STD Risk

[STEVE_STUDMUFFIN]

It may seem paranoid, but after hearing my SO warn my sons about the risks of even "safe"sex I am reluctant to go uncovered bbbj or do covered FS in the hobby. Could someone give me some perspective on the std risks involved with condom use such as, what if the condom breaks during intercourse or skin on skin contact uncovered by the condom. ok to pm

[LNK]

http://www.cdc.gov/STD/

Also see: https://scroguard.com/

[Herrysmith2013]

If she has open sores in the mouth (aka. outbreaks), very highly she can pass it on to you via BBBJ. If she has genital STDs and the condom breaks during intercourse, she can pass it on to you. Remember that HIV can lay dormant for weeks or years after initial exposure, meaning the infected person does not show any symptoms, she still can pass it on to you. IMHO I don't think BBBJ or uncovered sex are worth the risks of getting STDs, especially HIV. If you're planning to hobby, I recommend you use condoms every time (no matter how gorgeous and "healthy" looking she is) and get tested for STDs at least once or twice a year. Wish you luck!

[Dorian Gray]

Originally Posted by STEVE_STUDMUFFIN

It may seem paranoid, but after hearing my SO warn my sons about the risks of even "safe"sex I am reluctant to go uncovered bbbj or do covered FS in the hobby.

Soooo.... did you take the hint when your kids are only embryo's in the womb?

Originally Posted by STEVE_STUDMUFFIN

Could someone give me some perspective on the std risks involved with condom use such as, what if the condom breaks during intercourse or skin on skin contact uncovered by the condom.

Ask your doctor. You really wanna trust other people who's field of occupation isn't in the medical field.

[JONBALLS]

main thing is to always remain calm

i shaved my BALLS once and then they felt itchy

and before i could even say std

and finished working myself all up into a FRENZY

i ended up with one ball left and a slight case of the shingles.......on my SACK!

[JONBALLS]

burns to SHIT! too..... dont just jump in there to conclusions

[gimme_that]

Ask your SO about it.

[cabletex7]

Realize that it may be embarrassing to ask your SO to repeat the birds and bees lecture. So, assuming your sons are in high school and not college, could you sit in on their sex ed class?

[Fancyinheels]

Did you worry about this when you were single, Steve? Depending on how many partners you've had, and how many the lady has had, the risk is probably not much more or less than it would be in the non-Hobby world if you weren't monogamous and were a fairly randy dude.

I actually think that relations with a REPUTABLE provider/escort/companion would be safer than the half-drunk girl you pick up at the bar. We ladies know that our livelihoods depends on our health and hygiene, so we tend to take extra precautions and be more diligent about check-ups than most non-providers.

There is always going to be a risk. You have to decide how much is acceptable.

As far as BBBJ goes, the risk of contracting HIV is low. (Stomach and mouth acids are inhospitable. Oral AND kissing should be avoided after dental work.) For more info see:

http://www.aidsmap.com/Oral-sex/page/1044877/

http://www.cdc.gov/hiv/risk/behavior/oralsex.html

[Fancyinheels]

Originally Posted by JONBALLS

burns to SHIT! too..... dont just jump in there to conclusions

Wow, that jumping to conclusions thing can be brutal. I once had a young man, a college student, call me up one eve and cuss me out. I had entertained him a couple of days earlier, and he now had a dime-sized red spot that was turning into what appeared to be a blister. He didn't have it when I visited him, I knew that I didn't have an STD, I tried to tell him to stay calm and that there were many things that could cause a skin reaction, but he was beyond reasoning. (The words "disease-ridden whore" came up. ) I had to hang up on him. Wrote and told him to stop guessing and go see a doctor asap. (And I, of course, had to cancel all my danged appointments and make an appointment with my doctor to be on the safe side.) Twelve hours and a trip to the campus physician later he called back, embarrassed as Hell. Turns out he had met a girl at a party the night after me, and they had DRY-HUMPED in their jeans for God knows how long. He had a friction blister, and the doctor had a good laugh.

I was not smiling. He had the gall to ask me if I would see him again. Yeah.... That experience was one of the reasons I stopped accepting appointments from gentlemen under 30 unless they presented a really good argument. Most young men have no patience, and little in the way of logical thinking under stress.

[JONBALLS]

YES! .............................. .............................. ..............remain CALM PEOPLE!

lets not get CRAZY!!!

[JONBALLS]

oh yah,,,ive burned offa perfectly good set of radials to the cords one time heading to the doc

only to have him tell me dont spray cruex on your poison ivy nut

[LNK]

Originally Posted by Fancyinheels

Wow, that jumping to conclusions thing can be brutal. I once had a young man, a college student, call me up one eve and cuss me out. I had entertained him a couple of days earlier, and he now had a dime-sized red spot that was turning into what appeared to be a blister. He didn't have it when I visited him, I knew that I didn't have an STD, I tried to tell him to stay calm and that there were many things that could cause a skin reaction, but he was beyond reasoning. (The words "disease-ridden whore" came up. ) I had to hang up on him. Wrote and told him to stop guessing and go see a doctor asap. (And I, of course, had to cancel all my danged appointments and make an appointment with my doctor to be on the safe side.) Twelve hours and a trip to the campus physician later he called back, embarrassed as Hell. Turns out he had met a girl at a party the night after me, and they had DRY-HUMPED in their jeans for God knows how long. He had a friction blister, and the doctor had a good laugh.

I was not smiling. He had the gall to ask me if I would see him again. Yeah.... That experience was one of the reasons I stopped accepting appointments from gentlemen under 30 unless they presented a really good argument. Most young men have no patience, and little in the way of logical thinking under stress.

OMG! I SAW U YESTRDY, AND NOW MY PEINS HAS TURND BALCK AND FALLS OFF1!!

FU! FU!1 U DISEES RIDEN HORE!1!

[Guest110516]

Originally Posted by Fancyinheels

(The words "disease-ridden whore" came up. )

I am just joking. If offensive, please accept my apology in advance...

A come-back could have been, "That's disease-ridden courtesan (companion, etc.) to you, buddy!"

[Cpalmson]

To quote Pyraminder, I see a lot of porn downloading in your future.

Life is an inherently risky thing. Having sex-- protected or unprotected is probably one of the least riskiest things you can do. Take a good look at the statistics which are based on controls and other scientific methodology. The chances of getting an STD really aren't that statistically significant. Of course, using a condom will reduce the chances even further. Personally, my rule of thumb is chanced of getting anything from a BBBJ are about the same as getting struck by lightning. If she offers the BBBJ, I'm there. As for anything else, using a condom makes the most sense. Only you can decide if the risk is worth taking to go BB. Most of us don't or only do so under very special circumstances. As for the condom breaking, don't be so OCD. That is very rare and the fact you are even covered somewhat is in your favor. Like I said before, if you have to ask questions like this, then downloading porn is your best bet.