....and btw.... yes im legal -_-