What Happens at a Meet Up?

[roaringfork]

A few weeks ago I was moved to seek some distraction from my fourteen-day covid quarantine by posting a random selfie on Tinder. I was at first of course somewhat discouraged by the confirmation of my suspicion that a fifty-something male factory worker possesses little or nothing in the way of sexual market value, but I did find a silver lining in the fact that the site looks like it might be a great place to end my eight-year hobby hiatus. I've brought myself up to speed fairly quickly on the significance of the ubiquitous terms "Snapchat," "Cash App" and "sugar daddy" (think I already knew that last one, actually), but I'm still a little in the dark when it comes to the meaning of "Meet Up." If I'm actually going to be eating the muffin of that smokin' millennial Tinder-tart who shows up on my doorstep, then this whole meet up thing looks like about the sweetest deal I've seen in my quarter-century as a hobbyist. If we're just talking here about some strip-clubbish combination of verbal and visual interaction with the lady, then well--not so much. Can anyone shed some light?

[Sherry of DFW]

no need for second guessing--just ask whatever girl you might meet exactly what it is that she wants---different strokes for different folks....

[roaringfork]

Hi Sherry! Long time, no see.


Yeah, yesterday I matched with the girl of my dreams, only to find discover that she just wanted to sell pics and videos. Just what the world needs--more freakin' porn....

[roaringfork]

....And just a minute ago I accidentally super-liked some transgender chick.


Maybe I won't do this anymore....

[regreq]

RF, I've been on a hiatus from the Hobby too, for about 3 years. Even b4 the pandemic, it just seemed that attractive options were decreasing. ---Ever more providers (and women generally) are tatted up, super-sized, and increasingly abrasive or cold personalities. Providers demanding screening also shrank the number available Providers. One day it occured to me: I'd spent weeks -- and probably dozens of hours scouring the web to find an acceptable Provider, with no luck. Decided to take a break. Its been 3 years now. Pretty much gone "monk mode".



Back when I hobbied, I did so most every week, for many years. Blew a ton a dough. Saved a lot by not hobbying. Would I re-enter the Hobby? Sure, but the choices out there just seems to be not worth the effort... What's the saying? - The juice is just not worth the squeeze.

[dallaswill]

What happens at a Meet Up?
She has something you want.
You have something she wants.
Start the negotiations.